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or on the other hand it culd help her realize the differences between me and the new guy and realize she doesnt want to loose me forever? my ex has a new bf but for some reason its pretty much impossible to just move on, i dont see or feel for anygirls like i do this one, and considering the break up could have been prevented easily i cant just let go…is thier cases where people break up date new ppl and get back together in the future possibly?
My fiance broke off the engagement and unfortunately I can’t move back to my hometown until may because of fianancial issues. I see him parade around happily with his new single life, he even goes out of his way to ask me how he looks and smells before he goes out on a date. I’m anxious all day, and I do everything to avoid him, and keep myself busy. But anxiety won’t go away
What are the signs your ex wants you back?
I know there are some people who are direct and will tell you they want you back.
But for those who are a little more subtle in their approach what were some of the signs you saw that said they wanted you back?
So my best friend is having some issues and I can’t help… (I have my own ~ LOL)…
Her fiance left her a few months ago… She desparatly wants to get him to come back (why I may never know)… What advice/strategy would you suggest for attempting to accomplish this goal??
He does show “signs” of wanting to come back but I don’t think she really responds right… Maybe appearing somewhat desperate?!?!
I need advice to give her ~ HELP PLEASE!!! =D
That would be great actually… Maybe if she could read something it would help her out… They’ve been together for 3 years and she is just torn apart…
I’m having custody issues with my ex right now and I don’t even know what to do to help her… That’s why I’m here…
She’s my best friend, of course I’m going to do anything I can to help her out!!
We’re mature adults by the way… No need to imply that I am talking about myself here =D
How do u get ur ex back if he is downrange?
He broke up w/ me 4 month ago. Still not over him!!
Now I’m wondering if I should give it a try to get him back. But how? He is in the military and at the moment stationed downrange.
I know I could send him an email but somehow I am scared of that. Maybe somebody has a better idea and can provide some helpful thoughts.
ok so my boyfriend and i semi brokeup, i want to go on a break but he says he doesnt know,
we talk about everything to eachother, we are literaly best friends but this year was his first year in college and its been really hard for him, i know hes never cheated and he never would , (his mom and dad cheated on eachother and he hates the entire concept)
so thats not an issue, but hes having a really hard time at school with all his new friends (who are assholes) and trying to balance school, work, his friends, and me.
i told him i understand and i think we need a break to settle everything and we both still love eachother so i think it will work out.
is there anything i can do to really show him that i care about him, dont want to loose him, but understand how important and hard all of this is to him?
Does anyone have any advise on how to cope with a breakup after 4 years? we had a child together but he was very mentally abusive to my seven year old so I made him leave but now I have so many different emotions I don’t know what to feel exactly…
Help with getting my ex back. GIRLS OPENION ONLY PLEASE?
My ex girlfriend broke up with me like 3 days ago cause i dident want her talkin to other guys.
I know how friends turn into friendly friends more friendly than they should be. She got mad and it seems dumb to me but i woul like to get her back we talk still but she want date me anymore its crazy cause she said she was so in love with me and then she let some little crap break us up.
Can anyone provide me with some help with getting my ex back?
After my ex girlfriend and I broke up she got a new boyfriend not long after. About a month or two later she calls me and says she misses me alot and she said she is somewhat unhappy with her new bf.
She seems really confused about whether or not we should get back together or not. What should I do or say to get her back?
Should i continue no contact?
Should I stay friendly with her?
Or should I try to convice her to come back?
How would a pisces go about getting an ex back?
They are romantic so i was just wondering what is in their nature.
I’m a nineteen year old very mature male and in a relationship. I’m homosexual; if that makes a difference. I’ve know my current boyfriend for 7yrs now. Throughout hs we always talked on and off and recently for the past almost 7months we’ve been dating. This i have to say is my first love. I feel like kyle is the one for me. He makes me very happy.
Recently this week we’ve been having severe communication probs. we’re both in college 200mi away we both work, our schedules conflict. So i’ve talked to him about how i feel he doesnt care and he’s been short with me. And last night i would say i overreacted. He was with his friends and i was at work on break i called him he was short THATS EXPECTED HE WAS WITH HIS FRIENDS. but i had texted him a question that required a one word answer. sent is twice NO RESPONCE. I’m not this lame i wasnt upset with that fact of the text it was that we’ve been talkin about comm and he completely thru it out the window and nowWEmightBreakUp
fighting too much, trying to make up of solve the problem, confused feelings, possibility of cheating occurring
wat is it that i have to do to get my ex b/f back??
What are some signs that a guy wants to get back with his ex girlfriend?
GUYS: what are things you would do when trying to get her back?
I don’t want to hear the generic: ex’s are an ex for a reason… type of answers.
I dont know i just want my best friend back which is a female but we got into an arguement and havent talked for months. Know i think she has forgotten about me or moved on… we have ben close for almost 2 years… well i just wanted to know the TRUE SIGNS WEATHER SHE WANTS ME BACK!…ladies can you please help me…. she is also a girly girl…. so help me out because i really miss her and this time i want her to come back to me instead of me going back to her this time =(..
I love my boyfriend very much. He is sweet to me and treats me so great. Sometimes I feel though that it is fake. Like he doesn’t know how to deal with me other than being sugary sweet. We have been together since the end of our senior year of high school, almost 4 years ago. He isn’t motivated towards life really though, and he often lets an immature side of him take over. He gets MAD about the silliest things sometimes, and it really really gets on my nerves.
I am an outdoor person who grew up in the country and he is from a big suburb. The older we get, the more apparent these things are. He isn’t interested in spending the day at the lake and I always want to go. We don’t share as many common interests as we used to. He likes to listen to old rock and roll, and I like that too, but if I bring any electronic music home, he never wants to listen to it or if we do, he picks it apart because it isn’t hard enough. He is a great musician and dreams of making that his career, but he doesn’t take any active steps towards it.
He has a warrant for not having insurance or registration or inspection and couldn’t pay the ticket. His parents offered to pay it all for him in exchange for him coming out and helping them fix up their new house, and he won’t do it. I have to cart him around everywhere. If I really cared about him deep inside, wouldn’t I feel more patience for him? I am confused as to why I get mad about these things. I try to help him, but he won’t fully accept it. I guess he is lazy?
He and I have lived together the whole time we have been together. There have been a couple of times were he betrayed my trust with a couple of other girls in the beginning of our relationship, and I simply can’t let that go. I don’t think he actually like slept with them, but there was still emotional cheating and him sneaking behind my back that hurt me so badly.
When we argue or have serious talks, sometimes I bring those times up because they still eat away at me inside and he gets mad at me and says that I am bringing up old stuff that isn’t relevant anymore. That it is old news. It shouldn’t matter anymore because so much time has passed.
He doesn’t know this, but I thought that if I did what he did to me behind his back, that I would feel even and better about it. I don’t. Now I feel like I have ruined the relationship on my end, and he has no idea I flirted over text with an ex for a while. The ex and I met up, but I just didn’t want to take it further in real life, so I didn’t.
Can I have a normal relationship with him ever again now that we both have emotionally betrayed each other? He is so perfect for me in so many ways, but I feel like there is a silent black cloud lingering overhead constantly. We’re only 21. Should I end this relationship and start from scratch with another man? Should I try to stick it out with my boyfriend and see if time indeed does heal wounds?
My boyfriend of 1 year and 3 months broke up with me because he said, ” I think I’m going to cheat on you” via text message.
I am very angry and we have school tomorrow and I don’t know how I’m going to make it through the day. We have mostly all of our classes together with assigned seats and I sit next to him in all classes.
What should I do? O, the teachers are not going to change seating arrangements and schedule switch is not an option.
Please help class start tomorrow.
I love my boyfriend very much. He is sweet to me and treats me so great. Sometimes I feel though that it is fake. Like he doesn’t know how to deal with me other than being sugary sweet. We have been together since the end of our senior year of high school, almost 4 years ago. He isn’t motivated towards life really though, and he often lets an immature side of him take over. He gets MAD about the silliest things sometimes, and it really really gets on my nerves.
I am an outdoor person who grew up in the country and he is from a big suburb. The older we get, the more apparent these things are. He isn’t interested in spending the day at the lake and I always want to go. We don’t share as many common interests as we used to. He likes to listen to old rock and roll, and I like that too, but if I bring any electronic music home, he never wants to listen to it or if we do, he picks it apart because it isn’t hard enough. He is a great musician and dreams of making that his career, but he doesn’t take any active steps towards it.
He has a warrant for not having insurance or registration or inspection and couldn’t pay the ticket. His parents offered to pay it all for him in exchange for him coming out and helping them fix up their new house, and he won’t do it. I have to cart him around everywhere. If I really cared about him deep inside, wouldn’t I feel more patience for him? I am confused as to why I get mad about these things. I try to help him, but he won’t fully accept it. I guess he is lazy?
He and I have lived together the whole time we have been together. There have been a couple of times were he betrayed my trust with a couple of other girls in the beginning of our relationship, and I simply can’t let that go. I don’t think he actually like slept with them, but there was still emotional cheating and him sneaking behind my back that hurt me so badly.
When we argue or have serious talks, sometimes I bring those times up because they still eat away at me inside and he gets mad at me and says that I am bringing up old stuff that isn’t relevant anymore. That it is old news. It shouldn’t matter anymore because so much time has passed.
He doesn’t know this, but I thought that if I did what he did to me behind his back, that I would feel even and better about it. I don’t. Now I feel like I have ruined the relationship on my end, and he has no idea I flirted over text with an ex for a while. The ex and I met up, but I just didn’t want to take it further in real life, so I didn’t.
Can I have a normal relationship with him ever again now that we both have emotionally betrayed each other? He is so perfect for me in so many ways, but I feel like there is a silent black cloud lingering overhead constantly. We’re only 21. Should I end this relationship and start from scratch with another man? Should I try to stick it out with my boyfriend and see if time indeed does heal wounds?
Ok so my girlfriend which is now my EX have dated for 2 years and 5 months. Ive recently started to go back to school because she told me to show her that you can improve with your life. So after signing up for classes, I reminded her that I was going to be busy with work and school. I work 40 hours a week and with school in the way now, im super busy. Anyways, a couple nights ago she broke up with me because we’ve been rocky for about a month and us being too busy with each other. I’ve done so much for her even hop on to her phone plan to help ease stress and pay half the bill for her. She’s been hurt by her EX bf’s and I thought she would understand how it feels and im sure she does because I told her that she must know how Im feeling right now. But anyways, she said it was the last straw and doesnt have the same feelings anymore. I try and try till this day for her to take me back and she still doesnt budge. I’m planning on giving all the stuff she gave me back to her on her birthday. After giving all her stuff back Im going to ignore, not that I want to but Im sure this is what she wants. Me out of her life..Question is, how do you think she would feel?
I am 16 years old and was going out with this guy who is also 16. we were going out for about two months. and then we broke up.And its now been 4 months later and in between he has been saying how much he likes me still. But then he went to where me and my brother work and he had a girl with him that he claims he likes…But she didn’t seem to like him nor did he realy seem to like her. Do you think he maybe did it to make me jealous??? And what are some signs that he may want me back? thanks alot! =]
I own my home. My boyfriend and I have lived together for about 6 years. I don’t want to break up with him. I just don’t want my house trashed (he’s a slob) and my TV stuck on football from August to February (he’s an Eagles fan). He pays his share of household expenses and a "rent" and even keeps most of his stuff in a separate bedroom. But he did not contribute when I had to have the roof replaced and won’t have the money to fix up the bathroom he’s ruined. I love him and don’t want to end the relationship (there are benefits certainly!) but this just can’t go on. In fact, if I ever wanted to sell the house I would have to make him vacate with all his things anyway or at least put much of it into a storage room. How can I tell him that I need my house back for me, since it is after all mine!
Oh and marriage is not in the picture here. We don’t ever plan to get married for a variety of reason. So can I extract him from my home without completely wrecking the relationship?
We have been dating for two years. I would like to make the commitment to move in together. I have four kids, he has never married in his life and has no kids. He’s 44, I’m 40. He says how much he loves me, whenever I bring up putting our lives together, he fusses and whines that he never wants to sell his house and that his only goal in life before he met me was to fix up his amazing garage so he could work on cars there and possibly turn it into a business. My house is too small for him and his house is too small for my whole family. And he is really anal about his house, so we don’t go over there too often. His girlfriend before me he was living with (but not in this house) however, sadly, she died. He told me he wants to go on just like we are, dating, with him sleeping over all the time, but always maintaining our separate residences, separate lives. I want the commitment, planning our future together, not just the living arrangements, but everything. Is 2 yrs too soon?
How to get ur ex back after you hurt him???
I really hurt my ex badly,,i have left my country and travelled away for studying and i ll be there for 3 years we are both in a very hard time but its my first weeks and i feel so lonely which stresses me out more…
I am the kind of person who doesnt watch my tongue when i am angry but i tried to change for him and im still ready to try,,,it really hurts that he’s away cuz he’s the only one i’ve ever loved that much..i know men always get hurt more when u say something very bad to them even if u r mad and it gets onto their prides,but i really need to know what to do 
