What do I do, my wife does not trust me at all. How do I save my marriage?
She tells me that I can even lie on the name of my dead mother, I love my mother most in this world and just the mention of this makes me so depressed.
She gets angry very soon, I have dealt with this with lot of patience; but she does not appreciate that. I get to hear complaints and bickering about smallest disagreement I have with her. If I don’t do what she says or don’t agree with her viewpoint, she feels that I am trying to belittle her. It’s so severe that if I ask her to do any task of responsibility, then she complains that I am giving this only so that she can fail and I can belittle her.
Anyone with experience in this situation? Where could I be going wrong.
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Hi, aren’t you to dude that said you can’t satisfy your wife either? She wants this, that, and the other?
Well it’s the same. She can never be satisfied. There are some people in this world for whom you can sell your soul to the devil for them and they still won’t be satisfied. Obviously she came from a family of lying, conniving folks who only look out for themselves, and no one else. They love no one, not even themselves.
You wife doesn’t believe in herself, is a lying person herself, hence she thinks everyone else is like that. You do all of this for her, and it is still not enough.
You love her to death, would do anything for her, trust her and is honest with her, and she can’t deal with it because she has never been around honest people. You have to be extremely patient with her – but stand your grounds. Don’t ever let her push you around. Stick to your guns, be patient but firm with her. Point out her mistakes, but be loving about it.
It would be hard, but it is possible. All may not be lost yet.
If after years of trying to help her she still doesn’t change, say byebye to this one. Some women (and men) don’t know how lucky they are sometimes. They may have to loose it in order to appreciate it. Good luck.
Maybe your wife"s a lttle depressed,Try spoiling her/take her out for a meal or something..
counseling, counseling, ASAP
you are making it sound like its all her mistake…also tell what you did…did she catch your prior flirting?are you continuously lying to her?ask her why she dosent trust you and work on it
If you two can’t communicate effectively I recommend a marital retreat weekend or some couples counseling. Either one could help you both learn to communicate better and strengthen your marriage. Good luck!
Your wife’s attitude upsets you but it seems that you love her a lot.
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i congratulate you for you patience and understanding.
try to talk to her like you have just did and i’m sure she will understand…because you message was very clear, or for example try to show her your question here and our answers..and she will understand what you feel for her…no need to remind you that womens need love words and lot of feelings
sorry i’m struggling with english
i’m learning it
good luck
She sounds like a control freak and she doesn’t have control of you.
Either get on all fours and be her dog, or stand up and be a man and tell her you’re not going to take it anymore.
She either knocks her crap off or your outta there.
I, myself, as a wife have huge trust issues because of my past. Not as bad as this sounds but bad….start by asking her on a date, compliment her when she least expects it. Don’t just compliment how she looks but how the house looks, how the food tastes, how she smells, etc….Be very calm for awhile and when she starts acting like that just go up to her, hug her, smile, and say i love you. It’s about not letting her get upset, and not letting her get you upset. maybe next time you are going to ask her to do somthing around the house, instead ask her to help YOU do it and actually do it with her.
wine and dine her make her feel like she is the only women on earth that really matters
My cousin was also facing problem with her marriage. Someone recommend me this e-book, although like anybody else I was very skeptical about it but my cousin says it helped her a lot. I didn’t know very much about your situation but you should give it a try.
http://budurl.com/savemarriage