Hello, How can I amend my little son's behavior,he's 10 and he's from my ex-wife ?
Hello, How can I amend my little son’s behavior,he’s 10 and he’s from my ex-wife , my new wife -at the begining of our marriage-was treating him well but as soon as she got our new baby (4 years back) her altitude started to change on the negative level which affected my elder son badly , beside that he had another sister from my ex-wife too , who’s living with her away from us. Firstly he started to tell lies which has been treated partially by applying some behavioral technical advice was given to me through Dr.Adams’ online forum (www.Psychological.com)but unfortunatily I’m not able to contact with such mentioned site anymore.My e-mail is Yassereltouny@yahoo.com Thank you alot in advance for helping me with your precious advices and instant reply.
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This poor child is in need of MORE ATTENTION. 10 or not, children know when one is being favored over the other. My son is 5 and is hell-bent on driving my husband mad! My husband favors our daughter who is 3 and I CONSTANTLY have to remind him Not to do that! I don’t know why you think your child’s behavior needs to be amended when it is clearly an adult behavior that he is reacting to. You said yourself that your new wife AND ex-wife have new babies, this kid feels left out of BOTH families!
So, what do you do, DAD? Spend more time with your son! Talk to your new wife about HER behavior change. I know she is busy, but if I can treat my babies the same, discipline them the same, cuddle them the same, then she should be able to, too. Believe me, it isn’t easy but there can be a happy medium between the two of them. For your son’s sake, I hope you don’t have anymore kids if this is how you two are going to let each older child go – on their own after each "new baby" comes along.
Your new AND ex-wife need to get their priorities straight. They have More than One child, and that First child is hurting. I hope you listen to that much if nothing else and I hope they do as well. God Bless his wary little soul.
This is seeding some serious trust issues and will cause worse abandonment issues inside his 10-year-old head if things don’t change here. You’re asking for more and more trouble if you just let this go. Please, please get your "wives" on board with this issue soon. Your son needs to be reassured of his place in each family.
Try to talk to them and try time outs!!! Just make sure that when you use these latest and greatest techniques you save a lot of money for bail THAT CRAP DOESN’T WORK!!! Good luck!!!
you need to put your "new" wife in check no woman is worth your children!!! and it doesnt sound like he needs counsling you and your "new" wife do for allowing this to happen !! and his lashing out is cause hes looking for attention from you ya moron! so my advice to you is to either get your "new" wife counsling on how to care for a step child and or divorce??? geesh !!