Wearing your broken off engagement ring?
I am no longer engaged for about 8 months…however I LOVE LOVE my ring. Everyone always wanted to see it.
Some of my girlfriends think it is a waste to just sit in the box. I do too and do not want to get the ring re-designed.
Some think it would be just fine to wear it on my right hand…what do you think?
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I agree, why let a nice ring go to waste, wear it as you please. Things nothing wrong with putting use to it.
i would wear it on my right hand too!
I don’t blame you for wanting to wear it. I love mine too, but you really should wear it on your right hand. You never know, you might meet someone else that gives you one you love and you can turn the old one into earrings.
Wear it. Put it either on your right hand or have it altered to fit on your middle finger. Totally wear it. I wear my grandmother’s engagement ring on my right hand all the time. There is nothing wrong with that at all.
if your broke of the engagement then your a bitch for keeping it
Shouldn’t you have returned the egagement ring?
I say don’t wear it and give it back.
If the guy was smart, it should be a CZ ring.
That’s probably why he didn’t ask for it back.
As long as it does not bother you to know that he gave you that ring.. and he does not mind I see no problem.. but if I were you I would have givin it back.. that was alot of money to just be thrown away on his part.
You should have returned the ring. I don’t think it’s right or fair to your ex to either keep it OR wear it.
I guess I just don’t understand why you still have the ring if you are no longer engaged.
Shouldn’t you have returned the ring when the relationship ended?
you SHOULD give it back. you’re not supposed to keep an engagement ring, its a sign of a promise to marry someone and if u aren’t going to marry them then give it back..if they dont want it.. put it in a box and give it to your first child. besides what a turnoff for a guy. who wants to date someone who is still wearing an engagement ring from a failed engagement!!
First off you should have returned the ring(unless he cheated on you). Secondly, if you’re going to wear it, do it on your right hand. But be prepared for the time one day that a future bf will ask, where did you get that ring from? Will you be able to tell him the truth? How do you think it will make him feel?
No matter how pretty the ring and no matter how much you’ve become attached to it. Why would you want to keep something that reminds you of the past. Give the ring back and move on. Who knows maybe that ring will be replaced by another soon enough. But you have to move on from this one first.
good idea, wearing it on the right hand. why let a beautiful ring go to waste?
or, buy a necklace and wear it that way, if you don’t want to wear it on your right hand.
Laughing @ s1tt1ng and yeah its all about keeping the respect for each ova, if ur asking the question then u must feel bad
Laughing at s1tt1ng showing compassion there for the broken heart.if you feel u can wear it n not feel bad about it,den i av a feeling the ova half wasnt gd nuff
The most important part of an engagement ring is the diamond, so getting a new design is indeed a great idea. You can have a unique ring designed for you or simply purchase a semi-mount and have the diamond re-set. You could even make some money selling the old setting for rough gold/platinum.
As you have kept the ring after splitting up and it was after all given to you, I would sell it.It was I am sure a bad time after the break up so why have a constant reminder.
the reason you are asking this question is the same reason you are no longer engaged. you are a narcissistic bitch. keep a token of a man’s love and wear it as a flashy trinket because it “accents your own inner beauty” i’m sure. people like you disgust me. what it says is that you cared as much about him as deciding what shoes to wear with that dress. you used him to get what you could from him. regardless of the reason for the breakup… return the ring. or if you’re gona be a greedy bitch at least take the diamond out and put it into a necklace or something. have some class.
Wow, some of you people are very cruel. How can you call her a bitch or judge her past relationship for keeping a ring. You don’t know her situation. I have an engagement ring that i’m not sure what to do with. My ex-fiancée wants me to keep it. we were high school sweethearts, and over time he fell out of love with me. We are no longer together but we are sill friends. We care fore each other very much. so why can’t I wear the ring he gave me, but on my right hand? who is it hurting? I’m very attached to this ring. No one can give me enough for this ring, too much sentimental value. for now anyway.
It is fine for them who haven’t experienced yet the pain of loosing loved ones and who have lost their knows well what an emotional part is that to wear the same broken hear engagement rings.
this is good.. dont hesitate to get back what you lose, there is always a second change, even it was your ex-girl, thnaks for the tips
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my boyfriend used to wear the ring from his past relationship..its not comfortable on my part, i felt jealous and i dont like it, i felt mad.
but everytime i call his attention for still wearing the ring, he will just explain that its nothing, its just a decoration..
but.still, i dont understand, why he still have to wear the ring from a broken and unsuccesfull relationship..and they broke up 4 years ago..
it bothers me…maybe his ex girlfriend is still important for him..it hurts me a lot