I need some ex-boyfriend advice. Please help!?
I just saw my ex-boyfriend today after a month. Its so painful and I am really depressed. Does anyone have any advice on how to get over this? It makes me want to cry so bad but I am trying to resist. Can someone please help me. Thanks in advance.
First of all, I don’t have any friends, I tried to get back together but its for the best to just be friends. I have cried almost all day today and I just don’t want to hurt anymore. But I will try…Thanks!
He told me that he is interested in someone else which hurts a little. I guess I am just scared to move on.
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no harm in crying it out girl! it could even help take away the bad feelings you have inside. just think & put in mind that things happen for a reason..it is not really easy getting over a person that you have really loved most but it is still possible if you really want that to happen..Ü
Start dating
Keep driving on. Eventually the hurt will go away.
nothing but time is gonna help. Its a slow process. When you are over him you will know it.
You will continue to hurt until you replace your hurt with someone else. That is just the way the brain works, when it has nothing to do, it dwells in the past. Goodluck!
make an XXX beastiality video and SEND it to him!
see his as_s get depressed
It’s only been a month, give yourself time. Personally, it helped when I cut off all communication with them. Go out with your friends and have fun! Feel better soon.
Start dating you need it.
Promise me it will work out!!
The best thing I can tell you is to try to avoid him and any connection with him. Only time is going to make this easier on you. No short cuts this is just a part of your life’s growing process.
sometimes the only way to heal a broken heart is to find someone else for your heart to love….maybe it wont be love at first but sometimes just going out with another person helps…someone to just hold your hand and hold you will help…good luck
The best way to get over an ex-boyfriend, is to get ANOTHER boyfriend! Not just anyone, but someone whose company you enjoy. And, when your relationship develops with the new boyfriend, I can almost guarantee that the ex-boyfriend will no longer cause you to feel this way. In fact, you may wonder what you saw in him in the first place!
yes be strong hold your head up and dont let him know or see that your hurting cause to him thats probably an advantagte to hurtin you more or if you guys get into it he can use that as your weakness so keep strong for you not him
My ex G/F still ensists on dragging me back into her life for no reason and, yes, it sucks. If you think there’s no chance of getting back together, do everything you can to drop him. Throw away old stuff, delete old stuff, whatever. Read "How to Stop Your Addiction To A Person" or any other break-up book. Time is your friend on this, girl. Good luck!
GOD WORKS IN MYSTERIOUS WAYS
It is tough to forget about someone you care about. My advice is to pick up a hobby like playing an instrument. When I broke it off with my x, because she started to lie to me, I decided to start to play the guitar. I still think of her frequently but when I do I pull out the guitar and sing and jam away!
Don’t go places you think he might be. If you have to make sure you bring someone with you, it won’t feel so awkward. Surround yourself with friends and family and try to have fun! I know it’s hard but you will get through it. Good Luck Sweetie ; )
Well since he got a hold on u,u should see if he wants u back and if u do try being with him again!And if he don’t than go out have sum fun to get ya mind off of him!
Why resist crying? Let go!
It’s time to let it all out. Don’t keep it bottled up.
Crying is not a sign of weakness, it’s a sign of being human.
Do things you like to do: hang out with girlfriends, go shopping, rent some movies, work out, walk, run, etc. It is always hard seeing an ex flame. Just try to put him out of your head by doing things you like.
Date someone else and get over him and don’t date someone who reminds you of him at all.
I know it hurts now but it will eventually be alot easier. Now that you are single again get back in touch with things you like to do & make some friends & hang out.Do you honestly think that this guy is sitting around crying over you.So why are you letting this beat you down like this.Think of postive stuff in life & act on it. Mr. Right could be in your face right now & you can’t see him cause you crying over an ex . That means something wasn’t right when you was together or he would be with you now.Hold your head up & live gurl!
when you loved someone its so hard i know- then seeing them is insult to injury.
But the way i got over it was,spending time with friends – going out and having a good time.
My last guy had me real messed up, and my friend was bugging me to go to bike week with her at that time and i said – what the heck. I went and had a blast all weekend. It felt good to be hit on and flirted with- i forgot what it was to be flattered.
-hell w him chica! go treat urself to a good time – have a drink for me!!
U CAN TRY DATING THAT WILL TAKE UR MIND OFF HIM BUT IF UR CELIBATE MEANING AFRAID OF GETTING HURT AGAIN THEN TRY SUPPORTSGROUPS,UR FRIENDS AND FAMILY WHO KNOWS MAYBE THIS GUY STILL LIKES YOU. IF NOT TRY NOT THINKING ABOUT HIM.
It takes time to heal. Try to be busy doing things you enjoy. Pray for healing. I would give you a big HUG if I could. I know how you feel, I have been there, and I feel for you. Believe me it will get better. Keep thinking positive things. You will be happy soon !!
go out and enjoy yourself no point dwelling on the past the future is so much brighter for you there is so much you can do and no man should stop you from enjoying yourself,yes its bound to hurt seeing him around but if you get upset every time you see him lifes going to be really depressing for you.pick yourself up get your glad rags on and get out and enjoy yourself xx
Get out there and date. I’m not saying look for a "rebound" and use anyone or sleep around, just go out on lots of dates. It will help you take your mind off things at least, maybe help you to realize there ARE other men out there, and if you’re lucky maybe you will end up finding the right one. You will never get over it if you don’t move on somewhat.
you know what everything happen for a reason,you can call him,chat with don’t bring up the irresistible love thing. See how he values you in his life,just be friendly.Do yourself a favor don’t call always he might think you are desperate, act as if you care not about him being an ex.Take sometime do an introspection ask yourself what made you leave him than what you really want.It may help you to say the news after sometime when you realize where you really stand.
all that happened was you thought about the times you shared together…i understand exactly how you feel…it was almost like you looked up and seen him with another girl…but you must accept that this person is no longer in your life anymore….he has moved on so you need to do same…whoever said relationships were built to last…ppl break up everday…we often feel sad because we are not with that person anymore…and it hurts because we see that they have moved on without us….thats why you feel so hurt….now what you need to do is accept whats happened…and move on don’t sit around and dwell on him because he’s not dwelling on you…it may take some time for you to get over him….but as your doing so….you take care of you, stop looking into the past… start looking into the future….and in no time you will be just fine.