your ex-bf deleted you from his address book. is it what a nice and gentle guy should do after breakup?
my bf (ex, now) broke up with me. he still wanted me to be his good friend; however, he needed time to get over our relationship before we start our friendship fresh. so he deleted me from his address book and didn’t want to chat with me during that time. is it what a nice guy should do to his ex after breakup?
and while in the relationship, he always remembered what bad things i did to him. should a nice guy be forgiveful enough not to care about the bad things the gf did to him?
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Yaaaahh OK !! Why would a guy wanna hold onto a girl (ex) who was mean to him ? Maybe you have the meaning of "A Nice Guy" wrong. I think you have it mistaken for a "Door Mat". If I said "Come over here, I have a surprise for you ! "and then I kicked you in ur belly. Would you remember this? Or would you be forgiving and come running over to me, every time, just to get kicked in your belly again. "one should never mistake a man’s kindness, as a
weakness"
Its what a guy does when he doesnt want to speak to you.
Well what-ever happend must have hurt your ex. Some times it will take person awhile to get over what happend through their former gf or bf. You need to accept the fact he wanted to delete you from his address book.. leave your ex to soak for awhile.
he needs time. just let it go and he’ll call u back later. if u are deleted, he will come over or sumthin in order to get ur number back. dont worry bout it. its ok. just let the time pass.
deleting an ex is completely normal, and if he says he needs time then give him time, he’ll come around when he’s ready.
ok, i think hes being mean and nice too.
cuz in my last relationship, i always thought bout the bad times in our relationship too, but i never knew why. But i think he did that so he can get over you and reli start out as friends again. It may be hard, but time will eventually take over and you guys could be good friends again.
and it depends if he IS a nice guy. was he a nice guy? but most guys wouldnt talk to you for a while after you break up and eventually they would say something.
No it’s not, But just keep your head up and move on you don’t have to put up with crap like that.Don’t sit around waiting for him to do with you as he pleases you so don’t deserve that.cheers
It’s normal.
it is very rare that your ex can just be a friend after breaking up and also it can complicate future romantic relationships in the future that both of you may have.
Sounds like he had a hard time getting over you too, which is probably why he deleted you so he can get over you.
And by the sounds of it, you sound better off without him, you will meet better guys ^^ *thumb up*
(he may call you back later, but its up to you whether you want to talk to him or not)