Me and my ex-boyfriend were together for 5 months and we broke twice because he thought i wasn’t happy in the relationship and when he asked me back out he told me it was because he was afraid that i was getting so close to his heart. we were having a great time until the day b4 New years Eve 2008 i went skating with my friend and he husband and husband’s brother and we were hanging out. i put myself in a stupid situation because i went drinking with her and her husband’s brother kissed me. when i told my boyfriend i was still alittle drunk and he was angry but we just went to sleep when i came over to his house that night. then the next day on new years eve he came over 2 my house and broke up with me. he said it was the only rule he’s ever had was not cheating but honestly he’s a hypocrite because he used 2 cheat on his girlfriends, he just never cheated on me. so it was a terrible breakup because i was stunned, i was trying 2 explain and he was trying to leave my room and i kept trying to keep him there to listen 2 me. i m overly sensitive which he should know that and i understand that he’s been hurt before but i want him to know that i love only him and i just want to make him happy, i mean he has nothing and he said i was the best thing that happened to him and he’s the best thing that happend to me. so then a couple weeks ago i went to hangout at his house cuz his friends are mine and he told me it was hard to be around me cuz he kept looking at me and these guys had bet on me and to assure him that i wasn’t there to annoy him i told him i wasn’t looking at him or bothering him and he said he wasn’t mad at me he just wanted some time. then he left the house and i slept there. then last friday i went over his house to apologize and he said he didn’t want to talk and he ignored me and stayed in the kitchen the whole time. i told me friend there that i wasn’t gonna be back for a while maybe a month so that he can heal properly. i just figured if i came over he’d want me back like last time because when we broke up he said he would prefer me not coming over to the house as much because we’d end up back together like last time. but i do want him back. i’m just afraid that time will make him not love me or want me anymore. what should i do?

p.s. people have told me that he needs time and others say that i should move on because i deserve better and honestly i know i deserve better because i my ex is a hippy who’s life ambition is to smoke pot and chill but he does want to make something of himself one day he just doesn’t know how and i want to help him. I love him so much, i’ve been depressed and in my room the whole week.
btw, i also stopped the guy and told him i wanted to go home. My ex just wonders why i put myself in that situation when i should’ve just come home. i just wanted to have alittle fun with my friend that i hadn’t seen for a year and she was married now and all grown up. i told my ex that i pushed the guy away because i did, the guy just tried to take advantage of me.


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