My boyfriend has naked pictures of his ex gf on his phone and I don’t know how to tell him to get rid of them?
I was playing around on his phone not trying to be nosy or anything and then i stumbled upon pictures. There were some cute ones of him him and his nephew so i decided to scroll to look through more until i started seeing about 20 pictures of his ex girfriend and more than half of them were of her naked. I don’t know how to tell him because he doesn’t know I saw them. Can anyone help?
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pay attention:
he is keeping souvenirs of his ex. this means that if/when you are his ex he will be keeping souvenirs of you as well. Your first lesson to learn from this should be don’t do anything with him that you don’t want to fall into someone else’s hands.
I’d tell him, hey I was looking at the pix you had taken of your nephew and you still have some pix of your ex on your phone. You should probably get rid of the pix or secure your phone because I’m sure that girl wouldn’t want those photos to fall into the wrong hands. Then see what his reaction is.
If he is embarassed, it could be that he forgot about them.
If he is hostile, he knew they were there and he’s not ready for serious relationship with you. continue dating him if you like but don’t invest a great deal of emotion into the relationship until you know he’s over her and ready for you.
You need to be honest and say you accidently saw those photos of his ex in his phone and ask him why he still has them, because he should have deleted those the moment he entered the relationship with you. You definitely have the right to be mad right now.
he probably 4got to delete them. if he was cheating, then he would not hav let u use the phone/
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Well if you don’t want him to know you went through his phone, you’re just going to have to keep quiet and hope that these photos are still on cause he’s forgotten they were there (you haven’t said how long you’ve been seeing each other, so don’t know if it is a long time since he was with his ex)
OR if you really can’t keep it to yourself, you’re going to have to bite the bullet, tell him you were looking at the photos of him and his nephew when you found them, and could he please erase them cause it makes you feel a bit "ick" considering he’s seeing you now.
And maybe don’t go through his phone again!
email them to me and everyone you have email addresses for
This is tricky. You obviously shouldn’t have been playing with his phone even if you weren’t trying to be nosy. However, he really shouldn’t have naked pictures of some other girl.
When you confront him, I would bet he is going to focus on the fact that you were snooping through his stuff (even if you weren’t trying to be nosy) rather than admitting he is wrong to have those pictures. I guess that’s just something you’re going to have to deal with though because you need to tell him to get rid of those pictures. It’s disrespectful to you to have those.
I guess when you talk to him, just make it clear that you didn’t mean to be nosy, but you are upset at what you came across.
I know a lot of guys (and maybe girls too) keep naked pictures of their ex-boyfriend/girlfriend but that doesn’t mean it is right.
Tell him that you were looking at him and his nephew and you were looking for more of them and while you were looking you saw the pictures. Then tell him that he can delete her from his phone or delete you from his life. If he takes long to answer just guess that he cares about a picture more than you
this is why young guys are so stupid, how in hell did that fool let you get to his phone? whats his is his, whats your is yours, no line crossing if you’re really mad at him, give him an ultimatum and you know what I’m talking about
you need to say I was looking at your pictures the other day and whats the deal with all of these naked pictures of your ex! It’s his fault that you found them because he should deleted them the moment they broke up, or at least the moment that you two started going out! You have every right to be upset with him right now!
You should confront him with it
Same thing happened to me. I found some pictures of his female friends half naked. I didn’t give a f*** and deleted everyone of those pictures. Ofcourse he got upset, but the pictures are gone. LOL !! Come to find out he was cheating.
I think your man isn’t cheating cause he let’s you use the phone. My bf never let’s me use his phone.
Just be prepared emotionally if he is cheating. It was hard for me to forgive him. He lied to me for several months.
my bf found some naked pics of my x bf in the computer. I had no idea they were still there and I ot pretty embarassed when he admitted to snooping through my stuff..
i was wrong to keep souvenirs.. so to speak
he was wrong to snoop around.. definitely
i guess you just gotta have to deal with it, he probably forgot they were still there, or not.. the point is you shouldnt go around someone elses stuff, you might find things you really wont like.
just remember, nobody is flawless.
My boyfriend asked his best friend for a naked photo of his love interest. Is this wrong of him to do and keep?
I found pict of my bf ex wife on his puter, I erased them and he still dont know. I figured he forgot but I will never pose for him..ever. Then I found later a picture of my best friend on his puter with a discusting comment written by him as though she craved him. I erased it. Porn to men is so different as opposed to what some women think. I was furious for about 2 weeks and I kept it to my self. All other categories of my bf I love. So I do check his puter and nothing has been put on there new. So if he found I erased them he has kept it to himself. Believe me I do watch him like a hawk and I have not caught him in anyother situations. So he either dont care about it or he knows enough to stay a good boy from now on. so far so good.
@Newmommyz, same thing just happened to me, my bf had naked pictures of a couple girls on his phone who he chatted with on Facebook, I found out confronted him, he took blame and is trying to get help, but all the pain and anger he cause me is making it hard to forget, it is still fresh in my brain. I am in a state of shock and can’t believe his betrayel.
This is a learning experience, I blame him more than the girls for cheating on me via online and cell phone, even if they never slept together he cheated on me emotionally with other girls…I’m taking it one day/step at a time.
yeah i have a bf who never lets me near any of his things and then one day when he was in the shower i looked through his phone and what i saw mad me wanna fly through the roof i found mad pics of girls he only kept one of me outa the 30 he had asked for and had mad pics of his exs like he must have had over 100 pics . i let it sit inside me for a mad long time and it just lingered and hurt everyday and that i looked through his computer and his texts and found him provoctually talkign to other girls and then one day i finally had it and flipped on him asking him what was the matter with him and why he did that he said it was becasue for a while he was trying to get ride of me but know randomly he has enough feelings for me to stop and he delted everything but he kept his face book and all he does know is talk to girls on their while i am work i am scared to leave him alone with a computer i am petrafied to go to work wondering what he is doing when i am not thier because seeing all the shit he has done to me before behind my back and then tell me that he has changed and then when i come home lie to my face oh yeah he is a wonderfull person who i can trust but yet he says he wants to live with me and that he wants to have a life together with me but that he wont marry me yeah i have no idea what to do and me and him have been together for over 2 years know and this has been going on the whole entire time and frankly i am sarting to get fed up with EVERYTHING
When me and my boyfriend first met, I really didn’t think about him masterbating or looking at other girls ( porn) but when I got pregnant with him and moved in with him, I found out that he would jack off every time he gets. He didn’t confess to it at first if course but then I told him that I pretended to be asleep and saw him doing it then he was like ok I’m sorry and I won’t do it again. But now he gets hard off any little thing, he is addicted to sex and I caught him watching naked girls on the computer. I can’t leave him alone anywhere because I can’t trust him and it hurts me. I hate him taking a shower alone and I wont leave him alone at the house. He told me to forgive him for doing all this but he does it so much it makes me not want to be with him anymore. I really need ur advice.
Same thing happened with me today…was looking through pics of my boyfriends dogs on his phone, and among those, i found naked pics of his ex’s. I deleted them, it’s disrepectful to me, and makes me feel inadequate knowing he had those. The pics are gone now, but they shouldnt have been there in the first place (we’ve been together for a long time), and my feelings are still hurt.
uh, same thing happened to me, but i found the pics of him and his ex doin it, thing is he had a chance to delete them, just got all his computer erased, and he specifically kept them.
I have (i think) a less serious problem, but would like advice.
I just got married two months ago, and many months ago, at the request of my new wife, deleted all the photos i had of my ex gfs (there were only 2 exes). I don’t mean naked pictures, I mean all pictures.
Keep in mind, I have an iPhone, so every picture in my ‘pictures’ folder get copied onto my phone. Thousands of pictures, hard to go through every single one. A few months before we got married, she was on my phone looking at pictures of my dog and found one of my ex (fully dressed) napping with my dog. She made a big deal out of it and an argument ensued. Then, again today, she found a photo from 5 years ago of my ex and I at a park on my phone, i thought I’d erased every pic of her, but had one remaining. She accused me of lying to her about deleting photos and said ‘i don’t know who you are’ she hasn’t answered her phone and it’s been about 8 hours. It’s getting late and I’m worried. what should I do? Is it really that bad?