Married, so how to get over my ex?
I am married and have been married for a while, i have 2 kids, a dog, nice house, yadayadayada. So, I havent seen my ex in over 5 years, but I have been having dreams about him at night and daydreams. I think over and over about the relationship we had. Why am I thinking about him? Crazy thing is, I think that I am "in love" with my ex boyfriend? Is that even possible? I really dont want to think about him and I had rather have all of these feelings about my husband because they are so strong. I feel so wrong about it, but at the same time I feel like a little girl with a crush. And its not as if I am lusting for him because he is not the most handsome person I have ever seen but, I just dont know whats going on.
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I think its interesting how you describe you current life in terms of typical status accomplishment (House, Kids, dog) and your former love in terms of emotions.
Interesting you didn’t say you loved your house, dog, kids.
Anyway, you are in love with WHAT your life is now…the status, but you are still in love with WHO your ex is…the person.
The question is, is your ex still the same?
You can ignore it, or maybe he is really your true love and find the answer. Are you willing to give up the everything you have for true love?
You broke up with your ex boyfriend for a reason. You made a commitment to your husband when you got married. The only way you could be with your ex boyfriend is if you have an affair or get divorced. Anything you do will hurt your husband and children and it can never be undone. Be grateful for the wonderful marriage and family that you have and let go of the past. How would you feel if you went with your ex boyfriend and you were unhappy? Regret can last forever and it’s not worth it.
You should’ve never got married, then. It’s clear your husband just appeared during a time of weakness, since you should’ve been well over your ex by this point. That sucks for the hubby.
You have to think of the reasons why things didn’t work out with the two of you. There was a reason you ended up with your husband, and not him. But, a dream can really cause weird feelings to come out. Just think of the things you have now and appreciate everything that you have with your husband. The feeling will wear off.
Hmmmmmmmm………
Obviously he wasn’t dreaming of you recently, cause you married another.
You need to wake up (pun intended) and get on with your life.
You probably need to talk with a professional to work through your
issues.
Good luck.