Should I take my ex boyfriend back if he cheated twice?
I finished with my ex boyfriend of 5 months last week because I found out he had a one night stand at a party when I was on holiday. I really love him and I really wish we could be together again but I don’t think I could trust him much longer, however he has been threatning to kill himself if I don’t take him back, and its really confusing me. This isnt the first time he has cheated, he cheated a week into our relationship with one of his ex girlfriends. What should I do, should I take him back? If not, how can I get over him?
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My gf cheated on me twice, I surprisingly still care for her and want her to be happy.
Thing is, you will never trust him the same after the SECOND time he cheats on you
first time he cheated he was most likely having difficulty getting over his ex, and it is easier to forgive him for this because it would have been tough on him, However the second time he cheats on you is disrespectful to your feelings and you need to know that if he really cared for you then he wouldn’t have done it again.
Knowing this alone will show you that you need to move on with life, you deserve better than this guy who doesn’t respect your feelings (probably doesn’t understand them either) since he’s a lieing cheater who thinks it’s all just a game.
nooo once a cheat always a cheat
Definitely don’t take him back! That’s bullshit! Dump him and spend more time with your friends having fun.
do not go back to him. he cheats and obviously has depression and self esteem issues. you don’t need to be caught up in that. move on
absolutely not! once a cheater always a cheater..
the question you should be asking is, is my selfestem that low that I want to take back a guy who keeps cheating on me insted of finding a guy that would not cheat on me because he actually cares if it hurts me?????
Don’t take him back.
It will happen again.
I don’t think you love him, probably an infatuation, disillusioned.
It might be hard to get over him,but there are plenty more men out there.
I don’t think you should, he will just break your heart again. If he cheated twice already there’s no guaranteeing he wont again. If he is threatning to kill himself dont listen. If he does thats his own stupidity. not your fault. Try getting to know other guys and be opened minded xD
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No, don’t take him back, he’s manipulating you with his suicide threats; that’s pretty disgusting and very immature.
Get out and about with your friends.
He’s a loser.
Good luck.
if i were you, i’d definitely not take him back cos he friggin cheated TWICE. what wss he thinking whn he cheated? Was i on his mind? did he think of my feelings? all these questions would just bounce to me.
if you’ve really made up your mind to leave him, just ignore him cos he’s the one tht was unfailthful.
a relationship without trust would never work out.
keep reminding yourself tht you’d be better out without him and that you can find someone worthy of you.
I don’t think you should got back together with him because hes doesn’t seem very trust worthy. But scene hes seems to cry out mentally and scene you still like him maybe you can try to be friend or still hang out. but don’t let him pressure you into something your not ready for.
Ok 1st off I am a guy. I have been in many relationships. There are a million others out there. In most cases of a threat to kill oneself. There is no threat the just do it. He is a classic manipulator. Sorry doing this on my iPhone no spell check. Anyway I myself am a manipulator. We are a very scary breed of men. We will do everything right and just when we know we have you we will start to stick our toes in the water. We will feel u out see what your reaction is to things we will escalate a fight that was brought on by somthing we did and by the end of it u feel like you are the bad guy. We will warp your sense of selfastem. We make you fall so fast for us that you can never think of yourself with out us. We are also 100 times higher of being a addict alcohol, drugs, sex, porn. Any of the 190 known additions. I was a alcoholic. We look for people that have codepenant issues. We also have a strong tedancy to be violant. So I hope this helps. P.S we never change without help. You can’t change him. Run and don’t look back. I promise u he will rape your mind.