Fiance posted naked pics of his ex online & I found it?
He is friends with his ex, she lives down the street & they don’t have kids together.
I was using his laptop when an email alert popped up from a forum he’s always on for cars. It said you’ve received a reply to "girlfriend pics". I hate myself in photos & wanted to see which one he posted. To my total shock it was NOT me but pics of his ex naked.
When someone responded saying she was hot, he posted back that her boobs are fake, she’s botoxed, her hair is dyed & her teeth are capped but she’s good enough to keep around.
I called him on it & he said it was just a guy thing with the car dudes because she had HUGE boobs & that’s what they go for. He says the pics were taken after breakup & for artistic purposes for him to copy a famous painting.
I don’t think about it AT ALL daily but for some reason every time we get in an argument I bring it up. I must not be over it.
NO she is not better looking than me. I’ve met her. She got the boobs removed, she has had 3 kids & is not in shape. He said he wouldn’t have posted pics of ME because he respects me too much & he was just joking with the guys online.
No DAREDEVIL I have never asked this question before. Good to know someone else has had the same F’d up experience though.
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That is too easy.
You and him go to the ex’s house, or have her over, they are "friends" so that should be no problem.
He should be informed that he will let her know what happened, and see if she thinks it is not a problem.
If he squirms and tries to get out of it, dump him immediately but give the ex a copy of the e-mail anyway and inform her of his explanation.
If everything is ok with him and the ex, you still have a perfect example of his character and what to expect for yourself in the future. If that is what you want for yourself, never complain when he treats you with disrespect. If not, dump him.
Have you allowed for him to photograph you? You can guess where copies of them are if so. And you may want to do a check for a hidden camera, it’s a guy thing too, when you have that sort of guy.
What’s the url, I need to evaluate this to give you a good answer.
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Edit: Didn’t you ask this same question about 2 months ago?
DUMP HIM!
okay,so your question is?
where can i find these pictures?
well shit she most look better than you if he aint posting pictures of you
sounds like you believe that he still has a thing for his ex.
until he convinces you he doesnt it will be an issue for you.
yah dump him
Why is this guy still your fiance? He is a sleazeball…
yeah tell us the url.
I wouldnt be either…what ur ot good enough nfor his car buddies??!?!…id be pissed…he should be having nothing to do with her..and proud that ur his girl!….
HE IS A REAL PIECE OF SOMETHING AND NOT PIE
wow… ask the ex girl friend…
maybe u shoulld tell his ex…if she doesnt know he might do it to you..i think thats slander im not completely sure but im pretty sure u wouldnt want pics of urself on the web would u?
I think he is full of crap. I would be livid!
the pics were taken AFTER their break up??? that sounds fishy
is she actually posed like any famous painting you’ve seen?
suspicious. i wouldn’t trust him as far as i could throw him. using "the guys" is an old excuse that males still use for some reason. hint: it doesn’t work, dudes.
This is not a YOU issue. I was at first not on your side – as you were stating the negative things that he wrote about her – But what turned it around for me was that he got these AFTER they broke up? WTF? I thought these were pics taken when they were together and now they are not together and that is why he posted them because he doesnt respect her and wants to trash her. But to get these after – something is not right here….
oh! no!
its over
end of discussion, he didnt even respect you enough to not even think about that, or get your okay.
Its over.
♦ Nope your not over it, and he should not have done that.
Good enough to keep around? keep around for what? I may ask… This is something I would NOT tolerate…~
Really, its not always possible to forget. But it is possible to forgive.
And totally ask God what He wants you to do. Trust in him. Always.
Much Love
Christopher
Bullshit! That’s serious. I would be so pissed. "Good enough to keep around?" What does that tell you? I’d seriously rethink him as a fiance. How would you feel if you married him and then found he was getting a little piece of ex action on the side? Yuck.
It wasn’t a really nice thing for him to do… He’s a typical male moron (trust me I would know, I’m male too). He does things without thinking what it would do to others and doesn’t think about consequences.
As for a solution… That one is hard to tell. You can play the Monroe act and say "if you wanted sexy you should have told me". That will fix things up for him and maybe even get him to stop posting the pics. Other suggestions will come from other people so enjoy.
lol.. sounds like he is getting even with the ex..but were you with him while these pics where taken is the question.. if you were not..and he just posting them to get even..it is classic..not that i approve of it..but lets face it.. there is always a ex in our past that we would get even with if we could
I suggest you go into more details behind his back and try your best NOT to get caught.
You want to find the truth and then hold it against him.
But if it is what he says, then try to forget it.
Or if you think he is taking those pictures on purpose, then dump him.
He shouldn’t treat you badly.
"Good enough to keep around" means he’s still doing her, or wants others to think so. Either way lose him.
My boyfriend is an artist, and if he pulled that $h1t on me, I’d drop him like a fly.
To be honest you aren’t over it & you have every right to be upset with him over this. He says that he took "artistic naked" pictures of her for his friends? Why would he still have these? That’s crazy.
I won’t suggest anything personal since he is your fiance, but I would be suspicious and trust me, it’s so hard being in a relationship where you’re always suspicious about what he’s doing.
PLEASE DUMP HIM! You can find someone better, do you really want to deal with this the rest of your life?
I hope you have not let him take pictures of you nude, and never break up.
If a guy would post naked pictures of his ex on the net, he will post naked pictures of you next.
good luck with this loser!
Would you rather have posted "you"? It may not be that your not over it. It may be a trust issue now. It may be a "If he did it to her he may do it to me" type thing.
Chet
Get over it. If you can’t get over it then you need to move on.
Wow, first off there are no kids involved so why would he still feel the need to be friends with her? second, why the heck is he still looking at and posting naked pics of her? you know what i mean? thats Absurd on every level!! those pics of her should have been erased from his laptop the moment he decided he was going to commit to you.( your are engaged right?) its not a GUY thing girl, no way is there an excuse for what he did.
honestly, its obvious you havent gotten over it, why should you? , he gave you a piss poor excuse for why he did it, maybe when he opens up and tells you the truth on why hes still browsing his ex’s naked pics AND posting them to get a feel for what people think , THEN maybe you can start to get over it little by little. You have every right to be mad at not over it.
First of all, he had no right to put those photos of her on the net. Secondly, it is not a guy thing. I would seriously reconsider your engagement. This is not the kind of thing I personally could get over. It is extremely disrespectful to you and if you bring it up in an argument it must be at the back of your mind and you are not over it. Why should you be, it’s a disgusting thing to do. What’s worse is that he doesn’t seem to think so.
When you see how he has treated her, you are looking at your future. He isn’t a very nice guy, is he? Why is he keeping those pics up if he loves you now? Dump Him. Look for any Pics of yourself before you do.
First and foremost, NEVER let this guy take pics of you, because what if, maybe, perhaps, someday, the two of you split. You’re pics will be all over the internet. Once a scum, always a scum.
Thinking about it, even just sometimes, says that deep down you are really wondering about this guy’s truthworthiness and moral values. For him to go to those lengths to get his little form of revenge says that either he is not completely over HER or, like I said above, his values are really screwed up.
I wouldn’t touch this guy with a ten foot pole.
PS. Someone did this to me, pre-computer days. He took a photo I had posed for, for him, had it blown up to poster size and tacked it on a tree in front of the restaurant we always went to. I was fortunate that a friend found it and ripped it down before the local baseball team came in. These days with the internet, a mere seconds is all it takes for it to go all around the world.
Stay away from this guy.
Sounds to weird to me, I wouldn’t buy the story. Why is he even bothering with the ex, along with the pictures. I don’t know what you are really asking, but it still must bug you to bring it up when you’re mad at him. Either get over this or get rid of him. You are talking Fiance? Well, in a marriage there are a bit more things to worry about than something like this immature stuff. Only you can decide what you want. Good Luck!
sweety thats wrong, you cant get over it, i mean, think about it.
he has photos of his ex, plus she’s naked! that’s just wrong
even if he’s over her every guy knows that it’s extremely disrespectful to his lady. it’s just something he shouldnt be doing for any reason and plus it wasnt even a good reason.
and the comment about keeping her around definetly crossed the line. talk to him about it and how this is making you feel.
no one deserves to have their pics taken in private posted by anybody other than the person involved. you sure u want to get married to this guy? he is a bad man dear. what happens if you guys part ways? he could possibly do the same thing to you. or worse. run while you still can. he is certifiably a looser.
i would worry to much about it until you Reilly catch him fucking her or if he say he is really into her again cause it’s just a pic. Cause if he showing his friends pic of his ex she must don’t mean that much to him.
I bet the ex has no idea her pics are out there in cyberspace now FOREVER for everyone to see. Wow. What a juvenile thing for him to do. I would never be involved with anyone who has such poor judgment and obvious lack of respect for someone they dated and are supposedly friends with. Even if the ex gave him permission to post them….just because a person CAN do something doesn’t mean they SHOULD. Is this the kind of person you really want to be involved with? Based on the fact the situation enters your mind still now and then would tell me you DON’T. If this guy has any pictures of you, all I can say is TAKE THEM BACK FROM HIM AND FAST!!!! Otherwise you may end up posted on some site because he ends up chatting with some other guys who are into some aspect of YOUR physical appearance or even worse, posting intimate pics of you just for revenge. Now, leave the "kid" and go get yourself a MAN
Here’s the question nobody has brought up. It’s not necessarily a problem that they’re still friends. But if he’s really still friends w/ her, why would he do something so disrespectful to her? And if he will do something like that to her, how can you be sure he won’t do it to you.
People make stupid mistakes. If this is the only thing he’s ever done to really make you question him, perhaps talking bluntly w/ him is the answer. Not when you’re angry, but when you can talk calmly. He needs to know how it makes you feel and that it was unacceptable. If he cares about you and your feelings, he will realize how wrong it was.
If he feels genuine remorse and is willing and able to see your side of it AND you decide to forgive him and stay in the relationship, then don’t bring it up again. However, and I stress this, if he makes you seriously question his loyalty to you again, move on.
he has photo’s of an ex girlfriend naked.. i wouldn’t be comfortable with that..