how do i get my ex boyfriend back ?
well.. it has been 10 months since my ex boyfriend has broken up with me . i can’t get over him at all . my friends think it is stupid and i should stop liking him . me and him talk every once in a while on myspace and stuff, but other than that we don’t even cross each others paths . i also want to tell him i still like him . and see what his feelings are for me, even though he has a girlfriend .
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Awww, I feel for you. I was in the same exact situation a few months back.
The fact that your ex still talks to you is a good thing! And though it may seem to your disadvantage that he has a girlfriend the good news is that they have been together for 10 months and that is long enough for them to have started to have problems – unless of course they are just PERFECT for one another and the odds of that are ‘nil.
Whatever you do don’t come right out and tell him you still have feelings for him. That would put him in an awkward situation and make him more likely to avoid you. Even if he still has feelings for you, you don’t want to disclose that while he is with his current girlfriend. When you do make contact with him remain upbeat and happy. Make certain that all his encounters with you are positive and fun that will he can ONLY look forward to hearing from you. Whatever you do DON’T let him know that you are depressed in the least or sad in anyway. People like people who are happy.
I would suggest you start by sending him some things on MySpace, like you are doing, but send stuff like funny comments or video clips you know he will like for sure. Then you can ask him questions about it. What did you think? Yada, Yada, Yada…Then gently lead into more intimate conversation…for example send him something and then say something to the effect of "….that reminds me of the time you and I…." and recall a REALLY GREAT memory or experience you two had together. This does 2 things. One, it lets him know you still have good memories of him (without confessing a thing) and two, it gets him thinking about the old times and the good times you two shared.
After that, you can move into phase 2. Ask him for a favor. That is right. A favor. Say you are shopping for a new stereo system and he is really knowledgable on stero systems ask him to come along and help you pick one out. It doesn’t matter what the topic is as long as it is one you know he has an interest in and knows a bit about. The idea here is to get him to be in physical proximity with you, spend some time with you, but WITHOUT the pressure of calling it a date….Plus that, it boosts his ego to think that you think he is smart enough that you would ask his advice on some matter. It’s a win win.
You really want to ease back into it. Don’t push. Don’t reveal anything and just act like a friend to him. Well, don’t just act, be a friend to him.
I have a lot more but can’t make this post too long, but basically that is what I did with my ex and it worked! I bought an ebook on getting back together with your ex and followed it to the T. We were back together in 4 weeks and 2 days (LOL, but who is counting, right?)
My boyfriend too was with another girl. I really thought it was hopeless but I found out in that book how to use that to my advantage. After we got back together my boyfriend told me that when he was with that other girl he compared her to me all the time and it made him miss me more! YESSSS!!!!!!
Good luck and don’t give up. I am a firm believer that love doesn’t have to hurt and true love doesn’t have to die : )
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Honestly, it would most likely be better for the both of you to move on especially if he is already in another relationship. Not saying it is going to be easy, but the relationship ended for a reason and it seems that your ex does not have the intention of trying again since he is with someone else. You dont want to be wasting your time and energy focusing on something that could very well work out. By telling him you still like him it is only going to make the situation more awkward for him consdiering he is in another relationship. Best of luck!
just really try to turn him on
Get his attention tell him that you like him OR you can get him jealous by dating another boy
I am in a similar situation. I broke up with long-term relationship woman. I wish to have her come back in my life. Though she refuses to speak with me now that I have realized what I have foolishly given away, I have come to see there are reasons why it didn’t work, and see that things have to change or history will repeat itself. You have to step back, be cool and honest to see if this is what you really want, to understand why the break-up occurred. I know it’s hard but try not to let the "wanting" run your life. Take care of yourself and wish him the best no matter what happens. I can say this: The more I write to her the more she seems to move away. I don’t know what she’s feeling, and she too has a found someone new. But if we worry about these things night & day we will miss a lot in life, and just look desperate. You will know the answer if you step back and just let go for awhile, relax and be positive. Good Luck
this has totally happened 2 me b4, like just a couple of months ago. i was goin out with this guy 4 like 7 months n then outta nowhere he broke up with me n i thought id nvr go out with him n id nvr get over him…but then he started callin me n i showed him how i had changed n stuff, maybe u should let him kno that uve changed since u guys broke up. me n him got 2gethr again but then he broke up with me (again) 4 no reason n it was so much easier 2 get over him this time. maybe u just need 2 get with him again 2 c if what ur feeling is serious or wether hes not worth it…just talk 2 him about it n if he listens n cares then go 4 it, n if he duznt then well f him lol u can deff do better. just remember that u shouldnt change who u really are, cuz theirs 1 guy out there who will love u 4 who u really r n will nvr ask or want u 2 change, n ur ex isnt irreplaceable. i kno u think that what u guys had was special, but everyone thinks that, i did too but now im over that guy n im sooo much happier. good luck <3
My friend T.Dub can help you in this situation. Who is T Dub?
Here is his story in his words…
My name is T.W. Jackson. you can just call me "T Dub. I have been a military brat or in the military for a majority of my life. In fact I joined the US Navy when I was a ripe old 17 years of age. Because of my life long military experience I’ve had dozens of homes in 11 countries… and lived long term in 5 states in the U.S. And because I have lived in so many places and changed schools so often as a kid I had to learn and learn REALLY FAST how to get along with people. And people from ALL WALKS OF LIFE. More importantly I became really good at reading people, understanding what makes them "tick" and even got to a point where I could influence their behavior and actions. Anyway I got a ton of practice keeping relationships together and putting them back together after they had come apart because the divorce rate for military couples is MUCH HIGHER than average.”
i know and can understand ur feelings still for him as its how i felt for neally same time…..all can say is try concentrate on yourself and not him or ur past with him. i did and now out of blue he wants to talk!!!! guys think they are ants pants when they know ex or chick likes them so dont give him satufaction, hel come crawling or if not hes not worth it ps always look ur best so if he does run into u u can make him relaise what he lost hehhe good luck
Hi there,
Give him some space and don’t go overboard, it is very possible to get him back, check out my blog for some more advice on how to get him back.
Hope this helps
Don