Can i have some ex boyfriend advice? (not mine, lol, for the girl i like)?
Ok, this is the story, i’ll try to shorten it as much as i can. Alright i like this girl, i’m gonna call her Charolette though it’s not her real name. Alright, two months ago, i asked charolette out. she denied me. but a good friend of both of us talked to her for me and found out that i would have a chance with her, but she didn’t want a boyfriend right now. Alright, so i decided to stay her friend and see how things went. well, the reason that she broke up with her ex boyfriend was because she thought that they were better just as friends. so i decided to act romantic to show that i can be more than a friend. We saw twilight together (with her friend) and afterwards when we got outside, i hugged her to keep her warm, which i asked to hug her so that it wouldn’t seem awkward. also i wrote her a poem and read it to her, and she loved it. ok, so i recently found out that not only will she not go out with me because she doesn’t want a boyfriend, but also because she isn’t over her ex boyfriend which treats her like shit and SHE broke up with HIM. i’m so confused. my heart still has feelings for her, but my mind tells me to move on. and i think that she is happier when she is with her ex than when she is with me, but she DOES like me. I don’t know what to think, should i just hang in there and keep trying? or should i just move on even though there is no other girls that i like and it is rare that i find a girl that i like? if i hang in there, she could go for her ex again and break my heart again, and if i give up, i’ll be alone for a while. also, it’ll probably be hard to find someone else because i’ve never dated before. A lot of people tell me that i’m hot and i could easily find someone, but she is the only girl that i would be happy to be with. advice is appreciated.
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Part of the problem is that you are trying too hard right now. If she isn’t over her ex, and you try to put the moves on her, it is going to turn her off / make her miss him more. Also, she is smart for not wanting a relationship if she isn’t over the last one- if she wasn’t over him and started dating you, issues from their relationship would make their way into yours. All you can do right now is be her friend, and stop trying to "convince" her. The sooner you figure out that women have to figure things out on their own, the better. You can’t make her get over him, only she can find a way for herself.