My ex dumped me to be with the person he cheated on me with. How do I get him back?
The thought of him moving-on so quickly like i never existed is horrible.
The thought of them having sex every night in his bed makes me sick to my stomach.
The thought of hi mspending 2 months bonding together makes me ill.
I was in love with my boyfriend and he does this to me?
How do I get him back?
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You want him back? My dear, have you gone insane?
What sort of a relationship would you have if he came back? Are you actually thinking that he would suddenly be a changed man and never cheat on you again? Would you be so self-deluding that you would believe him?
Look, I have no doubt that you’re telling the truth when you say you loved him. But my dear, he didn’t love you nearly as much.
Most people get angry when they discover they’ve been cheated on. THAT would be a more healthy emotion for you to be experiencing now, rather than this blind obsession.
You want him back only because the familiar is comfortable.
Get on with your life, dear, and don’t look back.
You don’t. You deserve better than that.
By moving on with your life!
Babe! You don’t want to get him back!? He is a huge peice of shit! There are so many better guys out there.. You will find a good one sooner or later! Promise!!
He ripped you out of his heart! You don’t want him back. You don’t need him back. You deserve better than him.
ask your self, do you even WANT him back???? he obviously isnt thay onto you. sorry. you need a good bf that will love you and wont leave you. if you actually get him back, he might just do it again when another person comes around.
Don’t get back at him. You will be only hurting yourself. Just Forgive and forget. Maybe you will find someone better <3 You deserve better than dat! Just congratulate yourself this happened b4 it got tooo serious. Hes a cheater and Karma is a Bitch lol
i really think ur q should be how do u get over it. obviously he doestn wanna come back and is in love with this other person (evne if they are both assholes, its the facts).. it DOES hurt and its awful -ive been there myself. the best thing to do is try to keep your head up while the grieving process runs its course and a wanring – it IS going to be rough. try to engage in positive activities so u dont get too depressed.
Why would you want this cheater back? And even if by some miracle he did come back, you would still be checking up on him. There are jerks everywhere, sorry you had to meet one but that’s life. Move on.
Oh, be careful what you ask for.
Why do you want someone who treats you so badly?
Like someone else said, you deserve better, much better. See this as a lesson learned and move on. You are better off without somebody like this.
Good luck.
he broke ur heart twice
u dont deserve that n he will figure that out later
u need to move on
u don’t get him back mate… sorry but thats the hard truth, i don’t mean it in a horrible way at all!
If u try to get him back, he will resent u more for wanting to break him and his new partner apart…and he’ll think that ur desperate tbh.
And anyway, why would u want him back if he cheated on u??!! i dont know u at all, but to be honest his a dick, and he’s way too good for u!
Sorry for the hard truth, but hope it helps, and good luck
xx
he obviously didnt care so why should you. get back out there and find someone better that will give you what you deserve. the longer you hold the grudge the harder it’ll be on you.
torture and mayhem
so Sad ;/
my ex-boyfriend cheated on me and still maintaning his innocence until i found pictures on the net.
i never would forgive that, i lost all the love in a sudden because i know i don’t need that kind of man messing up my life doesn’t matter how good he was or what not.
you shouldn’t go back to a cheater. he knows how to do it to you this time. he’ll do it again. you aren’t married yet and you shouldn’t deal with all these. trust me you deserve better dear. seriously!
I sympathise with you 100%. I am going through this myself. I would take what other people say here with a pinch of salt because I want my ex fiancee back too. She cheated and left me for him.
I feel your pain. Yes, why do we want them back? because we feel we can forgive and would likethe opportunity to try. I dont know how you wil get him back but dont pester him. I dont have her back and we dont have much contact really, only for practicle things to sort stuff out
What I will say is give him space, maybe make him try miss you by not contacting him. Believe me!! I want to phone her now, tell her how much i love her…but i know she wont care…i have already tried that a few months back and it hurts to be rejected.
All we can do is keep our fingers crossed because chances are it wont last with this new person and then maybe he/she will realise what hey lost. Go out and date, I am. You dont ave to get into anything full on, im certainly not but the company is nice to have.
I really really wish you the best of luck in this terrible situation. Will they cheat again? well…i dont know…if he comes back truly sorry then maybe not for fear of loosing you if he did it again. Im almost sure my ex hadnt in the past because i would ave seen the common signs just like i did this time.
my head tells me move on, find someone better because i was treated like dirt, but my heart tells me…i love this girl…i want to forgive this girl…I want an opportunity to try. Its a waiting game and only time will tell.
STOP chasing him, it will push him away, it did with me. I have it in my head she will probably nver come back out of shame and im trying to move on and deal day to day. If she comes back, its a bonus and one I will work slowly at.
Maybe you should do the same
Take care hun xx
hello, i dont know what to say, my partner of 2 years cheated with his ex, i suspected it for a while, we have a 5 month old baby. This didnt stop him and she was the first person he told after he was born. I did the worst thing and looked at his mobile as he pushed me so far away and turned me into someone im not. I saw all the messages and pics, hes been talking his kids and our son to see her, and theyve been sleeping together, i confronted him and he denied it all and said im a physco for always accusing him. This all happened yesturday so its so raw and painful right now. I know i should move on, but have done the beg for him back crap and ive apoligised even though ive done nothing wrong. I would love him back but i know he wont stop loving her. I think its because we have a baby together, he never treated me that well tbh, so i dont know why this hurts so much. I feel like ive lost my best friend as well as my partner.
i sit by my phone hoping he’ll call, but he dosnt. I have to let him go and just hope it gets better and ill take it hour by hour if i have to. Good luck
hello, i dont know what to say, my partner of 2 years cheated with his ex, i suspected it for a while, we have a 5 month old baby. This didnt stop him and she was the first person he told after he was born. I did the worst thing and looked at his mobile as he pushed me so far away and turned me into someone im not. I saw all the messages and pics, hes been taking his kids and our son to see her, and theyve been sleeping together, i confronted him and he denied it all and said im a physco for always accusing him. This all happened yesturday so its so raw and painful right now. I know i should move on, but have done the beg for him back crap and ive apoligised even though ive done nothing wrong. I would love him back but i know he wont stop loving her. I think its because we have a baby together, he never treated me that well tbh, so i dont know why this hurts so much. I feel like ive lost my best friend as well as my partner.
i sit by my phone hoping he\\\’ll call, but he dosnt. I have to let him go and just hope it gets better and ill take it hour by hour if i have to. Good luck
Basically, what most people are saying is true. You may still miss him, but the healthiest and best thing you could do is move on and eventually find someone else who isn’t going to cheat on you. Even if you did get back together with this guy, he will likely cheat again eventually since you’ve taught him already that you’ll tolerate it.
You can’t trust him anymore. Not only did he cheat, he left you to be with someone else. He has no respect or love for you.
Move on. One day you are going to wake up and think, Why in the heck did I even want him back? He’s a traitor.
And no doubt he will cheat on her or her with him. They both deserve the karma coming to them.