Do you think improving yourself will get your ex gf back?
ok my gf left after 6 years and at times i want her back at other times not. Now dont laugh at this but my mother who is 60 years old told me that chasing her will not get her back. She told me to remove myself totally from her life and improve myself both physically and mentally. My mother mentioned that women always want to know what their ex is doing even if they are not with them. So moving on and improving yourself will make her wonder whats going on?
Any thoughts??
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You must both improve yourself physically and socially. You also should read up on tactics, both common and tricky methods to use.
She should read a guide that lays it all out.
jim, get a hold of yourself. dont be a slave of your emotions, it has been six years. if you had enough to get a girlfriend in the first place you can get a new one. You need to stop considering her an option, isolate her from your life, you may go through the stages of grief but in the end everything will be worth while. i hope you really listen to what i am saying because living in the past can be so hurtful and i think you deserve better!
your mum has an intelligent little mind, i like that! ^_^ tell her that i think thats pretty good! and yh, thinking about it, it probably will work, but its not just a change to get her back then change back again yu need to change permenantly uless its a bad thng
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Hello
Winning back an ex is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.
Here are helpful steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:
Don’t Ask Your Ex Girlfriend To Get Back Together
You should never ask your ex girlfriend to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!
You’re only shot at getting her back is to do the right things that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.
But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex girlfriend attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.
So don’t ignore her texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show her that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.
Being Jealous Is Not The Way To Go
You must understand that …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it will probably be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.
Being Flexible Is Very Important
Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Instead, be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who takes things easily is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again very fast.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back. Anyhow, if you really want to get her back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. There are many guides out there but most of them are crap (I tried too many of them…).
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I hope that these tips will be helpful for you.
Good luck!
Improving yourself will never be a waste of time. It will always be a positive move for you. If not for this woman for the next. Go man! good luck!