what you do if you were me, cheating ex girlfriend help pls?
ok I know this has been a while ago and I have been trying my hardest to forget about my ex but I cant shes constantly stuck on the back of my mind and i see constant reminders of her nd things. It was about two nd a half months ago she broke up with me on seemingly good terms. then about a week later she was wif a new guy which hurt so tried to move on.
Truth is she was wif him for a month before she broke up with me. she doesnt no that i no that she cheated. we havent spoke since I just let her go thought she rushed the decision so i feel i just let her get away without reasoning etc.she sent me a bday text but my friend said not to reply then went on to explain the cheating so i didnt reply.
anyways so ive been out like nearly every nite constantly doing things to try get her off my mind but she doesnt budge, ive been looking to meet new girls aswell still no luck on that part but still looking.
my friend G nd his gf where up town today and they bumped into her and she was with the guy she cheated on me with.my friend Gs gf went to school with her its how I met my ex.They were talking for ages Now they are all going out this friday and some of her friends and one of my and Gs friends is goin. My friend Gs gf is trying to get mine and gs friend matched up wif one of my exs and Gs gfs friends.
So now I feel like S**** cause my close friends will be hanging out with my ex nd that guy. nd there friends.its the way it used to be before we broke up wed go and have a good time with r friends.
I dont no wat to do about the cheating thing with regards my ex. How do i get her of my mind, im trying everything.do i talk to her?I feel bad as well that we havent spoke she said to be friends.I just wish it didnt happen the way it did be so much easier.I treated her rite I thought she was perfect nd trusted her, so im shocked nd dont no her now. I dont get how she didnt say to me aswell with the guilt etc.she must feel bad about herself but she doesnt no i no.wat do?advice please.
also makes me sick because we never got round to doing "it".it would have been r first time for both of us and I was her first boyfriend.so I feel sick at the fact that they probly have r have wen I was with her.
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The first love is always the toughest.
She’s a cheater – you don’t want that in your life as much as she might be wonderful otherwise.
Stay at home, caretake yourself, do what you need to do for you, move through it, there’s no rush. That she’s doing what she’s doing has nothing to do with you. Don’t try to "get her out of your mind", just let it be, feel the feelings, and move on.
And also think about the relationship – did you see any signs? Recently I’ve had this situation not only with my own boyfriend but with talking to other guys who seem to be totally oblivious to what their girlfriends are saying … one situation the girl pretty much moved out before the guy got that there was a problem … but she’d been trying to talk to him and work it out for over **three years**.
If anything, maybe it would ease your mind to talk to her and find out if there were times she tried to talk to you and you didn’t hear her, if there were things going on you didn’t notice or get – it could help both of you grow and learn, and then you can both use that in your next relationships.
i had a very similar situation, Karma will come back to bite her in the ass. You be the good guy that you are, things will work out for you
It seems that you need to talk to her. Talk to her how you feel, but don’t get back with her. Thell her how you knew about the cheating and blah blah…anyway…for me…I wouldn’t hang out with her at all. I mean, you should be angry. I mean, when I broke up, I was really sad when my ex bf was with a new girl, but I kept thinking, I don’t need him…because blah blah blah.c Just constantly tell yourself, why she shouldn’t be in your life! Pro nd con will help, but no emotion
If you are wanting to try and get your gf back try a little reverse psychology. break contact with to leave her thinking that she can\’t believe why you\’re not missing her,and curious as to what you are up to,and she might even hear that you’re out having fun without her.You should make it so they want to get in touch with you.