He says that I did a 180 change and that it’s not fun anymore and that I didn’t care for his feelings. So he no longer has any feelings for me. I still am so much in love with him, that I think I’d take him back regardless of what has happened … what to do? He doesn’t understand the stress of planning wedding, wants nothing to do with planning, can not answer any wedding related questions and is hypocritical in his reasons for calling it off …
I did give him time, a whole month – actually a little longer, at the end, when I didn’t bug him at all, and after I tried to explain the stress I was under, telling him I understand how he feels and wanting to talk/work it through. I apologized and took 100% responsibility, I know this took over, but he said he no longer wants to fix it, that it’s too late … It just does not make sense … and it hurts so much!
I know that this planning took over) and I only saw him about twice a week, because of our work schedules and (work related) traveling), but when I asked that he share and help, I got nothing in return. He still wants to live his life as if we weren’t planning a wedding … he’s changed too – of course he says it’s because I made him change, and that he is not responsible. I can’t take all the blame, although it seems I have … he was my best friend, my greatest love, now it’s all gone …
I do/did want a marriage with him, not a wedding – I would have LOVED to just elope or have a small ceremony in the back yard with just family. This was going to be lifetime … I think someone here made a strong point, maybe our foundation wasn’t strong enough. My world is crumbling, and I don’t know that I am that strong. But for now I have to be, because I have to call all the vendors and all the family and friends, and I am left with selling the rings to pay for everything that is outstanding. This just plain sucks! Seven years of our lives – gone in the blink of an eye!


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