Am I the only one who thinks getting back with an ex is a bad idea? I mean if you are not strong enough to get through what ever, than you won’t be strong enough to get through it the next time it comes up.
Archive for October, 2009
My ex told me that he is asking out some girl tomorrow but she is leaving in 2 months. But he still says that I’m really hot…
How do I get him back?
My wife and I have been married for almost 8 yrs and have a beautiful 3yr old little girl who we both love like nothing else. I love my wife immensely I don’t know how I will even manage living without her. She hasn’t actually said she wants a divorce but she says she doesn’t have the same feelings about me as she used to basically she loves me but isn’t in love with me. I just drove over 20 hrs to see her thinking everything was okay after not seeing her for 3 mos because she is in the military and I tried to become intimate with her and she was unresponsive and started crying and told me she didn’t want to be "with" me. She does want to try and work things out and save the marriage but things are difficult since she is stationed far away and counseling would be almost impossible. I want her to be happy but I don’t want to lose her. It wouldn’t be so bad if we didn’t have our daughter to worry about. I could at least deal with it a little better. I dunno let me know what you all think. We are going to spend this weekend trying to work it out but I would like some help. Thanks and please no stupid vindictive answers like take her for all she’s got because that’s not my style. I love her.
I was in a very abusive relationship. It has Been a few years now and I can’t seem to have feelings for anyone. Is it because I haven’t met the right person or am i just incapable after what has happened?
so my girlfriend broke up with me over a month ago. she never told me all the reasons, but she did tell me that she felt like i wasn’t there for her when her mom was going through a divorce and stuff. and i heard from other people that she didn’ t like all the girls always hanging around me (which i cannot help, it’s not like i was flirting), and she told one of my friends that she felt like i didn’t like her anymore. i really do love her, and i want to know how i can fix things and make them better? there’s also this girl in school who i kind of like, and she might like me but she’s talking to a guy who she says she doesn’t like. idk if i should date her or try to get back with my ex, because i miss her so much. any ideas on what to do or how to get my ex back?? thank you!!!
ok well me and my boyfriend recently broke up. we still talk to each other but not as much.all of his friends and my friends say that they have ask Tyler if he still likes me and he has said yes. i don’t know if i should believe them but i still like him and i want him back but i have ask him if he will go out with me and he said no but then he said that he likes me. i don’t get it. help!!!
It was a really bad smell. It smelled like a dead animal. I stuck my finger in her vaj, then I took a whiff with my finger. It smelled so horrible. It was so bad; I changed my sheets before going to bed.
I was all revved up to giver her oral but after I smelled that I could not go through with it.
Is there like something she can do to get rid of the smell for next time. She said she showered before she came over to my house. Is there some method that she can do to clean it down there. Her actual juices smell like that too. She’s a virgin (saving for marriage) so I actually doubt that she has an STD.
I would really like help from the women on this one.
Why do people assume this is my real yahoo account? Am I the only one with a fake Yahoo!
She fucking hates me now and she won’t talk to me at all. I mentally lost it for a while. We are both going to college about 2500 miles away, and i’m training to become a Marine. She has blocked me on skype, facebook, and all forms of communication. I love this girl and i’ll do absolutely anything to get her back. What should i do?
So I have come to a point where I just don’t know what else to do. I really want my marriage to work, but I think that my wife has finally given up. I know that I can’t change her, but I don’t want to just sit here and wait for the inevitable. So a little history.
I was in the military and just reenlisted when I met my wife. My wife was a virgin when we got married, I was not. My wife says that she thinks about all of the other women that I was with before her and I really am ashamed of the things that I did before I met her. It doesn’t matter how much I tell her that I love her, how beautiful she is, she still just thinks of these other women. Her parents are still married, my parents are divorced. We are not in debt and we have money in savings. I am not working and neither is she, but she just finished school and with the economy it has been hard for her to find a job, especially in her field. I am going to school right now using the GI bill and it is our only source of income. She just went on a 3 week trip because she said she felt trapped. I didn’t fight her going on the trip because I am tired of fighting with her. She just came back and things were ok for a couple of days and then they just went down hill again. She still says she loves me, but when I questioned her more she said she doesn’t love me like I am her husband, but a family member. This is why I don’t know what to do. I am not abusive, I do get angry quick but it is because I am tired of hearing the same thing come out of her mouth. She used to have so much hope and life, but she doesn’t anymore. We have lived near her family for about 4 years. I recently asked her to give our marriage one more chance and move with me near my family. Our families live in two different states.
It seems like when we get together all we talk about is divorce. I am so tired of talking about it, but it seems like that is all she wants to talk about. She has told me before that she wants to work things out, but lately it seems like she has given up all hope. I know that she is depressed I know that we should get some counseling, but she doesn’t want to do anything. I don’t know what to do. We are both Christians, and we understand that what is going on is not right, that we should be depending on Christ. We need help.
After a year of seperation and my husband swearing he is a better man and knows he took us for granted. Can I fall in love with him again after being apart this long and seeing other people. Our divorce should have been final months ago but seems like it for some reason kept being pushed back not by us but by stupid silly reasons from the courts mishaps or perhaps it wasn’t really meant to be. I feel like if he has changed I should give him another chance not only because of him but our children. Can someone shed any light to this or maybe have they had this happen to them?
Ex-grilfriend and I have been together for 4 yrs. Weve been through alot but always managed to maintain our relationship. The first 2 yrs. I had the upperhand broke her heart a couple times but came back to what was important to me. Aug. 06, she changed, was bored, unhappy and unaffectionate, not always but sometimes. We broke up in Feb. 07 but maintained friends, it was rough and filled w/ jealousy, she stayed alone, I messed w/ 2 girls, I told her she forgave me. In June we got back together a she was just like the old her for 2 wks. then she became cold. 2 wks. ago she told me she didnt see our relationship going anywhere so we had to end it. 3 days ago she went out on a date w/ a guy she was introduced to 2 mos. ago but was not interested in. So for the past 3 days she has been talking to him and seeing him constantly, she still me daily and says she cant take me just falling out of her life but she is unwilling to stop talking to him because they are "romantic friends" who are
are neither interested in arelationship. She hasnt seen anyone but me for 4 yrs. but still I was insecure and jealous, Im willing to give that up but I cry to her and she still wont take me back, She claims she will come see me tommorow, and make love to me one more time, she wants to be friends but I want to be back how we were can I do something to make her come back or is it too early to even be grieving like this?
When we see each other its usually fun and cuddly and sweet like yeasterday and we never get into arguments that arent fixed two hours later, but shes having so much fun with this guy and shes never had anyone there but me, does she deserve this free time and me waiting or do i deserve this grief?
I was dating my ex girlfriend for over 3 years. She recently broke up with me and is now with someone else. I love her so much and want to know how I can get her back. She says she wants to be friends with me still but its hard to see that happening with her. I’ve tried to fight not contacting her but its really hard to do.
I don’t know why she decided to break up with me. It really confuses me pretty bad. I don’t believe I did anything to cause her to break up with me. Although maybe I was a little needy of her. But I was.
He wanted me to stop using credit cards and start paying them off. I stopped using them and have paid off some of them already. He wanted me to get my caps replaced and we agreed that I could save the money since I didn’t have dental insurance and didn’t want another monthly bill. I have saved money and am almost there. I have a 21 year old bipolar son. He has never gotten along with him and they have gotten into fights. He wanted me to get him on his feet. I told him that I would need time to do this because I would have to get my finances in control to be able to help my son out. The counselor told him that with the way my son is he would need financial help from me. My husband agreed. The counselor asked him how long I could have and he said 1 year. The counselor asked him what if it takes 2 years and he said that is okay I love her that much. The counselor said what if it never happens and he said that is okay I love her that much. He wants my son to get a drivers license. I have started letting him drive my car and will be getting him driving lessons. I wanted him to express his feelings to me more often. He is the kind of man that is always there for everyone else but he shuts me out. He came to me a month ago and said that he can’t live with my son and it was either him or my son. (We have 2 small children together.) I got rattled and thought here we go again he is going to leave. So I filed for a divorce to start financial protection for myself and our children. He changed his tune and I haven’t gone ahead with the divorce. Last night he comes to me and says that we are not compatible, we don’t have a marriage, we don’t know how to communicate to each other and nothing has changed. I’ve worked on everything that he wanted done and I still come last to him. I’m so lost. It sounds like he is asking for a divorce but when I come straight out and ask him he says how can I just walk away? Any insight?
I should add that my son does pay rent, has a job, buys his own medicine, pays for his nurses and doctors appointments. And he has psychofrenia affective disorder but I didn’t know how to spell it so I just put bipolar.
I have this ex gf, she dumped me 3 months ago after 2 yrs. i have been dating others but cant get her outta my mind and dont want to. we still text but im not sure why she still texts. would it be better to ask her to hangout or to wait until i run in to her somewhere? i have yet to see her since…. advice pls… no move ons
my exboyfriend and I broke up two months ago, and havent really talked since. (i texted him twice since, but it wasnt anything too much).. we both dont have things with anyone.
10 points to best answer!!!!!!!!!!
Ok so I kind of have questions, or rather challenges to arguments against gay rights and using the bible as evidence.
1). Often times people say that they just want to keep the definition of marriage the same. But historically we have changed it quite frequently. I mean, before you parents got to choose who you could marry and they also had polygamy. To get to the point where marriage is now, we had to change it. (OK so this is the question) What would be the harm of changing the definition of marriage just one more time to make it more equal?
2). OK so a lot of people are against gay marriages because they say its against the Bible. Firstly, in the new testament, Jesus never says anything condeming gay marriage, but rather just says that he wants you to marry and have kids and all that. That is no real condemtion of gay marriage. Also, the whole concept of Christianity is that man is flawed, and we can be saved through Jesus. Now, if man is flawed, and God is all that is perfect, wouldn’t that mean that our clumsy human hands that wrote the Bible make an imperfect documentation of the word of God?
3). The Bible has polygamy, so why should we trust this book with the teachings of a God that enables this immorality? I know, everyone says you can’t compare marriage customs back then, but the thing is GOD DID NOT STOP THIS in the Bible. Since he didn’t, that either means he feels it is OK or he is an enabler, thus making him imperfect.
Mike, I do not believe you answered any of my questions.
For all you guys calling homosexuality abnormal, I hope none of you are religious, which is a far worse mental state. Or is ignorance the norm?
Yes i did see Chuck and Larry, that was so awesome. I felt sorry for that guy because people thought he was the cathcher : D
my husband and I are divorcing and I am moving out Wed, my son (17 wants to stay in the house with my husband to finish school )just told me he is very disappointed in me for leaving and he does not seem sad, he sad he has prepared himself for this moment since he knew it has been coming for some time now, but he is disappointed in me. He says he loves me and always will but that he is upset with me and angry as well (he is 17 years of age) but one of us had to move out. OMG I FEEL LIKE I AM LOSING MY LIFE…… will he always hate me now, any help? what can I do to make him love me again. He says he did not understand why I am crying or upset about leaving…..please help me understand what he is saying to me. Will he stop loving me now. This i cannot deal with, please any parents that have gone thru this please please help
I was the one that asked for the divorce since my husband and I tried it all but nothing worked we have been married for 18 years now, i have never cheated but my son seems to think there is another man that I am leaving for ……..
why we are divorcing is a sep issue and trust me it is not for lack of trying or wanting to be in love…..
his dad does not talk bad about me and tells him i love him very much and have been a great mom
We haven’t spoken in 4 years but i still miss her so much, she’s engaged with someone and is expecting a baby but i don’t care about that i just want her back…so you think i still have a chance of getting her back?
We’ve been going out for a while and I feel that we’ve grown distant in our relationship.
hi my ex g/f of 4 years wants 2 meet up again (we meet 1 week after)after 3 weeks of breaking up with me she seams to be intrested but how can i tell with out asking her she said she wants to take things slow so i don’t want to pressure her yet any good hints or advice would be helpfull i’m not good at telling because i still love her so much and just want her to say she wants me back but i no thats to much to ask for help!!!!!!! please only good answers thanks
one day my girlfriend told me she dont love me any more coz we fight some times and i make hr cry.she is tierd of that.she told me one day she cryd too much and she felt hr heart is empty of love.b4 she was SO IN LOVE WITH ME and me 2.but now she’s saying i dont know whats hapning to me.she want to wake up hr heart and hr love 2 me again but that is hr nuture she said..what can i do to save my relationship?i stil need hr and i cant live w/out hr.
How Can I Get My Husband To Come Back To Me
Have been with my husband for 8 years all together, almost 2 of which we have been married.
It started with an older woman from his work. He is 27 years old and she is 39 years old. She is notorious for breaking up marriages and has done this to 2 other people at his work that I know of.
She told him at work that one night she tried to kill herself. So he being the nice man that he is said that if she ever felt that way, to call him and he would talk to her.
So a week later she calls and is upset, so he speaks to her on the phone. She then starts calling and texting him repeatedly each day.
I discussed this with him at the time and said that it was getting a little excessive and that I wasn’t comfortable with what she was doing (given I know her track record at his work). I said that her messages were starting to get inappropriate and they weren’t what a “friend” would write to someone.
This went on for a few months and we repeatedly had arguments over it, because I wasn’t feeling comfortable with what she was writing.
I explained that the texts she was writing, coming from a girls perspective are showing that she has feelings for him. He said I was being silly and not to worry about it. Then one night she confesses to having feelings for him and I told him if that was the case, then it is not fair on me that he keep in contact with her like this anymore.
He ended it for a little while, but it wasn’t long till she had hounded him back…
Then I found out that he took her to the movies behind my back. I then found out that he also bought her jewellery and that he had been out to dinner with her and also had dinner at her house on numerous occasions.
From there it has stemmed into some sort of weird relationship between the two of them. He has been staying at her house some night and I know he has kissed her a number of times.
He swears to me that they have never slept together and I for some reason, do believe him. She has some sort of emotional power over him now. He is finding it hard to cut ties with her, but has told me he wants to separate. I don’t want this at all…
Everything that I have listed above he has done behind my back and the only reason I know of them is that I have become quite the detective. His phone bill has her number plastered everywhere and he hides his phone from me now so that I cannot read the messages in there.
A marriage is not meant to be like this and I would never do this to him. He could go right through my phone and not find one thing in there that he didn’t know already.
A marriage is not hiding things from each other or lying.
Obviously I am devastated and cannot believe that this has happened to me. I cannot even begin to understand how he could do this to me, when he claims that he never intended on hurting me and that he does care for me and love me.
He keeps telling me that he is going to stop seeing her and he does, for a little bit. But, then goes running back to her when she arks up and tells him that she misses him. He doesn’t know if he wants to stay with me, or be with her. He keeps saying whatever decision he makes either me or her are going to get hurt and he doesn’t like that. Our families are devastated by his behaviour and cannot comprehend his actions at all.
How can I make him see that there is no future with her? She is 39 years old and she lives at home with her mother. My husband and I are both 27 years of age and have our whole lives ahead of us. We have a house and a life that we have built together. We have the whole future ahead of us.
He thinks now that if he does come back to me, that he may do this again in future and this is why he isn’t coming back right now. He wants to see a counsellor and find out why he is doing this to me. I explained that if we see a counsellor they would be able to help us find ways to prevent this from happening in the future obviously there are no guarantees, that he won’t do this again, there are no guarantees that this wouldn’t happen in any relationship. But there is definitely ways in which we can prevent this from possibly occuring again. Right??
I cannot keep living like this, its not fair and I know I deserve better. But I love this man and I vowed to be with him forever and I still want to be his wife. I want nothing more then this lady to just get out of his life and for him to come back to me and be committed and move on from this.
How can I get him to realise what he is doing is so wrong and a life with me will be so good??
*** I am scared that if I let go then he will completely let go too and that is NOT what I want.
I have made a tentative appointment for us to see a counsellor, but am not sure how to ask him to come with me?
Before we were married. Love from the start.
I could not believe some day we’d part.
The day of our wedding. Now only a dream.
Tears fell when is saw you. In that dress of cream.
You knew I loved you. You had to know.
Your note on your mirror. It said I loved you so.
That day we ended. When our marriage went dead.
Was the day that you asked a stranger to bed.
He didn’t protect you. You’re not on the pill.
Aids you could have. Yet I loved you still
You have my love. You never lied.
While he was on top. You said you cried.
The vision I have of him on top.
The sight of you crying. Him refusing to stop.
I promised to protect you. It’s myself I can’t save.
The thoughts of you crying. I will take to my grave.
I will love you forever. For you were my bride.
There will be no other. The pain I can’t hide.
I hope satan takes him and in horrible pain.
I would do it myself. But who was?
"The Man With No Name"
Our promise to God the day we wed.
Forsaking all others. are the words we said.
I gave my love my heart my soul
I gave them to you in your heart to hold.
I wish I had known when we promised that day.
That it would be you who would choose to stray.
We were a family. You took it away.
I gave you a daighter. Yet refused to stay.
You don’t have a clue of the love you lost.
My love lives forever, It don’y care the cost.
A hopeless tomatic. A life of shame.
My prayer forever. was to share my name.
