Broken Heart – I am desperately seeking opinions and help.?
Hi,
Me and my ex girl friend broke up 8 months ago because of misunderstandings. We were really the perfect couple. We kept in touch, although she kept on insisting that she is not prepared for a relationship right now because she is taking a very big exam to become a diplomat coming May for which she has been preparing for over a year and a half.P.S – Me and My Ex live in different countries as of right now, so its a long distance for now.
Now, a guy comes into the picture. According to her – he was of big support when she suffered the heart break from our break up. But, she kept on insisting that she is not in a relationship with him.
Now, today I finally decided to call that individual myself to find out. It turns out that they are in a relationship. Now, I am truly heart broken because here I was living with hope for months and I was supposed to go back and see her next month. I really don’t know what to do any more.
I talked to my ex, and she said that this guy who is also preparing for the same exams was not in a good shape of mind, and needed her – so she got into the relationship to support him emotionally. According to her they’ve never been intimate. And, swears that coming 18th May she’d let him know her true feelings for him that she doesn’t think that he’s the right person for her.
And, as far as I am concerned, I hate to say this on a public forum – but I am crying and crying because of this heart break. I have become extremely depressed. And, she says she doesn’t want to be with me because she doesn’t like weak people. I make over K+ annually, and started my business from scratch. My only weakness is her, and she doesn’t understand.
Now, here I am hanging in between again. My mind is blanking out, I don’t know what to think. This relationship has almost ruined me. I feel completely drained out. Please suggest what should I do. Should I trust her, and have hope that she’ll come back. Or should I try moving on..which I tried..but I just can’t stop thinking about her.
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my child, my child!
Trust is something that is earned, she broke that trust. You also received confirmation of that broken trust from the man. And she herself says, who doesn’t know what real weakness is says, she doesn’t wish to be with you.
my child, let her go. I know it is painful, but you will survive, life will continue and you will find the true love that you so rightly deserve.
you’ve shed the tears, now it is time to clear the slate and go forward.
don’t even look back, your true love is awaiting you.
Hiya!
MOVE ON AND FIND A HOTTER GIRL.
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Move on or kill yourself that’s your choices
I know it sucks, I’ve been there you need to move on hun, she has moved on with this guy and she is just being nice and trying to spare the heart break (that your already feeling) by not telling you. I understand she was extremely special for you but no one if they really love you would ever want to leave you or break up with you.
Just live your life, go out, make friends, have fun you only have one life to live don’t waste it on someone that doesn’t want to share it with you.
You need to move on. Not only was she stringing you along but she is also stringing this other guy on until May 18th. She is a cold hearted user. Breaking up with someone is hard. Letting go when your heart belongs to that person is even harder. Unless you want to continue to be used by this person you need to move on. It won’t be easy but it will be alot better than suffering the same heart break over and over again.
awww
well since you like her i think you should stay friends with her just to make things easier and still have her in your life. Try hanging out with friends ect. hope i helped!
Wow im sorry. really i would move on. as bad as it hurts to move on, the hurt wont last as long as her stringing you along and getting your hopes up only for them to be crushed. she sounds like she says one thing and then does another. you sound like a really caring and sweet guy and with your business it sounds like you have your life on track and MANY girls would like a guy like that. moving on will help you heal, become involved in hobbies to keep your mind off the past relationship. hang out with your guy friends. even though you feel like your world is tumbling down right now, it will become better trust me. everyone goes through this type of heartbreak. my mom just found my dad cheating on her with the secretary at his work. talk about really bad heartbreak. Moving on will be good for you, also let her know that your moving on and for her not to contact you because it will only confuse your mind more and pull on your heartstrings. i hope i helped you out =]
Find the girl who deserves and appreciates you as you are. She clearly isnt someone who you can trust. If she goes and does this while being in a relationship with you then how can you trust her in the future? After you get married??
So i think you should simply MOVE ON & Try and find the girl who truely appreciates you & loves you!
You have no options except to move on.
If she wanted to be with you, she would be with you. Period.
It’s not that you are weak, it is that you are coming across as needy. Girls hate that.
What you need to do is stop communicating with her for a few months, you need to start dating other girls. You need to start living a life without her even if on the inside you still want her. After a few months have gone by and you have lived your life and proved to her that you will be fine without her one of two things will happen.
She will either want you back in her life or she will wish you well.
Good luck.
plz help me i m dying for my ex gf ,,,she is now married but i cant forget her,,i take medicines,, alcohal to forget her but i cant…
i think about her all the time.and then i feel very depressed.plz help me what should i do now how can i forget her…plz