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Scarlett no! Wesley tried to scream but it didn’t come out nothing came out of his mouth. And he watched as she walked away from him And then as the car came. And some more…as she died.
Wesley woke up in a cold sweat breathing heavily.”God it was just a dream, that’s all man just a dream” He kept whispering to himself, but he knew that the dream was telling him something. That living without Scarlett and watching her believe he is only a friend to her is like watching her die, and she is dying…out of his life. Loss, even temporary loss can do crazy things to people and Wesley knew that now

‘Why would I ever like someone as ugly and stupid as you Scarlett!?’ The words cut her like razors and she began to cry ‘yeah go ahead and cry baby you aren’t worth anything to me you could have had a chance…earlier’ Scarlett looked up through bleary eyes and saw as Wes walked away another girl in his arms and she began to cry
Scarlett jolted herself up to the dark night around her. ”Oh my god. Oh my god. No…NO” She began to cry. She realized if she never told him how she felt he would never know. He would move on like he never cared at all. She knew she wouldn’t be able to live through it. She just knew. And she knew it all along that that was why she wanted most… to push him away. Fear of rejection can do crazy things to people and Scarlett knew that now

After tossing and turning for an hour Wesley finally decided that he had to see her. It didn’t matter if all he could see was a pile of covers over where she slept, he had to see her know she was safe. Wesley got out of bed and pulled a plain white v-neck t-shirt over his bare chest, then a pair of jeans over his boxers. He hurridly put on his favorite torn up black converse…somehow they gave him confidence. The he quickly but quietly ran out the front door. Wesley walked quickly down the mostly silent streets of Solana Beach California, till he finally stood right in front of Scarlett’s house. “This is it buddy” he told himself “you can’t run away now”.
As Wesley looked up to the second floor he saw a light on. He took a deep breathe and decided to take a chance. He bent down and picked up a pebble that was laying by his foot, he weighed it in his hand, then lightly chucked it at the window. It made a light tap on the glass then fell back to the ground. He waited a few minutes then picked up another and lightly chucked it the window. A few minutes later the window creaked open a little. A small voice whispered into the darkness. “Who is it?”
“Scarlett? Its Wes…I uh…umm was just” Wesley knew there was no logical excuse as to why he was throwing rocks at her window at three in the morning so he just told the truth “I was um checking up on you”
Scarlett yawned confused “What?”
“ummm I came to” Wesley ran a hand through his hair. “to…check on you” He answered closing his eyes.
“oh well umm…thank you?” Scarlett said sounding incoherent
“yeah well uh…bye”
“Wait Wes?” Scarlett whispered.
“Yeah?” Wes said turning around quickly. He found himself wanting to give her whatever she wanted.
“Umm meet me by the front door?”
“sure” Wesley walked across the yard and waited till Scarlett came out in her sweats and t-shirt.
“sorry I umm I just wanted to say…thank you…for umm checking on me’
“oh uh yeah sure” Wesley said confused.
Then Scarlett fell into Wesley’s arms and stood there…hugging him. “I missed you”
Wesley, shocked answered “Umm yeah…so did I”
Scarlett pulled away “sorry”
“no no…its fine…” Wesley said pulling her back against his chest. They stood there…till the sun
began to rise and Wesley had to get home.
As Wesley walked down the streets of Solana Beach, he thought of Scarlett and the way her hair had smelled like it was infused with a hint of warm vanilla. God, why can’t I stop thinking about her. Wesley thought, and he couldn’t. Not her smell, or her eyes, or her laugh, and most definetly not the way she made his heart race. The way she looked at him when he confused her. The way her lips pulled up into a beautiful smile. The way her eyes danced like the waves of the ocean. He wanted to be with her and he knew he couldn’t just deny it, because his heart ached whenever she was away, it raced when she was close, it skipped a beat when he touched her. Wesley knew it was all girly, but…it was the way he felt with her. He couldn’t stop it. He didn’t just want her… he needed her. She had become a necessity.

Scarlett sighed. “God he is perfect.” Scarlett whispered to herself. It was 12:00 in the afternoon and she was still in her sweats in bed thinking of him. How he made her heart stutter then pick up again every time he touched her. He made her want to forget about the present and just live for the times they had together. She knew it had gone a lot farther than just wanting to be with him she needed to be with him. He had beco

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I NEED TO KNOW

if you could only see the way
he looks at you when you turn away
you wouldn’t have to wonder
is this love

the way he watches you move your lips
and when you stumble, fall and when you trip
but you turn to see him
and hes gone

so come on
take a chance
ask that girl out
to the dance

Chours: I wanna know more about you
I wanna know your favorite colors blue
I need to know
I need to know
I wanna know the way you feel inside
don’t let your true colors hide
I need to know
I need to know

I hear you might ask me to the dance
but this could be a fake romance
I ask my friends
what I should do

they say go on take a chance
go on go with him to the dance
you’ll have a great time
dancing under the stars

Chorus

then one day you take me by surprise
you reveal your hidden disguise
what am I to do

Chorus

Louise

I find it hard to believe the way your looking at her
u think she’s just another pretty girl
but theres more to her than just her dark brown curls
she’s different from those other girls

she lays there at night counting the celing panels
so far shes counted 492
she watches tv flipping aimlessy through channels
can’t wait till she gets through

CHORUS:
to scared to show her real self she hides behind
and wishes you knew your always on her mind
she makes a fingerprint engraved in your skin
the most beautiful tattoo it makes your head spin
so get her to open her eyes and see what the rest of the world sees
because she feels far away, bring me back louise

I wish she could see just what you do
because when she looks in the mirror she doesn’t see whats true
that girl with freckles all over her cheeks
the one who barely murmurs a word, the one who never speaks

CHORUS x2

UNDERGROUND

Verse 1
i’m over the fight over the fear
the end of the dark is finally here
i’m not letting go i’m trying to show
just how i feel this loves really real

ive just got to keep trying ill get there someday
who knows tomorrow, maybe today
keep holding on, were almost there
don’t worry babe I promise I swear

CHORUS
the walls start to crumble
were almost there
weve got to hurry up no time to spare
grab my hand ill lead the way
the times flying by, disapeering away
i was stuck under ground
without any light
for just too long but now it’s right

Verse 3
your deep blue eyes set into my face
nothing here but wide open space
the walls around me have finally gone
I am now free to move on

i now know what i want it is easy to see
im looking at you your looking at me

CHORUS x 2

50 years from now

Were jumping up and down on my old trampoline
I look up at the sky it’s an amazing clear blue
the green in your eyes shines next to the yellow flowers in bloom
we pump our legs to see who can pump higher
our hair blows in the wind and we play hide and seek
the days fly by and soon Monday is Friday
and one day the day will come when I’ll have to leave

but I’ll always remember the days I spent with you
on my bedroom floor under the red and blue tent
and I’ll never forget the time we went to sleep at 2 am
and the day we saw the movie that made me cry
and when we used to play dress ups and jump so high
and when you held my hand when we both crossed the finish line
those are the days I will remember when I’m sitting next to you 50 years from now

We’ve got our pink dresses and our makeup on
we go downstairs and play singstar until the morning
we’d pick handfuls of honeysuckles in the spring
We wouldn’t spend a second away from each other
people were always like wow those girls are always together
we linked arms and walked at the same pace
and I’d look at your smile and think I don’t want to leave this place

but I’ll always remember the days I spent with you
on my bedroom floor under the red and blue tent
and I’ll never forget the time we went to sleep at 2 am
and the day we saw the movie that made me cry
and when we used to play dress ups and jump so high
and when you held my hand when we both crossed the finish line
those are the days I will remember when I’m sitting next to you 50 years from now x2

Who knows where will be in the future
nothing is certain but all I know for now is one thing
that I’ll be sitting next to you 50 years from now

please let me know what you think. thanks in advance :)

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i walked away
alone on a rainy day
she was still on my mind
nostop all the time
but as i thought about it throught the day
the love her ran away
u were to worryed about other guys
to busy cryign about other lyes
im tired of hearing ur cry
u had ur chance and u let it past ur eyes
andas i look bak now and then
im glad i was always only a friend

thre was a girl mean and cold
but every where she went romance rose
she was like potsmoke
so addicting
but a bad infection
like a bad conection
a bad date
a bad mistake
a bad fate
but i just couldnt get enough
some might just say i was in love
but i like to say it was lust
so i saw her crying near the pond
i found it rely odd
since usally the guys were crying
now it was like she was dying
she looked at me and asked for help
i tyed to stop myself
but i was to influenced with her smell
it was like from heaven i fell
in a spilt second everythign turned gray
and she began to walk away
i watched her leave
infront of me

i walked away
alone on a rainy day
she was still on my mind
nostop all the time
but as i thought about it throught the day
the love her ran away
u were to worryed about other guys
to busy cryign about other lyes
im tired of hearing ur cry
u had ur chance and u let it past ur eyes
andas i look bak now and then
im glad i was always only a friend

the next day i saw her there
saw her in place i cant belive where
she ran up tome and gave me a hug
it was like she pulled my heart right back under the rug
i try to bury my love her
i tryd to forget loving her
i tryd to let go of her
i tryd to lie to her
see i dont y
but ihad to say good bye
but how can i say i love u to someone like her
someone who was untouchble to me
someone who would never like me
someone to high up in socity
someone who had a boyfriend better than me
the was i knew this person to
the kid she loved was a great man through and through
i payed my respect
i gave my due
but through all aspect i was more crushed then u
see i didnt kno wat to expect
from a crazy like vexy
a tranfixed imagination
a fucked up imatation
everythign i tryd to do
was always thinking of u

i walked away
alone on a rainy day
she was still on my mind
nostop all the time
but as i thought about it throught the day
the love her ran away
u were to worryed about other guys
to busy cryign about other lyes
im tired of hearing ur cry
u had ur chance and u let it past ur eyes
andas i look bak now and then
im glad i was always only a friend

i guess life had changed my plan
its been a while since i thought about back then
but now i guess im over u
and maybe i just got throguh to u
i bet ur hearing this song
and ur singing along
i knou wished u had me
i kno u wished u had picked me
maybe it was not ment to be
maybe fate has somethign else for me
maybe fate knew i would waste my time
maybe i born to write this rhyme
maybe life neded me
to be everythign i could be
and maybe u were not enough
maybe i was just to tough
maybe i was always better
maybe u were never even come close
maybe i chosen to outspoke
maybe i was to be the one
the one dat escaped ur grasp
maybe the guy that wasnt ment tokiss ur ass
and i kno u want me cuz im the one u never had
im the one u could never have bak
and as u reflect back on ur past
u noticed i am the first and last
to love u and be intrested
to bad i was diffrent
to bad i wasnt settleing for less
to best u were to concerned about ur breasts
maybe i am the right guy
but i guess ull never kno
and for now until i die
im the one stealing the show

i walked away
alone on a rainy day
she was still on my mind
nostop all the time
but as i thought about it throught the day
the love her ran away
u were to worryed about other guys
to busy cryign about other lyes
im tired of hearing ur cry
u had ur chance and u let it past ur eyes
andas i look bak now and then
im glad i was always only a friend

and pleaseeee can u check out my other songs thnx

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It seems that women talk a big game about love, romance and relationships, but what do women really know about the topic? Women talk about finding a guy with certain values and qualities, but if he doesn’t have perfect looks she won’t want anything to do with him. If a women were to meet a guy with no good values, nor qualities, but he looked a certain way she will give him a million chances. I’ve always believed that if you meet a person and the sparks aren’t there the first second it’s ok. I’ve always felt that if you give a person a chance and get to know them you might find yourself surprised by that person and you might find yourself liking, wanting and appreciating that other person. For me a good relationship takes time to build, so as long as no red flags are out its ok. And if the sparks aren’t there on first look it doesn’t mean it won’t be there on second or third look. Why do women think that they know the second they meet a person if that person is right for them, or not?
Why not give a person a chance to prove themselves? It seems that women are very impatient and want Instant gratification, instant sparks, and instant attraction.
To me this seems like lust. And all women want to have is constant perpetual lust. I don’t think there is anything wrong with that, just stop pretending you want more. Actions speak louder than words and a woman’s actions suggest that infatuation and lust is what women are really after. Am I wrong? Going out into the dating scene I see a ton of women talk about wanting a certain type of guy, and complaining that he doesn’t exist, but when she meets that good guy she will look for anything to nit pick at no matter how small in order to blow the guy off. Then she ends up going out with a guy who is the exact opposite of what she said she is looking for. And a month later she is single again complaining that all men are scum, only wanting one thing and good guys don’t exist.
It seems the dating scene is a never ending cycle where all women really want to do is complain. From people I have met for the first time I must have heard how funny, sweet, nice, thoughtful I am a million times at least. If I never hear those things again I’ll be just fine, because after hearing it so many times I know. Tell me if this makes sense. A woman might say she is into a person, because he possesses certain qualities i.e. funny, caring, and sweet just to cover up the fact she has ulterior motives in why she is really into him, because in reality that guy might not actually possess any of those traits. A woman might say she doesn’t want to be judged based on looks, but on whom she is, but it seems she doesn’t know how to give the same courtesy back. In reality the only thing that matters to women is what’s on the outside and what’s on the inside doesn’t. If a woman were to say it does matter than she is just lying to you, or herself. Am I right in saying that?
When a woman meets a nice guy why is her first instinct to walk all over him? Are women insane? If a guy asks for a woman’s opinion in her mind he isn’t a take charge type of guy. If he doesn’t ask all of a sudden he doesn’t value her opinions. If a guy shows some sensitivity he all of a sudden is a wimp. It seems everything is a double edge sword with a woman and I am dammed if I do and damned if I don’t. Women talk about wanting to find themselves in a good relationship and wanting to be with someone who wants to be with them, but if they find themselves meeting that person all of a sudden she thinks he’s needy and the woman runs away. It seems that women are the ones who are really scared of commitments. A woman finds a guy that is married all of a sudden she wants to be with him too. Don’t women know that if a guy cheats to be with you he will likely cheat on you too?
Am I right, or wrong in saying a woman talks about wanting a guy who listens, because she doesn’t know how to listen herself and all she wants to do is talk? Also, am I wrong in saying a women talks about communication skills, but she expects a man to be a mind reader and women are really bad at communicating themselves? A woman might ask a guy to open up more, but if he ever does than all of a sudden he is being unfair to her by burdening her and over whelming her with a problem he might have. I think if a guy is in a relationship with a woman he should value her, show her how much he cares and be there for her. But why if a guy ever asks for appreciation and the same in return he is being needy? Are there any women out there who actually know how to listen, communicate and open up themselves? I can’t tell you how many women I’ve met over the years crying and saying there last bf cheated on them several times and they took the guy back several times.
After awhile I start to think women want guys to cheat on them. After all a cheater is a challenge and women loves challenges. It just seems that guys who respect women aren’t considered a challenge and therefore she doesn’t want anything to do with him. Making a relationship work is hard enough, so why can’t a woman find the challenge in helping a guy out in making the relationship work. I think women are very destructive in how they go about relationships? Women when in a relationship seem to want to constantly test a guys love for her and if he can’t the games any more he fails the test, but if he keeps coming back the tests keep coming and the guy is nothing more than a doormat. Anyone agrees, or disagree? Say a woman is in a relationship with a guy and things start to fizzle down the woman will leave the relationship instead of doing something to get the relationship back on track.
I say this because women think with there emotions, so if things aren’t great for them they instantly think it must be over. It seems that guys have to do everything in a relationship for a woman. Women talk about trust, but a woman will test and betray that trust at every turn and it feels like women want guys to put them in there place. Are women like little children where they constantly need to be entertained and if they aren’t they will cause mischief and find ways to cause trouble? Paris Hilton called herself a role model the other day and she is right. It seems that women everywhere value a good party above all else and all a women really wants to do is get drunk, flash her chest and dance on top of tables. Again, I don’t have a problem with a woman doing that at all. I just want to know if any woman out there really knows what an adult relationship is about and if they know how to make one work.
Statistics show that 70% of all women would marry a guy strictly based on money. Many surveys show that women have an ideal look in mind for a partner, but she would date someone who doesn’t fit that look if the guy is rich. They have done surveys with women in speed dating events where she says she is looking for someone with certain qualities, but the results show her decision making has nothing to do with the qualities of the guy, but 100% based on looks. If a women breaks up with, or doesn’t want to be with a guy the guy is told be a man, move on and get over it. If a guy breaks up with, or doesn’t want to be with a woman then he for some reason he is a jerk, or has commitment issues. If a woman has her emotions hurt then if she does anything in retaliation i.e. destroying his car, ruining his credit, or trashing his reputation she is justified somehow?
It seems that women only think with there emotions, so if they feel a certain way then anything they do is rationalized and justified. Do women even know right from wrong? Are all women selfish, shallow, judgmental, manipulative, deceitful, insane and gold digging where they only like unavailable guys, or guys that treat them like garbage, or guys that are rich for no other reason then they are rich? And once a women gets what she wants, i.e. money she will leave the relationship. I don’t have anything against women for I believe in a woman’s freedom of choice, and freedom to vote. And I think a woman has every right to move up the ladder of success for I believe many women could do corporate jobs just as well as any man if not better. I’ve even voted before for some women into political positions. I think one of the greatest prime ministers that ever lived was a woman. I just want to know in the dating scene are there are any good women who are worthwhile?
I was at this coffee shop the other day for an open mic night and these women in front of me where making smug comments about everyone who went on stage. In the list above I forgot to mention snobby, stuckup, and completely full of themselves. Women really need to get over themselves. On the radio the other day this one guy called in asking for opinions about this argument he was in with his GF and he wasn’t in the argument, but his GF got on his case about something stupid. Women talk about understanding, but it seems they can’t see past there own noses to understand any ones elses point of view. When a woman talkes about understanding she just means she wants others to understand her point of view no matter how ridiculous it might be.

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I met my wife when I was 26, we fell in love so hard and fast. We got married exactly a year later. Before her, I was having way too much fun with more than one. I loved her, so I made a commitment and asked her to be my wife. A month before the wedding I kept thinking about how this was it, no one else.. I was getting cold feet. I married her though, and married life scared me. I was childish and immature. I told her it was a mistake and I had growing up to do. After being married for five months, I ran away and I never looked back. I cut all contact from her and I told her I didn’t want to hear from her. I moved back to Australia from Canada.

Four years later, she still remains the love of my life. I’m ashamed of not being able to be the man she saw the potential of emerging within me. Since she realized I couldn’t be a husband, she thought I couldn’t be a father. I never knew I have a three year old daughter until eight months ago.

I’m back here in Canada, and I am being a father to my daughter. I know my wife still loves me. I have grown and I am the man I couldn’t be back then. She has had a serious relationship with her boyfriend for a little over a year. I know for a fact she still loves me but she doesn’t want her heart broken by me again.

I made a big mistake four years ago. I realize she wasn’t going to wait for me. Is there any hope? She is my wife for God’s sake. I wasn’t a husband to her before… but now I am ready.

What do I do? How is my wife feeling over this? Last we spoke, I put her in tears because I told her she is my wife and I love her with all my heart, but she said she needs a man who won’t desert her.

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My wife kicked me out, and now i live in a basement. It sucks, but that’s how it is. She was always verbal pretty mean to me, sadly that’s how she grew up. She told me to leave before, I I never did. This time, I just couldn’t take it no more. We also have to children.
It’s only been 5 days and she said that she misses me and that she is sorry. She’s never said that before. She said she didn’t think that I’d ever leave. I went to see her and she was all crying and everything. I want to stay away, but I have to admit I’m feeling weak, I think she might mean it?? Like I say, it’s only been 5 days… How long should I hold out? However… This new found freedom is pretty cool too! :)

Thanks!
"go back and deal with it"… Oh… O.k.
You have NO clue what I had to deal with. Trust me, if I was a girl thats not what you’d be saying!

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I have a young friend who is saving himself for marriage.

I’m NOT talking about sex of course, that would just be silly!

I’m talking about spending any of his money on a woman.

He thinks that before he dishes out any of his money on a woman, that he needs to be sure she’s willing to "commit".

He’d like to spend time with and really get to know a woman before he spreads open his pocket book.

Of course they’d go out, but they’d just always go "Dutch" (he’d pay for himself and she’d pay for herself).

He thinks that spending his hard earned money on a woman is something special that he’d like to save for the woman he’s going to marry. That way the act of him spending money on her is "special" when they finally do get married.

I’ve just got to say that I think it’s commendable that he doesn’t want to just give in to peer pressure and empty his bank account to just ANY woman who comes along.

Ladies, what are your thoughts?

Would you get with and/or stay with a guy like this?
——————–
EDIT in response to 結縁 Himei’s Answer:

Well, OF COURSE they’d be having SEX! Why wouldn’t they be if they’re in a committed and loving relationship?

Are you saying that it is only o.k. to have sex with a guy if he’s spending a bunch of money on you?

If so, wouldn’t that sort of be the same as prostitution?

Please tell me that women aren’t so shallow that they’re only having sex (or making love) with a guy because he’s paying for everything!!

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101 Things Not To Say During Sex
1. But everybody looks funny naked!

2. You woke me up for that?

3. Did I mention the video camera?

4. Do you smell something burning?

5. (In a janitor’s closet) And they say romance is dead…

6. Try breathing through your nose.

7. A little rug burn never hurt anyone!

8. Is that a Medic-Alert Pendant?

9. Sweetheart, did you lock the back door?

10. But whipped cream makes me break out.

11. Person 1: This is your first time… right? Person 2: Yeah… today.

12. Hurry up! This room rents by the hour!

13. Can you please pass me the remote control?

14. Do you accept Visa?

15. zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

16. On second thought, let’s turn off the lights.

17. And to think — I was really trying to pick up your friend!

18. So much for mouth-to-mouth.

19. (Using body paint) Try not to leave any stains, okay?

20. Hope you’re as good looking when I’m sober…

21. (Holding a banana) It’s just a little trick I learned at the zoo!

22. Do you get any premium movie channels?

23. Try not to smear my make-up, will ya!

24. (Preparing to incorporate peanut butter) But I just steam-cleaned this couch!

25. Got any penicillin?

26. But I just brushed my teeth…

27. Smile, you’re on Candid Camera!

28. I thought you had the keys to the handcuffs!

29. I want a baby!

30. So much for the fulfillment of sexual fantasies!

31. (In a menage a trois) Why am I doing all the work?

32. Maybe we should call Dr. Ruth…

33. Did you know the ceiling needs painting?

34. I think you have it on backwards.

35. When is this supposed to feel good?

36. Put that blender back in the kitchen where it belongs!

37. You’re good enough to do this for a living!

38. Is that blood on the headboard?

39. Did I remember to take my pill?

40. Are you sure I don’t know you from somewhere?

41. I wish we got the Playboy channel..

42. That leak better be from the waterbed!

43. I told you it wouldn’t work without batteries!

44. But my cat always sleeps on that pillow..

45. Did I tell you my Aunt Martha died in this bed?

46. If you quit smoking you might have more endurance.

47. No, really.. I do this part better myself!

48. It’s nice being in bed with a woman I don’t have to inflate!

49. This would be more fun with a few more people.

50. You’re almost as good as my ex!

51. Do you know the definition of statutory rape?

52. Is that you I smell or is it your mattress stuffed with rotten potatoes?

53. You look younger than you feel.

54. Perhaps you’re just out of practice.

55. You sweat more than a galloping stallion!

56. They’re not cracker crumbs, it’s just a rash.

57. Now I know why he/she dumped you..

58. Does your husband own a sawed-off shotgun?

59. You give me reason to conclude that foreplay is overrated.

60. What tampon?

61. Have you ever considered liposuction?

62. And to think, I didn’t even have to buy you dinner!

63. What are you planning to make for breakfast?

64. I have a confession..

65. I was so horny tonight I would have taken a duck home!

66. Are those real or am I just behind the times?

67. Were you by any chance repressed as a child?

68. Is that a hanging sculpture?

69. You’ll still vote for me, won’t you?

70. Did I mention my transsexual operation?

71. I really hate women who actually think sex means something!

72. Did you come yet, dear?

73. I’ll tell you who I’m fanatasizing about if you tell me who you’re fantasizing about..

74. A good plastic surgeon can take care of that in no time!

75. Does this count as a date?

76. Oprah Winfrey had a show about men like you!

77. Hic! I need another beer for this please.

78. I think biting is romantic — don’t you?

79. You can cook, too right?

80. When would you like to meet my parents?

81. Man: Maybe it would help if I thought about someone I really like.. Woman: Yourself?

82. Have you seen "Fatal Attraction"?

83. Sorry about the name tags, I’m not very good with names.

84. Don’t mind me.. I always file my nails in bed.

85. (In a phone booth) Do you mind if I make a few phone calls?

86. I hope I didn’t forget to turn the gas oven off. Do you have a light?

87. Don’t worry, my dog’s really friendly for a Doberman.

88. Sorry but I don’t do toes!

89. You could at least ACT like you’re enjoying it!

90. Petroleum jelly or no petroleum jelly, I said NO!

91. Keep it down, my mother is a light sleeper..

92. I’ll bet you didn’t know I work for "The Enquirer".

93. So that’s why they call you Mr. Flash!

94. My old girlfriend used to do it a LOT longer!

95. Is this a sin too?

96. I’ve slept with more women than Wilt Chamberlain!

97. Hey, when is it going to be my friend’s turn?

98. Long kisses clog my sinuses..

99. Please understand that I’m only doing this for a raise..

100. How long do you plan to be "almost there"?

101.You mean you’re NOT my blind date?
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My friend has recently wrote a story for www.fanfiction.com, and her story is under Games, Pokemon, Romance, M for mature only, and it’s called A Pokemon Love Story. She really has been having second thought about it, but I tell her it’s really good. Please if anybody get a chance can you please read her story even if you just read the first page, and can you leave a comment, or just tell me on here how you liked it! Thankyou!

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A girl- who is hopelessly falling in love with a guy who doesn’t see her more than a friend- finds a classified in the paper about a dating class hosted by a romance novelist with private session on how to score a hottie and get sexy- a prayer answered. The Novelists promises to help women win over their lovers in a month or less, so the girl goes for it- she’s after the hottest guy in New York city, a fictional actor/model who she used to know in high school eight years ago (she briefly became reacquainted with him) but has no chance with. the novelist shows her how to win the guy, who’s falling in love with the novelist, who the hopeless girl is supposedly in love with but may be having second thoughts about, who’s best guy friend is falling for HER. It’s supposed to be a huge love triangle with mayhem romance, comedy and real life situations. How does it sound? It won’t be corny, promise!
Its going to be a book. Thanks for the nice comments guys! you are ALL the greatest. Except the haters… LOL

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Ok I had a little romance and sex with a 50 year old women. I am 28. I learned her ex-husband tested positive for STD’s and I got real worried. I broke down and told my mother everything, who is a nurse, she told me to get tested and assured me the chance that I caught anything with just a few sex encounters with this girl are slim. I got blood tests done and will know next week if I caught anything.

At first I wanted to leave her because I was mad she didn’t tell me her husband came down with STD’s, but I can’t. I love her too much, I can’t end it. My parents are telling me to find a girl my own age and my mother is making me feel guilty that I am dating a girl my mother’s age. I think about her everyday, every hour, every second of the day.

If I break up with her I think I would kill myself, I was looking for easy sex and wasn’t anticipating that I would fall in love with her. I don’t want sex anymore I want to be with her, I miss her so much. I don’t know what to do.

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is there a limit on how much i can really write here?
i was just wondering because it never says u have such and such amount of characters left or so
i am going to copy and paste some quotes and sayings , u can read them if you r bored like me , lol but u don’t have to

f you love somebody, set them free. If they return, they were always yours. If they don’t, they never were.

Friendship often ends in love; but love in friendship – never.

You don’t love a woman because she is beautiful, but she is beautiful because you love her.

Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get, it’s what you are expected to give — which is everything.

Love builds bridges where there are none.

Love can sometimes be magic. But magic can sometimes…just be an illusion.

The definition of a beautiful woman is one who loves me.

Love is like the sun coming out of the clouds and warming your soul.

Life without love is like a tree without fruit.

To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.

A lawful kiss is never worth a stolen one.

Age does not protect you from love, but love to some extent protects you from age.

The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return.

Only love let’s us see normal things In an extraordinary way.

There’s always room for love; You just have to move a few things around.

Love means never having to say you’re sorry.

If you judge people, you have no time to love them.

It’s so simple to be wise. Just think of something stupid to say and then don’t say it.

A lot of beautiful people are stupid. There’s a tremendous amount of idiots who look so good. It’s frightening.

A day without sunshine is like, you know, night.

As far as we know, our computer has never had an undetected error.

Being stupid is its own reward

Fiction writing is great, you can make up almost anything.

I owe a lot to my parents, especially my mother and father.

Only the wisest and stupidest of men never change.

STUPID = Smart Talented Unique Person In Demand

With fame I become more and more stupid, which of course is a very common phenomenon.

I say no to drugs, but they don’t listen.

If aliens are looking for intelligent life?! WHY THE HECK ARE YOU SCARED?!

The government is not doing enough about cleaning up the environment. This is a good planet.

Sure, it’s going to kill a lot of people, but they may be dying of something else anyway.

Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I’m not sure about the former.

I have opinions of my own –strong opinions– but I don’t always agree with them.

The spontaneous rally will begin at 1:45.

Stop being so stupid.. it’s my turn.

I don’t think anyone should write his autobiography until after he’s dead.

If you have noticed this notice you will have noticed that this notice is not worth noticing

When your dad is mad and asks you, “Do I look stupid?” Don’t answer him

You can’t just let nature run wild.

Nobody in football should be called a genius. A genius is a guy like Norman Einstein.

A low voter turnout is an indication of fewer people going to the polls.

I cannot tell you how grateful I am — I am filled with humidity.

The private enterprise system indicates that some people have higher incomes than others.

Eight more days and I can start telling the truth again.

Many wise words are spoken in jest, but they don’t compare with the number of stupid words spoken in earnest.

Failure is only a temporary change in direction to set you straight for your next success.

Only those who dare to fail greatly can ever achieve greatly.

Our business in life is not to succeed, but to continue to fail in good spirits.

If there exists no possibility of failure, then victory is meaningless.

A failure is a man who has blundered but is not capable of cashing in on the experience.

Remember, no man is a failure who has friends.

One must be a god to be able to tell successes from failures without making a mistake.

Experience is simply the name we give our mistakes.

Courage is going from failure to failure without losing enthusiasm.

The only real failure in life is the failure to try.

There are no secrets to success. It is the result of preparation, hard work, and learning from failure.

Life’s real failure is when you do not realize how close you were to success when you gave up.

Success builds character, failure reveals it.

There are no failures – just experiences and your reactions to them.

Failure is the tuition you pay for success.

A man may fall many times, but he won’t be a failure until he says that someone pushed him.

Failure is not falling down but refusing to get up.

You cannot do wrong without suffering wrong.

He who fails to plan, plans to fail.

Notice the difference between what happens when a man says to himself, “I have failed three times,
lol
and more can still be added, i stooped because my computer was freaking out at the moment and as someone stated , i thought none was gonna read them!

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My ex and I have been divorced since May. I was ok with it and have been fine until I found out he is dating our bank teller that we closed our account with. I love him still and it sickens me the thought of him with her. I gained weight while we were married and he resented that. This girl is gorgeous and everything he could ever want. So, I went out and got a personal trainer and have been working my butt off to look better then this new girl. Will he try to come back or hit on me? My heart wants it but my instinct tells me when he does to tell him "no way, no how!" Im obsessing over this.Ive been to counceling and its helped a little but the thought of him and her being intimate makes me sick. What should I do?

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Clean up first!!! This is a long one!!!!! My Taurus ex told me everything, he admitted that he ran away from me because he didn’t want to pressure me into a committment after ( me) going through a divorce and becoming single again. We had a beautiful relationship and still do, only its platonic now. We remained friends through me going off and dating other guys to him living with someone. A chick from his past. He admitted to me that he made a huge mistake, he says he’s told her its not working out and he wants out. He says she threatened to break his things. He’s disguisted with so many things about her like, not cooking, not cleaning, always arguing with him, and he pays all the bills, has a great job and is a really good man. We both agreed that timing was bad for us then, but it gave us a chance to go back out into the world to explore, well, I never found another like him, and always hoped that he would come back to me, he was out trying to find somebody better and got a smack in the face! I’m not sitting and waiting for him but, my hopes are high and he says there is no way he, wants to waste anymore time with this girl, so he’s gonna wait til the lease is up so that she can’t break his things. He doesn’t want sex from me and hasn’t had sex with me in about 2 years. He says he knows he will be happy with me, he says "you’ll see, I want to take care of you and your kids" He kept saying that he wants to be with me and that I have sooo many great qualities and that he made a mistake, says he’s always loved me, just didn’t want me to resent him for pushing me into a relationship, says I’m the one he wants to live with and he even wants a baby. Now this all came out of this secretive, sensitive, masculine, well behaved, loyal, dedicated man’s mouth. In the 3 years I have known this man, he has never pured his feelings about me to me this way, he always witheld. He even admitted that he thought he had found somebody better than me, and admitted he was wrong. I’m more in love with him now!!! I told him how I appreciated his honesty and will give him the time he needs to handle his business. She seems to be doing a good job at keeping me on his mind! He says he’s just gonna let the lease end and she will have to make it on her own, he’s caring and he would’t put someone with no job out on the street. I respect the way he’s handling this situation because he’s not abusing me, nor is he disrespecting her. We are not having sex until they are not living together. We both agreed to that. We may meet up a couple times, but, I’m thinking about telling him to just wait, until the lease ends. I have his respect, his loyalty and his promises for now…….. How can I make this situation as comfortable as possible yet, nudge him to maybe come clean with this woman and tell her that he’s clearly in love with another woman( me). He’s stated how he feels bad for being with her knowing he’s thinking about me and in love with me. He bought me engagement ring when we were dating but, it was too soon for me and we never ended on bad terms, never argued. He says I taught him so many things and I am the one he wants to be with. He was put under pressure to move her in because she lost her job and all, he says that she’s not ambitious like I am. This man described so many things that he loves about me, that I had no idea he even recognized. I believe this man and I know it takes a real man to be honest. He held onto me for 2years after our breakup, I am not desperate, I am very confident, beautiful, intelligent, and just know what I want. I just gotta be patient. Has any other woman dealt with this type of situation, or simular, and how did it work out? I don’t need any negetive feedback, I not asking what anyone thinks, I’m asking what the experience has been, so please refrain from wasting your time if you’re not intelligent enough to respect other people’s situation.
He didn’t come off as fake to me, he explained himself as caring about me and my feelings, not being able to look at me without lying to me, he cared too much too hurt me and didn’t want to lose me, obviously he had a feeling he mad a mistake, and I am an Aries, I am forgiving and with him I have learned patience so, I accept the truth wheher it hurts or not but, thanks for the comment

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ok last knights two didn’t work to well one was to easy one has eifer to hard or posted to late i only got one answer saying who is bring me the horizon lol

question:what my chemical romance song has the following lyrics
Sister, I’m not much a poet, but a criminal
And you never had a chance
Love it, or leave it, you can’t understand
A pretty face, but you do so carry on,
and on,
and on

clue:this song was from there second album

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ok last knights two didn’t work to well one was to easy one has eifer to hard or posted to late i only got one answer saying who is bring me the horizon lol

question:what my chemical romance song has the following lyrics
Sister, I’m not much a poet, but a criminal
And you never had a chance
Love it, or leave it, you can’t understand
A pretty face, but you do so carry on,
and on,
and on

clue:this song was from there second album

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Mkay…
I’m auditioning for a chance to perform with 15 other thespians in June… I need two ninety-second monologues of differing types, i.e. comedy and drama, romance and adventure, however you choose to look at it.
I know I have the ability, I just don’t know where the heck to find good monologues!
Your thoughts?

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I am talking outside the artificial aquarium of high school or even college. It is much harder than girls imagine for a guy to meet a girl, introduce himself without interrupting a gaggle of girls who don’t appreciate the interruption, and get to know her and ask her out.

Most places a guy can go have lots of guys — very few available women. The women are all at home hiding behind closed doors, eating ice cream, and complaining about how they never meet anyone. If a woman does venture out, she stays for 10 seconds, decides nothing is happening, and leaves before a guy has a chance to even size her up and see if she is with someone, interested in being approached, etc. Women usually travel in an armed camp of hostile girls whose job it is to shoot at any guy who comes near, and — out of jealousy — destroy their girlfriend’s chance at romance. WHERE ARE YOU GIRLS HIDING after work?

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The truth is a beautiful thing
Despite the pain that it can bring
For you have to know what is real
Before you have the chance to heal
Or you’ll always second guess
If the answer’s no or yes

It was always absurd
But you never said a word
So I thought I had a chance
With you and romance
Why didn’t you say
There was no way?

So, thank you for the broken heart
You could have stopped it from the start
The only gift you ever gave me
Because you could never see
The world through my eyes
So thank you for the lies

I’ve got to move on
Make these feelings be gone
But it’s so hard to be mad at your eyes
Gorgeous and blue as the skies
I know my dreams can’t come true
But why do I still dream of you?

You shattered my heart in a million pieces
Oh and the pain only increases
Now each day, I have to hide
All my feelings deep inside
To make sure that you can’t see
Just what you did to me

So, thank you for the broken heart
You could have stopped it from the start
The only gift you ever gave me
Because you could never see
The world through my eyes
So thank you for the lies

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1- "Last Chance For Romance"!
This Is My last Chance For "Romance Tonight" Been Waiting For this Feeling For Miles and years ago … Never knew you can explore the way you have done to my physical Needs. Underneath It all was A dream that came front in a way that I have never witness before. Lost In a world and alone in a shell feeling heartless beyond anyone wildest fears that can occur, Untill; Tragedy take place to excelerate an heart beat to Abnormal Pace. Glued to the mass, Feeling The lenghth of time On the dance floor swinging from left to right without a sight of the beauty thats she hold from day in and day out. As the clock ticks this is my last chance for Romance Tonight. I been waiting for this Time For Miles and years ago….. Never had someone that can change my heart from cold, so I am Asking for one chance tonight. "ooooHHHH!!!!!!!!!"! I’m so Founder to this Whole situation that was brought Forth to me. Loving the sight of everything that change me in seconds, just moments ago I was Reckless, now I have my last Chance for Romance Tonight! #2-

The Abortion that aborted the Baby In The Process Of Finding A "Real Soulmate".
A young man name Trace cries out loud to his women Shelly, when he finds out she is baring his seed, as his heart pound , Shelly says how can this be. Trace response Was " This Is Heaventsent , a wish that was turn in to a Godly Blession", but to Shelly, ooh no… It was a curse more so like a nightmare staring back at her in the mirror that is now forming into her daily reality.At this point in her life, she could not deal with a child cries screams at night , so Shelly explain to Trace, yes your wishes are true, that this child In me is from you, but I can’t bear it Cause I"m still not done with courses in school. I have my whole life ahead of me and I can not deal with the pain that having this child would bring to me physically as well as mentally, so Trace responded to her while having a glare in his eye,Woman please know what your doing Before you go through with it , for that I was a child of a mother that was going to abort me and, an Angel talk her out of it, what you have in side of u is meant, if u abort it, then history will place are feelings with the past and that will be the end of something that we had. Six days later Trace did not hear from his woman.At this time he was at the park watching the Sunset nearly dark, While he was in the moment a child ran next to him, While the child was running it stumble and Fell to his knees. In the Background all you hear is Tommy.oh my God… Tommy!!. This was the child Mother name Sara, Gorgeous lady she and Trace made eye contact apparently Because He was picking her Child up. She smile and said Thank you.While he Handed Tommy Back to Sara He express to her, you have a healthy son. he fell without shedding a tear. In the Back of Trace Mind was Shelly and his unborn seed. So Trace ask Sara For her Cell or house number. she gave him her Email.He programed It in to his phone while waving by to her. He emailed her Instantly and she wrote back for days after days.When Shelly finally contacted Trace over the phone, she said her words very slowly, as his heart occur to skip beats she took a deep breath and said. I’m in pain, I Don’t want to think about what I have done but it was the best for me at this time, before She could finish, Trace said how could you do this, a part of me no longer exist, so he hung up the phone and check his email and what did you know. Sara had invited him over her place for movie and dinner with her son.He Accepted it.From that Point on they grow closer to each other.He was happy to have a child that he never had and a Soulmate that came with it. Months And weeks later they got married and she was due six months later to Trace and Her expected child…The End.

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The truth is a beautiful thing
Despite the pain that it can bring
For you have to know what is real
Before you have the chance to heal
Or you’ll always second guess
If the answer’s no or yes

It was always absurd
But you never said a word
So I thought I had a chance
With you and romance
Why didn’t you say
There was no way?

So, thank you for the broken heart
You could have stopped it from the start
The only gift you ever gave me
Because you could never see
The world through my eyes
So thank you for the lies

I’ve got to move on
Make these feelings be gone
But it’s so hard to be mad at your eyes
Gorgeous and blue as the skies
I know my dreams can’t come true
But why do I still dream of you?

You shattered my heart in a million pieces
Oh and the pain only increases
Now each day, I have to hide
All my feelings deep inside
To make sure that you can’t see
Just what you did to me

So, thank you for the broken heart
You could have stopped it from the start
The only gift you ever gave me
Because you could never see
The world through my eyes
So thank you for the lies

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My ex boyfriend broke up with me a few years back bc I got clingy with him and he couldn’t take it anymore. We started being "friends with benefits" but I couldn’t take doing that anymore, and then I met another guy. After that, I was out of my ex’s life for 2 years bc I eventually married the new guy. After two and a half years of marriage, I divorced my husband and contacted my ex. We met up again, chatted, became friends, and then ended up having sex, and have been "friends with benefits" for 5 months now.

I’m falling in love with him all over again and so I asked him if he still loved me. He told me that he loves me, cares about me a lot, and doesn’t want me out of his life… but that he is not IN love with me. And he added in that he gets very weak when he’s around me bc he’s very attracted to me, and that out of all the other girls he ever dated, he had the most fun with me, and thinks about all of our good times we had while we were dating. He even told me that he was upset that I moved on with my husband after he broke up with me bc (and I quote) "we would be married right now with two kids if I never left out his life and got married". But how was I supposed to know that he would’ve eventually gotten back together with me???

When I’m with him, I feel like he is IN love with me (and wants to be my boyfriend again) from the way he touches me (very softly and gently), and he lets me spend the night at his place (in the past when we were having casual sex, right after breaking up, he would make me go home after sex). Plus, sometimes, we spend hours on the phone talking and we enjoy each others conversations.

Do you think that later on down the road, through sex alone, that this guy’s mind may change and want to get back together with me? Does he still want me and doesn’t want to let on?

PS. When we were dating, he use to tell me that I was "the one". And he likes the fact that I’ve changed, bc I’m not clingy anymore. I grew up a lot. But he still told me he’s not ready for a relationship right now.

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So fitting are the melodies
Softly playing in your heart.
Think of moment’s beauty lift
Until the second we must part.
Fascinations’ running wild
Option’s open wide all gates.
Longing’s for that gentle sway
Given to the one who waits.
Leaping into desolation
Reaching out with lonely eyes
Seeking long awaited answer’s
Fighting through emotion’s lies.
Loosing all constructed pride
Now giving in to chance
Fame once more this sleeping love
Awaken our long lost romance.

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I don’t need any comments on here telling me anything nasty. I’ve heard it all before and I don’t need anyone to call me names or tell me about my lack of morals. TRUST ME I KNOW. I have been in a relationship with a married man for about 6 months. Well I never intended to stay with him and have tried many times to end the relationship. Well anyways he is married to his wife of 10 yrs and we have discussed that he will never leave her. This I know and am ok with. They have a 2 yr old son and she is currently pregnant again. Well recently we found out that I am also expecting. At first he threatened me with suicide and after I lectured him about maturity and responsibility he came the realization that this is OUR problem and not just mine. He jokes about the baby having more of his genes and talks about how he hopes it’s a girl and everything. Well we recently ended out "relationship" sexually a couple weeks ago since he wants to try and be faithful. This I respect, I am not the first girl he cheated with but I can be the last. Well anyways we still talk on the phone and he tries to get sexual on the phone which always ends up in us having a sexual encounter. I need to leave him alone and move on and find a better man. He is 10 yrs my senior and married…I want to not love him anymore but it is hard. I’m having his baby and I don’t know what that is going to do to his life except ruin it. I need to find a way to stop wanting and needing him. WHAT DO I DO?

I was hanging out with a cute single successful guy that was totally into me, but all I was doing was thinking about my baby daddy and wishing he was there. I even paid someone money to take me to the next state to see him for two days! I have gone on two trips with him, one lasting as long as 18 days! I need help! I have to stop my obsession…what do I do??? Go to therapy? Listing all the things about him that are bad doesn’t help…I feel bad because if I feel the way I do about him, I can’t imagine how his wife feels and I don’t want to take him from her. PLEASE HELP WITH ANY POSITIVE ADVICE!!!

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I want a purity ring……?
My mom says that I should just use any ring but I want one that says something like "True Love Waits" I have just read a great book and all of the book all of the girls were christian and wore purity rings and after a little research I realy want one I have already promised to save myself till marriage (i did a long time ago) I am 13 and have no way to get money but REALY REALY want one I want my friends to ask and me to tell them I am saving myself for marriage How can I get the money for it, and I dont just want it to be there I want to have a special time with god read a few passages and pray do you know of anything I could read or anything I want this to be a special thing between me and God

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