I am 23 years old, and brought up in a joint family in Kolkata. Radhika is my father’s cousin younger sister, who is just 5 years senior to me. Although she is my aunt in relation, our relation is just like friends… she even takes care of me like making tea for both of us and serving me food, and driving me to my college. She gives me pocket money….
She is indeed a very ( in fact the most ) beautiful bengali woman….and very modern too. She dresses up in sleeveless T-shirts and jeans most of the time,whether she is out or in the house.She dresses in these even when she drives me to my college. I discuss all my problems with her and so does she….She has been my best fiend all these years and I have respected her and been very affectionate about her. The problem started 3 months ago when our family went to a trip to Goa. 6 rooms were booked all total,and except she no other woman was in the trip. Naturally, she decided to take me with her due to shortage of rooms… When we went to bathe in the ocean, I was simply shocked to see her in a bikini for the first time…she was simply awesome !!! Her figure, her hips her legs are so perfectly shaped….i didn’t know that i was crossing my lines about thinking about her.But she seemed normal. I touched her elbows and hair, but she didn’t mind.That night , Icouldn’t sleep that night, but kept staring at her lovely sleeping innocent face. I fell in love with her.. Last week we went to Aquatica together (a water sporting club in Kolkata ) and I saw her all wet in her bikinis once again..she doesn’t have that much consciousness that her "little friendly" nephew is a man now. She goes to her office after dropping me to college in her car,but when she is inside my college premises, I become jealous thes edays when any other person looks at her with lustful Eyes…
I have also started masturbating thinking of her. And whenever I get a chance, I smell her
hair, or the smell from her elbow crease… IS THIS LOVE ?
I ALWAYS THINK ABOUT HER AND I LOVE HER GODDAMNED SO MUCH….
SHOULD I PROPOSE TO HER ? I KNOW THIS IS INCEST ,WHICH IS A SIN BUT I AM SO HELPLESS…
PLEASE HELP ME…PLEASE
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We are married for 23 years. She do not respect my parents, friends, guests etc. We both are self employed. Most of our properties are on joint names. I saved this marriage 16 years back as my son was only 2 years that time. She told me to marry somebody else. I do not think 50 is an age to marry again. Please give me some good advice or address of help organisations. Thanks.
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I ask this because it adds on to the misandry that is accepted in today’s society. (An example of that misandry would be this link, although it is used to sell Dodge Rams http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-NpIMOMXAJY . Women may think it’s funny but if it was a man doing this, it would have to be taken off the air. (Guaranteed.)
My mother never did this. She would say good and bad things about my father and even herself but did explain to me why they broke up (which was a "dead-beats" decision done by him.). She didn’t try to turn my mind against my father, who I don’t really have a "relationship" with (by my own choosing for personal reasons) but respect because he is my father.
So let me ask, do you single mothers or remarried mothers make your ex husbands to be total devils and yourselves (even if you were the cause of the break-up) out to be angels or do you share both the good and bad between you both?
Because I wanted to know about mothers. Not about fathers at the moment since I know answers may be different by genders. If you want, you can beat me to making that question. Please stop making "comparative" answers.
unavailable. your father sounds like mine. I’m going to college now and trying to become a criminal lawyer….22, almost 23, years of age, and now he is calling me saying, "You don’t know how to call me?" What happened to the other 20 years of my life, lol…? Couldn’t pick up the phone then? When I graduated high school, he told my mother "You should make him go straight to work." My mother never talked bad about him either because he spoke for himself.
Good point, cope_acetic. It’s just that many single mothers have a lot of influence on their children at younger ages and they don’t know what questions to ask or how to think about the answers. It’s like, for example, if I had a child (Maybe 5 – 12) and I said, "Your mother is a selfish jerk and I’m glad I divorced her before she got a hold of my money.", I’d be pretty sure that my child would automatically take my side of the story without listening to hers.
Maria H, I know someone who has turned against her mother because her mother told her, when she was younger, to never speak to her father because her father would try to make himself look good and herself look bad. When she got older and confronted her father, her father told her the whole story and even admitted up to his cheating habits. She told the class (it was a religious studies class and we were just randomly talking before it started) that they had a tearful reunion and now she despises her mother since her mother said, "I told you not to talk to him."
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We have had some issues in our marriage but nothing that we havent worked out until now. I was probably the biggest idiot by taking it for granted but changes in my life at 42 have brought me to realize that I cant function in life without her. I am lost and broken hearted.
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One day I was telling my husband that I needed him to take more time out with me to help me practice for my driver’s license. Well, he just up and told me that I need to talk to the man that pissed in my momma’s *****. My husband I have been married for seven years now. We have three kids together. We both are 30 years old. I don’t have my driver’s license, and I really want to get it. My mom died when I was 7 years old. She has been dead for 23 years as of now.. Should I leave him for saying something like this to me? This is not the first time that he has said anything bad about my mom to me. One time, he got so mad at me and he told me to die like my momma. My momma died by getting hit by a car. I think someone murdered her. There was never closure to her death. Why does my husband treat me this way? I love him and I take good care of our kids when he is always gone. I have no job, and no money… I have left him about three times since we was married, mostly for Domestic Violence situations. I have taken him back later down the line, believing that he has changed and that he really loves me and the kids.. I hated to see the kids without a father in their lives. But right now, I am hurting.. I want out of this marriage.. But, I have no help. I can’t work because of a Herniated Disc in my back.. I am waitiing on the results of my SSI appeal. I don’t know what decision will be made.. I have no money, no car, no driver’s license.. I don’t even have any money in the bank nor on me.. I am scared… I love him, but right at this time that is not even enough tp save this marriage. I have been unahppy with him for a while now,. I have even told him so, but still he stays with me.. He wants to work out whatever with me.. But, I don’t know if I can put up with his ways anymore..
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