Have u ever known or heard that an on and off relationship would actually work after some time apart?
My ex bf and I have been on and off for a year. This is both our 1st relationship and we are both immature. He loved me alot in the 1st 6 months then i started to love him a lot after that. But once he senses that i wanna make this my last relationship and just wanna be with him he kinda changed. He broke up with me 3 times and took me 4 granted in that i always begged my way back to him. He broke up with me again 2 weeks ago, he doesnt know what he wants b/c everything seems too easy for him. So this time i stopped begging and didnt do anything to save this relationship. I was told that a friend and her bf were on and off for 3 years and everytime she tried to make it work until the last time she’s finally tired of it and didnt do anything.2 months later her bf came back and didnt take her 4 granted any more. So this is what i’m doing right now i just need some hope that this will work. I mean, he doesnt wanna see others(i believe him) and there’s no cheating,lying,drugs,alcolism,etc.
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I am torn on this question. I too was once in an on again, off again relationship for two years. But my circumstances were way different and I’m pretty sure I’m older than you (so it’s a different stage in life as well). My ex and I were great when we initially got together, then I was more into us for a long time. We were both into cocaine and the drug was more to him than I was. Once I quit and started being hard on him, he would change for a little while, but then start being a s*head again. So I cheated on him. Kind of a wake up call. And I told him about it right away. And it did wake him up, but the liberation of it all made me start to have more balls in the relationship and we spent the rest of it with him (off drugs by the way) very in love, but not willing to be responsible. He never worked or helped with bills. After two years of dealing with a guy who was almost 30 and still living with his mom (when he wasn’t staying with me), I gave up. Some relationships just won’t work. Relationships ARE WORK, but it shouldn’t be a STRUGGLE to keep one alive! Sometimes it is just better for everyone to let go.
never heard of that
You say this is both of your 1st relationship and that you are both immature. I don’t know how old y’all are but I’d say go your separate ways…the constant breaking up is because you aren’t a good match, you aren’t seeking the same things, and neither of you have had enough relationship experience to know what you want out of it or who may be a good partner for you…don’t stop at the first person you ever date…try others on for size so when you make a choice, you’ll feel more satisfied that you chose the right one for you at the time…