How to get back your ex?
my girlfriend and i recently broke up for the third time this whole summer i treated her like garbage. this last time its hit me so hard. I’ve been miserable she said she doesn’t know whether she wants me again she said its leaning more towards yes ive been a nicer person to overall everyone I sold my xbox 360 one of my hobbies and i bought her a promise ring and gave it to her and today i wrote her a farwell letter, when were alone just the two of us she acts like she used to but once i leave shes different. She says she needs space i give it to her but there might be someone else who lives 45 minutes away and can’t even drive. We’ve been together for 1 year and 4 months and im not ready to end it. Im trying as hard as i can i just dont know what to do. 
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Hi buddy
Winning back an ex is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.
Here are great steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:
Don’t Ask Her To Get Back Together
You should never ask her to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!
You’re only shot at getting her back is to do the right things that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.
But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex girlfriend attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.
So don’t ignore her texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show her that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.
Being Jealous Is Not The Way To Go
Listen to me …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it can be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.
Being Flexible Is Very Important
Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Instead, be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who doesn’t take things too seriously is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again faster then you might think.
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Tell her how you feel. Let her know you will change if given that one more chance.
While you can’t get back with her against her will, it’s really good that you express her feelings to the girl. Keep doing what you’re doing, until she gives you an answer. But once she does, you need to respect it, even if the answer is no.
You guys should go to lunch and you tell her that your not ready to end it . your helluh sweet ! you sold your Xbox 360 for a promising ring ?
nobody would ever do that to me
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let it go..i know i sound like a dick, but it’s for the best. been there and believe me..let it go. if she was the one, you wouldn’t be lookin for an answer…you would already know it.
you should give her flowers, write a poem or do something sweet. Get it broadcasted on the tv or at a game or something crazy that will let her no for sure that you are sireice. Good luck babe.
i think it’s so sweet that you got her a promise ring. I wish my boyfriend got me one
any who. Maybe you should just give her some time then she’ll realize that she doesn’t want to end it as well. Just give it time[:
Give it awhile she will come around and try to be more respectful to her. I know some women can be a pain in the neck but if they really love you that will be the deciding factor whether they come back to you.
If she says you treat her like garbage try being niceer to her. Just give her some time and space, Tell her you’ve changed and want to prove yourself to her! Long distance relationships are always hard. Just try and make a date that you guys can hang out like every friday ask your parents if they can meet half way. Its only like twenty minutes. Good Luck to you and your gf!
kill her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Your just going to have to keep proving yourself.
Tell her how you feel and you know you treated her like garbage and that your sorry, and you want to prove you can provide her for ALL her needs, emotional, and whatever.
Perseverance, and it’s going to take you a while.
you selling your xbox for her is extremely sweet, so good job there! i know its hard but make sure you lay off a little bit. when you talk to her dont bring up other guys you think she likes and dont constantly complaine about how things are terrible without her…you may think it helps but trust me, your making it worse. be your happy normal self with her no matter what. act like your fine without her and maybe she’ll realize what she lost. good luck!
dude. ur young and stupid…no offense, so was i.. but the biggest mistakes are trying to go back to the past and get the "good times" back. u were an ass so forgive urself and move on. trust me i have been more pitful than u at times, but fucking stop thinking about it so much. LIVE in the moment. workout, go running, do something to better yourself and gain some confidence for the next girl. there will be plenty. This ex is filled with drama, and i suggest that you stay away. make goals and have dreams of something bigger and better. you can do it. you are the key factor of your happiness, not just some girl. let it go bro. seriously. but if u do want her back. work on urself write out what you want and think of rational ways of doing so. Selling xbox not a good idea. someday u will laugh so hard at yourself.
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