I am trying win back my ex wife. She cheated on me and is still seeing him. she does still love me Please help
My wife cheated on me with the guy, and she is still with him even after she had out marriage dissolved. I know she still loves me a great deal and I know she knows she has made a mistake. I am trying to win her back from this guy and prove to her how much I love her, but I do not know what I should do. She is the love of my life and I hers and I know we are soul mates. Even after she left me and then had out marriage annulled she still tells me that I know her better than anyone else ever could or will. It has been about 7-months since out annullment, but I am running out of time to win her back since this guy is in the AF and I was medically retired from the army, but I am fully functional so that was not the problem, but he will be completing his training soon and she has said she is going with him. I am worried that if I do not act soon I will lose her forever. Please help me as I would appreciate any advice that helps me win back the love of my life. Thank you.
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Move on. Obviously she doesn’t want to be with you or she would be. Forget about her, you sound pathetic and that’s not flattering.
Dude your gonna have to get over it. My x cheated on me with her boss. Dr XXXX. She ended up marrying him and believe me man, with a little time you be all set.
Find some hotty and bang the shiiiiiit out of her for a couple of days. You’ll feel better. I promise.
Also shes a tramp for cheating in the first place. We are the only ones allowed.
Don’t you think if she wanted to be with you she would? Not trying to be mean.. i’m just saying if she realized her mistake she would leave him and go back to you.. Don’t you think? Good Luck!
If she still loved you she wouldn’t have cheated
I will absolutely bnot give you advice to win this manipulative, cruel bitch back. If she "knows she made a mistake" why isn’t she back with you? She is stringing you along in case she needs to use you later. Whatever you do, don’t pay any of her bills for her. Run away and be glad it’s over.
Okay time for you to move on. SHe is trying to be nice but she left you. SHe is with him for whatever reason she is. Leave it be. If you were that important to her she would have stayed with you and never cheated. SHe is selfish and only wants what she wants – you need to get over it and move on with your life or your just going to just keep getting hurt!!!
let her go and move on with your life.life is too short for these kind of games.
I just answered a similar Q with a similar A. You have to tell her!!!! Tell her she is the love of your life and you forgive her for what she did. (Honestly, she prob feels guilty for destroying the marriage and decided to stay with the homewrecker out of guilt) She may feel she doesn’t deserve you, but still loves you with all of her heart. Now is the chance to find out. Proclaim your love for her in a special way and pour your heart out. (you’re going to feel better no matter what.) The sooner the better- I know your heart must be in agony and you need to release all of that tension whether you win her back or not! Honest!!!!
then jsut cheat on her and then ask her how she feels about u cheating on her. if she dose liek it then u cna tell her that u don’t liek it it that easy!!
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Sorry, I am sure this isn’t what you want to hear but here goes anyway. You have to let her go!! You are divorced. I am sure you are in a lot of pain and you love her but she isn’t coming back. It doesn’t matter what you do, she’s not coming back. I hope that she does move because it will help you heal. I know it doesn’t feel like it right now, but the more distance between you and the less you communicate with her, the better off you will be and the sooner you will be able to move on. She has moved on and you have to do the same for your own sanity.
Lay it on the line…. be as open and honest as you can possibly be. It is hard to put your heart on the line, but sounds like you have no other option or the luxury of time…. Ask her to meet you so you can talk… bring her favorite flowers and tell her everything you just said…. if she really loves you and she hears how much you truly love her straight from your heart no games she may come back. If you don’t give her the chance to truly hear your feelings you will never know what could have been….. no regrets – lay it on the line!
Good Luck….. hope it works out.
Google – Cucan Pemo. She wrote a book on how to get back with your ex – if that is what you want. It also contains other information on how to live life well.
I know how bad it hurts to want to be with the person you love. But what good it the love when that person does not love you the same. You sound like a very loving person and you may be waisting it all on someone who may never love you 100% in your life time. You only have one life. Why waist it on trying to prove to someone that you are the "one" for them. If she does not know it by now then she will never know. I say let her go and if she is really meant to be with you then she will return. Move on with your life. Sometimes people in the situations use the others affection because they want to be wanted by someone. It sounds like she is playing head games with you. Sorry, hope it turns out.
I am sorry that you are struggling with this, but do you really want to be with a woman who cheated on you, had your marriage annulled and is still with the guy that she cheated on you with????
She is stringing you along in hopes that you will sit on the back burner waiting for her in case things don’t work out with the new man.
She is using you. If you were really the loves of each others lives, you would have both respected each other enough so that no cheating would have occurred.
I am sorry if this sounds cruel, but you need to give up on this woman and move on with your life, she is enjoying keeping you under her thumb waiting for her to return to you.
This is the exact reverse of what many men are known for doing, and the outcome is the same; the old saying is once a cheater, always a cheater.
Please move on with your life, and you will find another woman who will love you for who you are and respect you because of the love.
I wish you the best.
Sorry but I couldn’t even finish reading this. You are very confused guy. She needs to pursue you not the other way around. Get some respect for yourself. That is not love. Sorry….
If this woman loved you, she wouldn’t be planning to leave with another man. Don’t you get that? Be glad you’re rid of her and move on.
Friend this sounds like one of my faveorite quotes and it applys to you-
" If you love someone let them go and if they don’t come back they never loved you but if they do come back love them forever" Let her go. and work on yourself.
Your wife doesn’t want you and she doesn’t love you anymore – can’t you figure that out???
She sounds like a lying slutt – tell her to go Fcuk herself and move on to someone else!
Why the heck do you want her back? So she can do it all over again? Why not find and date some nice women who can treat you with a little respect? Somebody so interested in you that she wouldn’t dare cheat on you?
Doesn’t that sound so much healthier?
Man you are a sucker.this woman has made her choice and is enjoying every bit of it and you are still hanging on because you do not have a back bone.She does not LOVE you.if she did another man would not be digging into her morning noon and night while all you can do is lay in bed and hope.She has you twisted around her little finger while she is getting her groove on hoping that if things don’t work out you will be there to break the fall till she finds another warm bed.You are a good man Charlie Brown go out and find yourself a good woman.
OOP don’t get me started
As the great Juevnile once quoted "Let her go dawg.. that ain’t yo hoe dawg.."
Personally, coming from a woman whose been in the same situation.. let her go. I let him go. See pass the bullshiiit and focus on whats important.. you! Call a chick that you might know and bang her for the weekend. Get her outta your head. You’re probably not in hers.
Good lord man, can’t you get the message. She divorced you for another man. She did this of her own free will. She is where she wants to be…with him, not you.
I’ve never seen such a serious case of denial. Accept the facts, no matter how much you don’t like them…and move on with your life.
I was in a similar situation. The more I tried, the more she backed away. She said she was filing for divorce and I was devastated to say the least. She became angrier and meaner toward me by the day. I finally told her "I give up" I have tried all I’m going to and I don’t want to be with a woman who doesn’t want me. I also told her brother and sister that I had had enough and was done trying. Within a few days she must have realized that she may be making a mistake and started to put real effort into salvaging what was left. Now 6 months later she said she would be lost without me. Its odd how when you finally give up and start planning you own future how things can change in your favor. I would let this woman know that you decided to move on with your life without her. Let her know you don’t want or need all the drama or a cheater. Let her go. I see people here all the time say once a cheater always a cheater. I don’t believe in that at all. My wife was a cheater. She now tries to spend all her time with me like she did before all the infidelity started. Its like a whole new life together. Just make sure you stand tall for yourself, be independent and strong. If she doesn’t come back, then your better off without her. Good luck.
(Hey I know some Stokes)
If she really loved you and she knows how you feel about her
why is she moving away? Have you asked?
I am divorced and there would be nothing on this Earth that could make me take my husband back, but if you feel like trying here’s some advice…
1) BE ROMANTIC. Light some candles, buy some wine, get floweres , clean your house.
2)Invite her to dinner. After she accepts and you have a date the night of the date put on some good love-making music, (this is where the clean house comes in)Set-up the house with the candles, flowere petals…ect. Invite her in for a glass of wine
3)PUT IT DOWN! Asoon as she enters start the cd pour the wine and make love to her like you mean it, for HOURS . Don’t stop until she is thanking the good Lord for you. Get some Viagra if you have to.
4) TREAT HER TO BREAKFEST. In the morning take/make her breakfeast.Then eat her for breakfest. thats right do it again ,and again and agian…Until she begs you to take her back.
p.s. make sure you have no health problems before you take the Viagra!
That is a bunch of BULL SHIT! If she really loved you she would’ve kept her legs closed on top of that she still fu’king!N-E Way if you really wont her back remember 2 important rules #1If ain’t new it’s through.keep your sex life new exciting go get some porn watch it and do some shit to her you aint did before.Get some oil and butt beads some shit like that basically when you get her in the bedroom fuck-up her understanding.#2A women all ways wont what she can’t have play like you don’t wont her when she call you tell you gotta go get ready for a date keep a good distance then get in the room a few days later and the rest is up to you good luck.
Why in the world would you want her back? Move on. Don’t you deserve better?
Hey I got to let u know that sucks, she does sounds pretty heartless. but if u want her back there is only one way. u have to act like your happy alone, and it does not really bother u. infact give a fairwell mayby even a parting gift. don’t contact her for any reason and when she tries to contact u don’t ignore her, just act like your to busy to talk or care what she has to say.it will confuse the Hell out of her, she will then sob in her mistakes, and guilt then Come crawling back. there is only few things that attract selfish women. one being financial independence nice car money house and only yourself to spend it. women like that want that in a man. two being confident, if she is attractive she will not be used to being brushed off like an annoying fly. and thee wich is always last on there list. attractiveness they want outgoing, they want tall, and the weight is only an issue if u don’t have one and two things I mentioned first. problem with these women is they are dumb and immature and always fall for the same things they will always look for the next best thing always u can never keep them happy sorry but get her back screw her and send her packing it will make u feel much better and believe me she will never leave u alone after cause she will always want what she cant have but goodluck buddy
Oh one more thing if she does leave keep in touch and act like life is great and u met someone new and that u are happy for her believe me she will come back as faster then she planned in leavong lol