I’m 18 years old.
I really like my girlfriend, we have been together now for over three weeks. I asked her to be my girlfriend on our first date, which was on valentine’s day. Every day that goes by I keep wondering when the next time I’m going to be hanging out with her is exactly. I get excited whenever I’m going to be seeing her again. She loves picking on me and telling me that I fail haha. Me and her talk a lot and we like to take turns asking each other questions like when we talk online, as a sortof way to get to know each other more and more and because it’s fun and we use it to flirt sometimes. One question she asked me was if I was in love with her, I told her that I wasn’t there yet but I felt like I was falling for her at a steady pace. She said okay and I asked her how she felt about me, and she said that she doesn’t know if she’s falling for me, but she likes me and she likes kissing me. I told her that it might seem bad since I’d be a step ahead of her if I’m falling for her and she isn’t falling for me, and she said "or we can be at the same level =)", reminding me that she said that she doesn’t know if she’s falling for me yet but could be blindly.

How will I be able to tell if she’s falling in love with me? And how do I know for sure that I am?

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I broke up with him around this time last year. We had been going out for 2 in a half years and I spontaneously decided to end it all because at that point in my life I didn’t want to be attached. I was 18 years old and starting college, a new job, and viewed my ex as un ambitious. All he would ever do is want to stay home and be with me, never really going out to hang with friends, and feeling down on himself for having the job he had. He was a wonderful artist and I tried to be a supportive and encouraging girlfriend by telling him to pursue a career in the field. Yet lack of funds was the reason he said he couldn’t live out his dream. I tried accepting this but found that I might be growing out of him. I also wanted to experience other relationships since he had been my first, and though I loved him I found myself growing more detached. Spending less and less time with him even though he kept reaching out. I broke his heart and he eventually gave me back everything that was ours to cope with the break up, cutting me out completely. At that time this didn’t faze me. He came to my door step with the box and I could care less. I felt relieved, or so I thought. We didn’t talk much for 8 months, maybe passing one another since my little brother and he were such great pals and didn’t let our break up end their friendship. Eventually after working and going to school nonstop, boys being the last thing on my mind the summer hits. I find myself infatuated like I once was with my ex on a new guy. He’s a graphic designer and aspiring filmmaker, extremely driven and confident. All I can do is think about him. He seems to me to be the next best thing. Eventually we hang out (not an official date I had no idea what his intentions were, he was very hard to read) with a few of his friends and I find him to be the most obnoxious individual. He practically ignored me the whole time while being an entertainer to his audience; he thrived off of the attention I could tell. One of two questions I can remember being:

"What do you want to do with your life?"

This was such a turn off; a mutual feeling I later find out. He thought I was too quiet and smelled of tuna! I hate tuna. We go on to not talk for two months, and yet even then I didn’t think of my ex. Eventually The new guy starts to talk to me again and even though I was so disgusted by his previous behavior I still find myself immensely sexually attracted to him. That’s all I wanted from him. Funny thing is he was looking for a girlfriend and found a way of convincing me to be with him otherwise. I figured ok I like this guy why not give it a shot? From then on it has been a rollercoaster. Nothing like when I was with my ex. One day this blokes happy with me the next he’s unsure about our relationship. So eventually I end up feeling lonely within my own relationship because I don’t feel good about it. Where did all my confidence go? Sure I may have felt inhibited because he’d ask me "why are you so shy?" "I wish you’d contribute more to the conversation." I have never felt so much pressure in a relationship. Like if I don’t please, I can be dropped at any given time. So for the time being I had been unhappy, yet the messing around was great. What a trade off, not worth it at all when I look at it, but within the moment it’s a whole other game. All I could think about was how to sort the issues in my head over this relationship in a mature manner. Work out all the small things and focused on what we have that’s great. All I could think of was our similar tastes in music, movies, and fooling around. Sure we had conversations but for the most part they were short and the fooling around was to the point not long after. Than he’d tell me I got to get back to story boarding birdbrain. I’d be there reading a book instead of getting to know anything about him. My excuse was that he’s really trying to get this short film done before Sundance, don’t worry about it. And eventually things did turn around with a few hiccups, but on a trip back from Ohio I found out that my ex was going out with a new girl and the last thing that has been on my mind for the past month isn’t my new boyfriend. My brother disclosed to me some information that my ex was going out with a girl that we formerly couldn’t stand. When we were together we would actually make fun of her amongst ourselves. She was just such a typical high school girl. Going out to parties all the time, drinking, taking in controlled substances, bisexual one minute, straight the next. She was a total nut. Now he is with her. I really needed someone to talk too when hearing all this. So I wrote an email to a mutual friend of ours who still hung out with him. And I explained everything to her. It than finally hit me that he had moved on. Though I was in my own relationship (not much of one actually) I still had this terrible pain in my stomach thinking that he’s with her of all people. I didn’t care if she told anybody (we we

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My husband and I have been married for 18 years and just recently I felt a distance and I confronted him about it, come to find out he says he loves me doesn’t want anything to happen to me kind of love wants to still be in the same house for the kids sake tells me he has felt this way for probably 3 years now but is tired of lying to himself and to me he cries says he doesn’t want to hurt me and that he doesn’t want to feel this way but he don’t know how to get it back he says he crings when I touch him and that the only time he feels close to me is when he is horney and we make love but once were through its back to disgust I have noticed that the nights we make love he wakes me up in the middle of night talking to me being intimate telling me he wants and needs me but then when I talk to him about what he did he doesn’t remember it and were back to the distance again he tells me I need to make him fall in love with me all over again. Can anyone help? Its killing me
everyone has to know the reason I say 3 years it was about that time that I cheated on him which I horribly terribly regret because it was a huge mistake he told me he thinks that that is what this is steming from feeling he was 2nd best he took me back and we went on with our lifes he really is sincere in his words when he tells me he doesn’t want to feel this way he wants to love me he wants to be loved he just don’t know how to get back and he don’t know if it will ever come back he wants me to find myself, be happy, don’t push and maybe it will bring the feeling back
and what I don’t understand is the middle of the night intimacy thing, where is that coming from I mean I swear he truly talks to me likes he is awake. Example: This happened last night he told me how badly he wanted me and needed me and that he didn’t want anyone else to ever feel this. I truly believe there is no one else because it seems this is tearing him apart as well and no he doesn’t want to go to counseling he said how is talking to someone going to make him love me again
and just so everyone knows he says its definately not me as far as the way I look actually I have lost so much weight because of this he tells me he can tell me he loves me act like nothing has happened but he says I’m beautiful but he doesn’t want to get me false hope

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I love my friend she is the most amazing girl ever. She knows I like her A LOT. We were supposed to hang out yesterday but she never called me back:(, I don’t know why, she asked me to see if I wanted to hang out. This isn’t the first time she backed out at the last minute on our plans. We have been friends for 2 years and we have hung out A LOT before she got in trouble recently. Her parents are kind of strict which might be the reason why she couldn’t call me yesterday but do you think she will call me again? I don’t talk to her or see her that much anymore because she got in trouble:( this is such a Bummer! because I miss her a lot and I can’t stop thinking about her! What should I do? I want to move on and not think about her as much but it seems like wherever I go something reminds me of her!

thanks

BTW I’m 19 years old and she is soon to be 18 years old and she wants to move out ASAP when she turns 18.

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I am 18 years old and I have been with this girl for 4 years. We did everything together during highschool. We told eachother that we love eachother after 3 months and have been ever since. But something happend. I lied to her about me trying pot and i have been truthful ever since and i have never cheated on her or anything. We had planned on moving together in an apartment together while going to college, which were doing right now. 1 week after we moved in she said that she wants to leave cuz i got mad at her for telling her mom that i broke her computer and i was only mad cuz i was like is it really necessary to tell your mom everything? Then we decided that we arent right for eachother. Basically what happend was that i changed into someone that i am not and she fell out of love with the new changed me.I am trying to show her that the person she fell out of love with wasnt the real me.I think she has a friend that is coaxing her to forget me and move on. that friend doesnt know me

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http://www.wral.com/news/local/story/1961294/

Raleigh — A man who was pardoned after spending 18 years behind bars for a rape he didn’t commit has been sued for child support for the years he was in prison.

Should he be responsible for child support he could have been paying while he was in prison, even though he was wrongfully convicted?

If not who should pay it? Should any back child support be paid?

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While posting on an "adult" message board for erotic film enthusiasts I brought up how turned on I used to be as a kid about the prospect of seeing naked women in playboys and films like Porky’s and how watching porn today can be a joyless almost numbing experience.

We all agreed that the most fun we ever had watching porn was during sleepovers at friends, one of our friends would bring out the tape and we’d see the hot chick on the box cover covering herself with a pillow and I’d have to stamp my feet as fast as I could on the carpet and chew on my t-shirt to keep from screaming for joy. The first time the woman would get naked we all couldnt believe it and we’d pause the movie and we’d have to cover our boners with our pillows and then go use the bathroom so we could jerk off.

Looking back on those sleepovers I don’t think I’ve ever been happier in my entire life, and it has been impossible to recapture that sense of naive joy and erotic wonder, even my first time having sex with a woman was a letdown by comparison.

We all agreed this was true and I came up with the idea of holding "sleepovers" and pretending we’re 11 years old again, and several posters who lived in my area agreed this was a great idea.

A few dozen posts later we were able to work out some ground rules. One big rule is that we all had to be at least 18 years old (most of us are 35 and older). Each member has to try to hold at least one gathering every 3 months (there are 12 of us) and we have to stay in character at ALL times so as to not break the spell. (kind of like live action role playing)

The host of the party has to provide the material, usually old playboy tapes, Penthouse Magazines, and hardcore porn (must be from 1992 or before, preferably 80’s "golden age" porn.

We all have to wear pajamas and bring chips and pop. We tend to play old nintendo games for an hour till the hosts "parents" go to bed then the host goes "look what I got guys!" then takes out the porn and we all jump around and high five and then wait with giddy expectation. During the movie we turn to each other and grin and talk about how horny we are and comment on the "action". Like if a women with huge breasts disrobes for a shower we have to pause the movie and go "whoaaaa!" "I’d like to suck on those" "Imagine if you touched her boobs with your penis!" "I heard that girls will put their mouth on your penis and lick it!" etc. There used to be a no masturbation rule but that was quickly nixed, the whole purpose of the gatherings is to feed off each others erotic energy the pent up erotic energy is too much to resist, we tend to all whip down our pajamas at the same time and masturbate , we try to keep a silly naive quality though and jokingly point at each others members and try to shout out different things when we *** "That sure beats Super Mario Bros.!" is my ejaculation catchphrase.

Since starting these gatherings I have never felt more alive and my sex life with my wife couldn’t be better, that is until one gathering where she caught an early flight home for the purpose of "surprising" me and ended up walking in on a dozen men masturbating in her living room. I will never forget the shocked look on her face and she immediately left and stayed at her sisters house.

I managed to talk to her and explain what she witnessed but she isn’t really buying my story, she keeps going on about how I am having "gay sex orgies" behind her back (we never touch each other!!!) and that I am living a lie. She has even started to indicate that she wants a divorce!

Is there any way I can get her to understand what I have been doing? I love my wife and ironically have never been more attracted to her than I am now, I realize I had been somewhat childish and now realize that I have a gorgeous voluptuous woman that my 11 year old self would have sold his Super Nintendo and Bike just to be able to touch her naked breasts and I could lose her. Please help me get her back!

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here’s the story:

i keep recieving phone calls from my ex-boyfriends best friend. i get about 5 calls a day. the same thing is happening to my friend(we’re both 15). we have had other guys threaten him, we told him to stop, and we’ve even told him we had kids(whatever we can to make him leave us alone). but he still calls us constantly.
we dont want to be super mean but we do want revenge. not really revenge just a childish prank i guess. any ideas are helpful.
by the way.. the caller is about 18 years old.

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I like my ex how can i get her back?
ok me and my ex girlfriend were going out since february the 17th of this year. i ended it octobor of this year. i love this girl with all my heart. and no matter what girl im with it just seems like i want to be back with her. shes 18 years old she just turned 18 december the 9th. she loved me alot, and her parents know that, we spent every holiday together, we had alot of family gatherings with her family, we went to alot of church functions together, she was like my other half, i never had feelings this deep for a girl before. how can i win her heart back. im a gentlemen, and i love my ex alot, we had our ups and downs, and went through many trials and tribulations throughout our relationship. but now i can be with her again, because even if her parents dont want me to, its not up to them its up to her. shes grown now, and she can do whatever she wants to do. how can i win her heart back. i feel really stupid for breaking up with her, she could of been the girl of my dreams. now it hurts me everyday knowing i might not ever get to see her, or be friends with her again. my grandma didnt like her, and wanted us to break up and shes happy im not with her, but my heart is telling me to go for her . but my mind is saying no. i dont know what to do, im so confused. her parents loved me alot they even called me son and law, her sisters liked me, her family liked me. i love this girl and she still in my heart. i break up with her because she started being controlling i was stupid and immature for that. when i break up with her she was crying for weeks after. how can i go about getting her back. this is what my heart really wants.

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my husband and I are divorcing and I am moving out Wed, my son (17 wants to stay in the house with my husband to finish school )just told me he is very disappointed in me for leaving and he does not seem sad, he sad he has prepared himself for this moment since he knew it has been coming for some time now, but he is disappointed in me. He says he loves me and always will but that he is upset with me and angry as well (he is 17 years of age) but one of us had to move out. OMG I FEEL LIKE I AM LOSING MY LIFE…… will he always hate me now, any help? what can I do to make him love me again. He says he did not understand why I am crying or upset about leaving…..please help me understand what he is saying to me. Will he stop loving me now. This i cannot deal with, please any parents that have gone thru this please please help

I was the one that asked for the divorce since my husband and I tried it all but nothing worked we have been married for 18 years now, i have never cheated but my son seems to think there is another man that I am leaving for ……..

why we are divorcing is a sep issue and trust me it is not for lack of trying or wanting to be in love…..

his dad does not talk bad about me and tells him i love him very much and have been a great mom

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I just learned that my boyfriend (now my ex) had cheated on me while we were dating, and also got a new girlfriend 3 hours after he dumped me. I want to pull some mean pranks on him as revenge. Does anyone have any ideas?

BTW, don’t tell me this is childish and immature. Please just respond with good ideas. Also, nothing illegal or too cruel.
Lol, i’m 18 years old.

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Long story short (well, kind of); I lived at home until I was 23 so my mom and I had more time than most to bond. We are really close and we consider each other our best friend. I moved in with my b/f just 10 miles away in the next town over and was always there to talk to her or visit frequently. My b/f was an immigrant and there was a problem with his visa and he got sent back to his home country just before we were about to get married. I love him with all my heart so I moved to his country to be with him and I couldn’t imagine it any other way because I love him with all of my heart. We got married in his country and I am now living there. This was all early last year. I stayed about 6 months and needed to come back to the U.S. for personal reason and I have been here almost 5 1/2 months but I am leaving in a few weeks to permanently be with him.

The thing is, my mother has been with the same man for 18 years and he treats her horribly. Right after I came back we found out he was seeing another lady and he ended up moving in with her. He’s coming back and forth between the two now playing games with both of them. We live in a very small town and my mother doesn’t have many friends or any hope of finding someone else and truth be told I think she still wants him to come back. One reason is that she can’t financially support herself and my teenage brother that lives with her. She really has no one and I see her devestated that I am leaving although she understands that I have to in order to save my marriage. The man she is seeing (back and forth) is a horrible person and she’s constantly depressed because of his actions and my brother adds to that. He is disrespectful and out of control. He cusses her, calls her names, and really treats her like a piece of crap. I feel so bad leaving here there all alone but I realize I am an adult now and I have to get on with my life.

She’s on disability and has no job to occupy her time. She sits around everyday doing basically nothing and has started to drink more and more.

I don’t know what to do. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks for reading such a long question!

I wish my mother would come with me. She’s not as open minded as I am about moving to a different country and she’s dead set on having my brother finish school where he is and not having to sell her house, etc.

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my hubby of 18 years has been having an affair with another man, I found out about it and he says it’s over now but he says he does nto love me anymore and does not know if he wants to stay with me. He won’t go for help or will talk to me about it but is talking to a pal who has just split from her partner of 4 years. I can forgive him and still love him but how can I work this through without smothering him? I think he is suffering from depression and he tried to commit suicide last week although I think this was a cry for help but he won’t let me help him and won’t talk about it, how can I save our marriage and our love if he keeps pushing me away? He says he’s felt empty and dead inside for a long time now but never told me, would he have told me if I hadn’t found out? Should I have stayed quiet to see if it died out on its own? I’m heart-broken and feeling sick to the pit of my stomach with worry, can’t talk to anyone else as it would hurt them to see this pain we’re going throug

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I have been married for 18 years and now my wife want`s to move on with her life without me.she told me she didn`t want to be with me anymore because i was smothering her too much,i was too controling and asking too many questions about her wereabout.
she has been cot lying before.
SO what do you think i should do,i love her so much.

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I’m 18 years old and 6 weeks pregnant with my 2nd child by my ex boyfriend.We already have a 1 year old son.My ex boyfriend and I ended up having sex when my current boyfriend and I were on break and I’m pregnant.I’m having doubts about staying with my current boyfriend because he is too controlling.I haven’t told the boyfriend I’m with now about the baby yet.I was thinking about getting back together with my ex boyfriend.My ex boyfriend wants to make it work for our unborn child.Is it wrong to get back together with him just because we’re expecting a child?

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