cheating ex-girlfriend remedies?
I understand that everything comes to an end or least to a compromise at some point. However, how does one get over an ex-girlfriend when she clearly betrayed you. Lets say, a girlfriend of yours used you, played you as a fool, cheated on you, and then left you for this guy that she cheated on you with you; how do you get over that and come out as the winner of the situation? Do you just not do anything, and let karma take it’s course? Obviously, you go through things that you never experienced or at least anticipated as learning experiences, but how can one get over the feeling of being burnt by someone? Yes, I’ve moved on into a new relationship, got a new job, and upgraded my education, but how can I feel completely whole again?
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Forgive her, invest your time in living in the present with your new relationship. Enjoy your life, stop being the victim.
It’s better to just be the bigger person and do nothing. Have more fun with your new girlfriend, and eventually the pain (or whatever you feel; anger betrayal) will ease. It’s doubtful you’ll ever forget, or forgive, but wouldn’t it be more satisfying if you run into her and you’re blissfully happy while she just stares and wonders what the not-so-secret secret to a happy relationship is? The best revenge is always and always will be happiness.
Dude, just put the past behind you. It will take time for the wounds to heal, but it will heal. As for her betrayal, she’ll get what’s coming to her in time too. It looks like you’re already on your way. Remember, don’t look back!
dude.. no point in trying to be the winner in the whole thing.. i mean just show her that you could be happy without her, with someone new, with better things in your life.. and it will show that you have move onto better things.. ya.. JUST SHOW HER THAT YOU HAVE MOVED ON TO "BETTER" THINGS.. cheaters are crap!!
I’m there too, I wish I had the answer. God bless you.
You didn’t deserve that. She didn’t deserve you.
i’ve gone through something similar, and here’s roughly what i did to move on:
keep living and moving forward. don’t let yourself be defined by the hurt.
1) acknowledge that it happened
2) decide whether you are going to stew in humiliation or grow.
3) get pumped up about your worth. tell yourself repeatedly that you are a valuable person. actually believe it.
4) realize that there will be days when you are mortified by it. there are days you will learn from it. and eventually there will be a day when you will be able to laugh about it. (i thought this was bull, but its true)
5) don’t give up hope.
6) reflect upon what happened. you might write about it.
7) do silly/serious ritual type things, like ‘i’m going to take a shower and wash away all the hurt this person caused me’. or burn all her pictures.
9) you can and will feel whole again, just give it time. i read somewhere that it takes double the time you were with someone to get over them. it was a way to mark my progress.
whatever you do, you will come out a better, stronger, whole, person. i wish you all the best. good luck!