Is he still interested in her?
My boyfriend of 7 yrs. married a woman during one of our falling outs. I left the country on vacation and when I got back he moved out of their house and back in with me. He asked her for a divorce but she refused saying he had tried to reconcile with her just days prior and he had been intimate with her.He continues to live with me and was supposed to have no contact with her so she will give up and agree to the divorce, but yesterday he forgot to close his e-mail and I saw he had e-mailed the wife. He asked her why she was selling her house and if that meant she was going to move in with her kid’s father. He also asked what her plans were.She answered the house was for sale because of changes to her taxes and she is not with the ex-boyfriend, that her plans are to stay married and be happy with or without my boyfriend. He answered to her pretty quickly and gave her information on how to lower her taxes so she will not have to sell, which makes no sense since the house was hers before the marriage and our state is an equal distribution state, which means he has no rights to the house unless she sells it while they are married in which case he is entitled to half the house. I also saw he had posted on a forum where she posts saying other posters were no match for her. This was all apparently after an e-mail from her saying she is open to reconciling but she won’t chase after him because he knows what she has to offer and it’s up to him to come for it if he is interested. Why is he contacting her and why does he care if she is moving away with someone else? Why is he complimenting her and trying to get her attention on a forum where she posts? Is he still interested in her?
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You have to stop thinking of him as your boyfriend. He is HER husband. If he divorces her, when he divorces her, then rekindle your relationship. Now, where could you possibly see this going? He is just enjoying having other places to live without rent or responsibility. If he was serious about ending their marriage, he wouldn’t be pursuing her which he clearly is. Yes, he is interested.
Find a better boyfriend that is actually single. You owe it to yourself.
He MARRIED someone else when you had a fight? And you took him back?
Yes he is still interested in his wife. Yes he likes having you both there, wanting him.
Stop being such a fool where this man is concerned. He’s a married man and you’re being played. How can you even get back with a man who marries someone while you’re having a break? He is contacting her because she’s his wife. He is still being intimate with her and complimenting her because he wants the intimacy to remain. You’re collateral damage. Find someone who will treat you better than this. Good luck.
It seems to me that he must have known his wife for quite sometime before marriage. Either that or he incurred some type of brain injury while you were on vacation. I think he has two motives for contacting his wife. He is worried about how his finances and also to keep friendly so he knows if she is going to call it quits and divorce him. (I think she will because she will meet someone else and want to lose him then). I think the post could be calling her a "Scarlett" type.
It is apparently the case of keep in touch in case something happen between you two.
He does all these behind your back obviously rite?
He doesn’t want to erase her from his life.
That’s just how men are probably, easy to switch.
Well, he did switch from her to you rite, well, sorry to say that, he will probably switch back again someday, in the event something bad happen between you two.
What I’d do is to be honest with him that you read all of his emails to her and talk about it.
Ask him what he think and ask him whether that should stop or not.
Don’t be demanding asking him to stop communicate with her ex. It will back fire to you.
so .. you know, talk it out without emotion or upset or being mad. Just be reasonable.
I think men would listen more when we put aside our emotion not to flare up too much.
Good luck