My fiance broke up with me? but she still wants stay with me?
My girlfriend we were engaged but she broke up but she still wants to live in my apartment with me she broke up with me because she said we don’t spend enough time together, she said she just needs time to think about out relationship but I make time for her everyday after I get off work I have two jobs. She doesn’t have one yet she just stays home. I don’t know why she would brake up with me and still want to live with me, and needs to think about our relationship?
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YIKES – what a LOOOSSERRR. She has the NERVE to complain when SHE doesn’t even leave the house all day and you work TWO jobs? MAYBE if SHE had a JOB and some outside interests, she would not have the TIME to worry about how often you babysit her.
She is SELFISH – the ONLY thing that matters to her, IS her. NOW, she is USING you because obviously she has nowhere else to go. She has no intention of doing anything any different or to fix the relationship – she is just saying that so you do not do the RIGHT thing, and demand she LEAVE.
Dude – you do not kiss her feet enough, you do not worship the ground she walks on, AND you SHOULDN’T anyway.
THROW HER OUT and tell her to go "think about it" somewhere else.
Send her home to mommy, then. If she "broke-up" with you, then this shouldn’t even be a debate.
No I think that is totally unfair to you, sounds like you did make time for her, just that working two jobs, hardly gives you time for yourself. She can’t have her cake and eat it too.
Dump her
Sounds like she is waiting for something better for her to come along
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Sounds like she moved in with you merely to get out of her house. I’d want the ring back……And send her packing……You”re being used, big time……♥♥
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I thought it just might be what you were looking for and I hope this helps for your situation.
Check it out!
I know everyone is different and each situation is also totally unique, but I figured it was relevant for this particular situation.
http://www.everythingaboutlove.info/Save-Your-Marriage-Stop-A-Break-Up-Get-Your-Ex-Back.php
Maybe she has no where else to go
jacks right
she will have plenty of time to think when she is walking home to mommy.
SH__ __ or get off the pot.
A fiance is a guy. Get your story straight.
A woman’s perspective towards your fiance:
1. She is confused, and obviously too immature to be ready to commit to you
2. She using you as her ‘pillar’ until she finds a better deal
3. Either way, kick her out!! Regardless the reasons she broke up with you, you should not allow her to cling onto you for any form of support like a leech, becos since she initiated the split, it means that you are no longer responsible for her anymore, and you should not
Read some responses here to your dilemma, search yourself, trust your instincts, and you decide. You are the mature adult here. The ball is in your court.
Good Luck!!
I think she is just using you, for a place to stay and money. You should kick her out of your house and find a new girlfriend.
LIZ A man who is engaged to be married calls his partner fiancé; a woman engaged calls her partner fiancée.
It doesn’t make any sense to me. I wouldn’t want to live with someone while being broken up. She’s not working she should have more than enough time to think while your working and she’s sitting around not doing anything. Sounds like she wants you to be her sugar daddy and have you there when she wants a little action, but not make a real commitment to you. Maybe she just has cold feet and is freaking out. Find out what’s really going on with her or tell her if you aren’t going to be together then she needs to move out.
She doesn’t want to give up her free meal….YOU! How else is she gonna support herself? Here you are with 2 jobs and she has none. If you’re gonna be dumb enough to let her get by with this, she’s gonna be smart enough to let you.