How can i make my girlfriend love me again?
recently i broke up with my girlfriend over a domestic arguement. I then cut off both her arms and threw them in the sea. How can i seek forgiveness? this is urgent, i still love her.
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Hello Frankie
Wow – sounds like major jealousy there! I have felt that way myself before – thunderously muderous lol.
Looking back now, I can see that I was hurting because my ego had been hurt. In fact, I can see that the feeling of love, was actually just my ego feeling really good when that person was around.
In truth, what we experience as love, is simply the ultimate expression of our egoism. Haha, and I know how hard a pill THAT is to swallow. But if we think about it . . . she makes you feel good – right? You feel you get maximum pleasure for very little pain? The thought of being with her consumes you, because you feel so darn good when with her!
I found this article on love – true love – and the difference between that and what we expereince as love. True love is when we do everything we can to meet the needs and desires of the other, with no thought of ourselves. I know that we often feel that is what we do, but if we honestly analyse it, we don’t. . . http://www.kabbalah.info/engkab/life-love-family/kabbalah-relationships?p_options=1#fairytale-love-is-just-that–e2-80-93-a-fairytale
I hope that this helps, just a little.
After you have digested that wee morsel, then if you are serious about being with her, and promise not to severe any more limbs, then by looking at how you CAN be the giver, rather than the taker, look at what SHE needs in the relationship rather than what you do. And read this article: http://www.kabbalah.info/engkab/life-love-family/kabbalah-relationships?p_options=2#kabbalistic-texts-contain-a-unique-quality-that-ensures-a-successful-partnership
Shalom
Mem
Should have thought of that before you chopped her arms off
erm……well…..you could always her bring her flowers?
(hahahaha)
Go and give her a great big hug, just don’t expect one in return as you chopped her arms off,right!!!