Revenge on a cheating boyfriend?
I want some good idea’s on how to get revenge on my boyfriend. We’ve been together for almost 2 years. I recently found out that he’s been seeing his ex behind my back. I could write a story with the details but I wont. Basically his ex got all pally with me, i’m a nice person so when she added me on facebook i spoke to her.. She asked me meet up with her one day after work so I did as we both worked close.. I offered her advice when she was having a hard time with her family etc. And all the time she was having sex with my boyfriend behind my back! Now I know about it she’s very open with the details rubbing it in..
I know they’re both as bad as each other.. I’m still with him, he promised me he’d change but I’m not stupid, I know he won’t. He changed his number and she "somehow" got hold of it again, she clams she’s still seeing him, which wouldn’t supise me. I just don’t want to be the only one looking like a fool in all this..
I’m acting like the perfect girlfriend again now, listening to everything he says… But i’m doing this becase I want my revenge. If i just break up with him.. That will be it, I’ll feel like a total loser and would have probably sat around feeling sorry for myself. It’s been about 4 month since I found out and I really want my revenge now.
All idea’s welcome, but like I told my best friend, I want it to be something thats hurts him (not physically) yes, he drives a nice car so I could scratch it, throw paint on it.. But that’s hardly going to get them both back for what they’ve done, besides I dont think it would even bother him!
Any idea’s you have would be appreciated! I’m thinking of something where I’m all nice then BANG 
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In the meantime he is going along thinking what a stud he is because he is sleeping with two girls.
Congratulations to you for helping to fuel his ego.
If I was dating a girl that I knew was having sex with someone else, I couldn’t get away from her fast enough. The hell with the childish revenge thing, ugh.
Move on………life is too short.
Go with his own brother if he got a brother! That’s how I get back for what thay done!
Be the bigger person and just walk away now. Revenge solves nothing.
Keep being nice and don’t seek revenge. He will get played eventually and may try to come back to his nice woman. When that happens be cold as ice and ignore him like the relationship meant nothing to you. Believe me that will hurt his ego worse than anything you can do to get revenge on him. The one that got away sticks in their minds forever.
get caught with his dad. That will drive him mad.
Revenge is empty! Don’t waste your time. Simply cut your losses. The two of them deserve each other! If you’re hell-bent on revenge, then go out and be happy, be successful and meet the man of your dreams – that’s the sweetest revenge there is!
Here is how I always get revenge, (It’s not completly legal, but you wont get in trouble.)
Get a Keylogger, put it on their computer, get their passwords, on facebook, slowly make them look like a jerk. Eventually, you can get a lot of people pissed of at them.
I am not big on revenge as it normally back fires. But hey, I will give my five cents worth just for the hell of it.
Phone her and tell her you need to talk to her as you have no one else you trust enough to confide it. (heh heh).
Meet her for coffee, and then go on to explain you had no idea but he is having an affair with this person and you are so shocked as she is totally obese and people avoid her as she doesn’t bath. You have to be very serious while you are saying all this of course. Say the worse part of all the clinic contacted you to say she has venereal disease and you are terrified as you need to go for a test.
Then make sure you see him right after wards, and tell him, you cant believe what a cow she is as she told you she had heard that he is sleeping with an obese, smelly, woman with STDS, and how can she say something like that about him??
The best revenge is just dropping even the slightest interest in him or her like they don’t exist…just move on. If you were a guy I’d tell you to get some ice water in your veins…just be cold I mean, but as a girl I’m not sure that is suitable. I’d just move on…look at it like this, would you have rather found out now or 3 years from now when you two got engaged or married, just chalk it up to him being a bad apple. If it’s any consolation, "Time heals all wounds and wounds all heels", in other words what comes around goes around…good luck
I agree with pati
Best advice one can give
Suddenly your screen name just made sense…
The best thing you can do is wait,when he thinks that you have forgot about the whole thing is when you get your revenge.What I would do is find something that is close to his heart,like his ‘best friend’and then make your move,But 2 wrongs don’t make a right,but it feels good doing it.lol
take nude pics of your self and show them to him then burn them
try setting them up:D make a date with YOUR BF and invite HIS EX,but of course they dont know that its gonna three people date,,,and of course make sure that they will meet up in the end,and when that happens(oh yeah try a dinner date that would be great)just act normal,be a devil this time but yeah a good devil.And of course its gonna be hard for them right coz its a three way,its gonna be soooo awkward. And later on heres this one guy came a take you of course he needs to be goodlooking a nd more presentable than YOUR BF. And f****** leave those two. And if YOUR BF make a scene, amke him realize that your doing it beacause he deserve it, and that would be the good time to break up with him. I KNOW ITS GONNA BE HARD BUT YOU NEED TO DO IT FOR YOURSELF:D
fighting girl!!!!!!!!!!!
=oh yeah forgot to tell its should anice date ok,,and for the second guy you need to expalin it to him everything so theres noa ny misunderstanding,try asking your friend or relative that YOUR BF doesnt know him k:D
goodluck:D
im cheering for you:D
When he is not at home box up and take whatever you can live without to your new place to live and one day let him come home and find you totally gone. No note or anything and don’t leave anything behind except gifts he gave you that you don’t want. Just gone. This ruins their sense or manhood. They do not get over it ever. Its not just being dumped its the surprise and feeling that they have. Make plans for something really good before you go and let him have big expectations and then GONE The next time you happen to cross paths I hope you are with your new great guy. Men who cheat will cheat all their lives. You deserve better and h is ex for her low self deserves him back. They will cheat on each other and they really deserve each other. I am on your side 100% and I wish you the best…..
well i would say to just walk away.however revenge is sweet and i learned that since i went through it.i would actually put sand in his gas tank and then leave him =]
You don’t need to get revenge. Karma comes back on people..always. The problem is, you don’t want to wait for karma, I can tell. You want satisfaction you can see and you want it now. Yes I can understand how you feel…I’ve been there too. However, sometimes you just need to be the bigger person, suck it up, and move on. Trust me, you may feel like a fool right now, but in the long run, the only fool is the one who goes out for revenge. Definitely do NOT damage his car or anything else he owns. That’s worse than ridiculous. Don’t boil any rabbits in his kitchen either! Find a way to stop obsessing over the whole thing or it will eat away at you and you end up doing something totally impulsive and wrong. Time for you to find a new boyfriend and dump the loser who continues to hurt you. If you want him to be sorry, show him that he is not an important factor in your life anymore. Trust me, it works.