ex boyfriend troubles.?
So i had a boyfriend…but we broke up on december 18th and im heart broken. him and i dated for a year and from my eyes.. we were the perfect couple….well at least to me. we would have sleepovers at my house and hang out all the time.. and if we werent together we were texting or on the phone or something. basically we were completely in love. i lost my virginity to him- which now i regret..so much and it hurts a lot. i treated him like he was part of my family and did everythign i could to make him happy. in our relationship we of course had our problems though..about 5 months into our relationship he cheated on me when he was drunk….and then denied it to me.. when i knew it was true because the girl told me herself..so we went on a break for a while.. about 3 weeks later(still on our break) i hung out with his best friend and he kissed me..of course my boyfriend found out and got back at me and kissed some girl while he was drunk (which i found out when we were breaking up)
. so 5 months into our relationship we had this whole circle of jealously and revenge and it was bad. after all those things happened we became really close. like we acted like a married couple and everything was so great. then on december 18th he was over at my house and he told me that "he wasnt happy anymore..he said that he still loves me a lot but the love he had for me before wasnt as strong. basically he said he was sick of me. i was in tears and so sad.. it was the worst feeling ever hearing that. i was/am completely in love with him
. he was telling me how he was a horrible boyfriend our whole relationship and that he cheated on me and that he would lie to me all the time of what he was doing" before he left he said "we’ll wait till our one year anniversay (which was a week late) and see if his feelings change for me" and i said okay and he left. after he left .. i was sitting in my room and it just didnt feel right so i caleld him and just ended it then… its almost been a month later and he still texts me almost everyday (sometimes i respond) he wants to be good friends with me because he "still loves me a lot .. he just isnt a good boyfriend" <— he said. but idk what to do! like i really wanna always respond and talk to him because i miss him so much
like all our old times and everything. he was my life and now its like nothing is right. any ideas of what to do? should i try getting over him.. idk help

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Well the same thing happend to me like we broke up twice before our break up last weekend. I feel like its my fault and his at the same time because i found out that the first time me and him were together that he had a little crush on someone else but we got back together the next morning. The second time we broke up because everyone was telling me that he was cheating on me with the same girl that he had a crush on. Then we got back together like three weeks later. Then i didn’t see him for like a week so i cheated on him with two boys but one of them i didnt even like but the second one found out i was cheating and everyone i knew found out and told him then he found out and he dumped me. But we still text each other sometimes almost every day. I think you shoul wait a while until you are over your ex i mean i got a new boyfriend but i think that i should have waited a while because i sometimes cry over my ex because i realy loved him, like i dont know what i was thinking that week.
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well i think if u really like him u should keep on trying if u really love him
maybe he can change his feelings for u i think he does love u
just because he thinks his a bad bf doesnt mean he had to leave u. u guys need to talk about this u guys need to find a way to work things out 4 the better.
but u need to make sure if u really do love him
if u feel like he doesnt then maybe u should forget him sometimes our sent’s r rite
i have the same thing going on his not sure if he has feelings 4 me he says his confused
i was going to give up on him but i realize i really do like him & i want to do whatever it takes to get him back
i broke up with him because i felt like it wasnt working out
now i regret it i believe we should of talked things out first
he says he does like me but idk yet
i feel like i’ve lost him
but im going to keep on going, see what happens hopefully things will be how they were
i wish u luck with that guy i know what ur going through & i know its tuff i know it doesnt feel right but just hang in their
if his going 2 be 4 u then he will be if not then someone else will be 4 u
love is like a bus it comes it picks u up it has hills up ones & down ones the bus drops u off & then the next one comes it might take a while but ill a bus will be back 4 u
god doesn’t take things from u because he wants to he takes them away sometimes because he has better ones 4 u
good luck my girl
do what ur heart tells u to do. do what feels rite