How to get him to forgive you!? *10 pts* :(?
Well, i really like this guy at my school. we are both in grade 9 and his names evan.
Anyways, in a nut shell- he told me he liked mee… He asked me out before, like a year back, but i didnt like him like that then… But hes had feelings for me since then…
Things were going well, but now he does not like me anymore because i "flirt" with a bunch of guys i guess… but, the truth is im just VERY outgoing and happy- i just like to talk to people….
So he "couldnt trust me as a girlfriend, cause i woudlnt be commited and would just flirt with everyone else"
i really like Evan, and i want to know how to get him to forgive me, and how to get him to like me again so we can have a relationship??!:/
thankss
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Are you flirting? Are you friendly and outgoing with mostly guys? If so, I could understand why he’s be jealous and not want to date you.
Think about it. Are you willing to not talk to other guys in a friendly outgoing manner to make him happy? If so, ask for a second chance to prove yourself. If not, its not meant to be. At least he was upfront about the situation and why he didn’t want to date you.
If you do get back together and your not flirting with other guys, and he still goes off the handle over nothing, than RUN!!! He’ll always nitpick everything you do, even when you are not doing anything wrong.
just tell him about your personality
and explain to him that you dont flirt
and try to show that you dont actually flirt
good luck
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Well, in my eyes, he should accept that about you to some extent. I have the exact same problem, and I’m a guy. It’s nothing you can help because it’s who YOU are. If he can’t get over that, then maybe you two shouldn’t be together. However, I’m not condoning "flirting" with every guy you like to talk to. You could possibly try to scale it back when talking to other guys to show him that you don’t feel like that about the others. It’s a difficult thing to do, and if he asks any more of you than that, I wouldn’t be with him. But, relationships are a compromise and require equal effort. Keep this in mind. I hope you two can work something out!!
ask for forgiveness and and show him youre capable of a committed relationship
yess
Get him somewhere alone and tell him how you feel.
just tell him basically what you said here and if he still wont give you a chance then its prob his loss
Talk with him
try to watch what u do around other guys and then make sure that he knows that u can be trustworthy in the end things will work out
tell him you want a chance and all the other guys are nothing compared to him!!
TELL HIM WHY YOU TALK TO A LOT OF GUYS!! then if you 2 do date, focus on him as the main guy in you life, he’ll appreciate that.
you shouldnt look to be forgiven for being you….!!
i have the same prob and im 20.
if he likes you he would have to trust you….and to be honest i dont think he will.
he has it in his head the realtionship is doomed b4 it starts.
you cant change for someone.
my bf got with me…having the exact same view,moral of the story he just said he cudnt be with me,because he didnt trust me and was getting jealous over me and he just didnt wana be that gui know this isnt very helpful but its the truth.
all you can do is tell him you like him, you want to be with him and knowone else but you cant help that what comes across to you as you just being friendly is flirting to him and ye can work on it.
best of luck
xox
evan probably thinks u wont b faithful 2 him bcuz u r flirting wit lots of guys. think about it if u seen him flirting wit lots of girls u would b upset also
Interesting, a 9th grade female with an ID that says Elmer. I think not.
YOU ARE THE WAY YOU ARE, THAT’S YOUR PERSONALITY, OUTGOING, HAPPY GO LUCKY, YOU ARE YOUNG, CONTINUE TO BE YOURSELF, THE PROBLEM ISN’T YOU NEEDING TO CHANGE AND HAVE HIS FORGIVENESS, IT’S HIM NEEDING TO EVOLVE AND ACCEPT YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE AS AN OUTSTANDING PERSON, HIS PROBLEM IF HE CAN’T COPE WITH REALITY AND HAVE TRUSTING ISSUES
i know is gonna be hard but u just have to tell him the truth
I would tell him the truth. Explain to him that you aren’t trying to flirt with these guys, that you just enjoy talking to people. Tell him that if you were in a relationship with him that you would watch yourself and be very careful about the way in which you interact with other guys. If he really likes you then he would be willing to accept you any way that you are. If you tell him you are willing to be careful for him it will show him how much you really like him. Even if he does not want to be in a relationship with you after you agree to this change show him by watching the way you interact with guys. He might have to see the change before he believes it will happen.