Getting your ex girlfriend back….?
Me and my girlfriend split up about a month ago, it was a smooth break up, we both decided. The relationship wasnt as good as it used to be and we werent as happy as we were. + we both knew we wernt going to see each other for 7 weeks if we did split up, because we go to the same college.
But in these 4 weeks that we have been apart i have had a lot of time to think and she was one of the best things that has happened to me….and i would like to give a shot at getting back together with her.
I sent her a little present for easter, about a week after easter she txted me saying thank you for it and it made her smile….but she said she only got it that day, a week late. I think that was a bit of a white lie…..(I didnt txt back saying that)
Whats the best way of going about trying to get back to gether, just be friends for the time and try and get closer to her over time?
Should i txt her some time in the 4weeks before i see her again?
Or what?
Thanks for reading….
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Yes, tell her what you told us, you miss her and how must you have changed in thinking wise, this kind of love requires effort and discipline.It is the choose to expend energy in an effort to benefit the other person, the satisfaction of having genuinely loved another.The answer to your question lies in the essential nature of our humanity. We are creatures of choice, so that means that we have the capacity to make poor choose, which all of us have done and explain this to your girlfriend,We have spoken critical words, and we have done harmful things,We are not proud of this things but it may have seems justified at the moment. Poor chooses dontt mean that we have to carrier it with us when we can fix it. Tell her that you are sorry, I know I have hurt you and I would like to make future difference if you give me another changes. When you get a second change don’t burn it up but keep it.Let me know how it goes. Good luck.
txt back and forth, and when you see her agian face to face, tell her how you feel. tell her that shes the best thing that ever happend to you and that you were stupid for letting her slip away.
if you want her backfor real,,,,,,esnd he r some roses…..with a noth saying lets talk soon…..than leave it alone……good luck
Ask her to lunch/dinner and tell her exactly how you feel. I am thinking in college, you are both adults. If she turns you away, you will know you tried. If she accepts you back into her life – you have achieved your goal. Do not let your pride or the comments of others allow you to play games. Be an adult and take a mature approach. Too often, the fear of rejection may cause us to take a childish approach to relationships. If she does not feel the same, she will, in the long run be doing you a favor, because if you are spending time with the "wrong" one- you will miss the "right" one!
Shed your personal ego. Meet her and communicate. Do not have double mind in your expressions.
Do not speak anything that may hert anyone(especially direct. Also indirect)
Be prepared to accept the truth.
The best thing to do like you said is be her friend again and get close. Try not to make yourself to available to her. When she talks to you try not to talk about your past relationship at all. Let her know you again by the person you once were. You cant force someone to love you so try not to push to hard otherwise she will run away. I hope this helps
Don’t listen to these people. Yeah, go tell her how much you miss her and that your life means nothing without her. She’ll think you’re the biggest wuss alive. GIRLS DON’T LIKE THIS! Trust me man, I know it hurts but move on and see other people, telling her that she was the best thing in your life will only make her think you’re pathetic. "Wow, I had a real wuss, glad I broke up with him". Women LOVE confidence and independent guys. Don’t go crying back like a lost puppy.
Do your own thing and in a few weeks if you guys run into each other, tell her how things are going and tell her what a great time you’re having. MAKE HER WANT YOU.
But forget about getting back with her, just move on.
invite her to a dinner, take her to romantic place and have some funny eve together. Don’t tell her you miss her. Finally remember that she’s not the only girl.