After a painful divorce about 3 years ago, i spent the first 10 months as an emotional mess, and i was not ready to date at the time, nor did i have any ‘game’ or confidence at the time even if i wanted to. Right then i befriended a girl, a very attractive, professional, independant woman. We would go to movies and dinners regularly, just for fun, no romance or anything. Not even ANY innocent flirting ever. At the time i could come off as needy or just very ‘unsmooth’, but even though her friends would tell her unflattering things about me, even things that came across as creepy to them, she stood by me as a friend because she knew i just needed time to get on my feet and over the breakup.

Two years later now….i am totally over the split, i LOVE life, i have gotten myself into top shape, i got my game back, and i never have any problems getting dates or going out or attracting woman, and my confidence is at an alltime high. I’ve been loving the single life the last year and all the freedom and benefits it provides.

But that one friend is the one i have my eye on lately, and she is the only one i can’t seem to get. Perhaps it is because we are friends, and she knew me as the needy emotional mess from way earlier, even though i am a completly different person now. Don’t have a second chance to change a first impression i guess, because it would be totally different if i met her today.

We still go out maybe every couple of weeks or so for sushi or a movie, but last week i gently hinted to her that i think she is very attractive, and now we do little ‘flirty’ things like touch each others hands, or resting my fingers on her knee when we sit at a bar, but it is just innocent and more playful than anything romantic. She once gently removed my hand from her hip at one point, but that didnt spoil the mood or anything, but it did confuse me, because about 10 minutes after she hinted she would love to come on my business trip with me to chicago for fun next week. But i dont think she means for it to be any more than that. i dont want to read anything into it.

How can i gently try to push it just a step further without having it ruin the friendship potentially. She knows that i am popular with women, and have been out on many dates over the last year. Maybe she thinks i am a player, but I would like her to somehow know that she is not like all the others to me. There is a much more genuine connection for me with her, and i would be willing to be much more serious for her.

So how to build a bridge from good friend to girlfriend?

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How Do You Get Your Ex Back?

So my best friend is having some issues and I can’t help… (I have my own ~ LOL)…

Her fiance left her a few months ago… She desparatly wants to get him to come back (why I may never know)… What advice/strategy would you suggest for attempting to accomplish this goal??

He does show “signs” of wanting to come back but I don’t think she really responds right… Maybe appearing somewhat desperate?!?!

I need advice to give her ~ HELP PLEASE!!! =D

That would be great actually… Maybe if she could read something it would help her out… They’ve been together for 3 years and she is just torn apart…

I’m having custody issues with my ex right now and I don’t even know what to do to help her… That’s why I’m here…

She’s my best friend, of course I’m going to do anything I can to help her out!!

We’re mature adults by the way… No need to imply that I am talking about myself here =D

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I was and still am in love with this girl, she is my best friend. I went four straight months thinking of nothing but her, spending all my time with her and dedicating my whole life to her. She has a boyfriend though of 3 years so i could never make a move. I mean i was IN LOVE! Then over christmas break i hardly talked to her, also her boyfriend was home. But i started talking to this other girl ALL the time, i kinda had feelings for her but not love like my best friend. Well i finally thought that i was over my best friend in the way that it wasnt all i thought about anymore and that i didnt get jelous. But school has started back up i see her everyday and we are about to start spending a lot of time together again because of school activities. I cant fall for her again but i love her so much, What should i do????

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Just started playing the game. Played WoW for 3+ years and just gave it up one day. I figured I’d give this game a try since it’s free. I’ve been looking into the dual class system which is really cool sounding. But most of the sources I’ve seen suggest talking to other players before making a final decision. I was thinking priest/rogue… is that a solid combo? What about warrior/mage? I’d like something that is either heal/support but with at least one class that is easy to level, or dps/support. I also heard battle mage is good, but read that it got nerfed?

Any info or suggestions would be great. Thanks!
Yeah that’s why I didn’t ask for "the best" class. I don’t care what other people play. I’m pro and will be good with any combo
But I would like one of the classes to be easy to solo with, and I would like the combo to compliment a group (not including tank).

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Matt & i were "talking" because me & Brandon had broken up. I decided to go back to Brandon instead of keeping on with Matt, which i found out was a HUGE mistake that i regretted completely. After i realized this i broke up with Brandon. Matt & i had sort of ‘kept in touch’ so we didn’t start hanging out immediately, but we did after a while. We’ve liked each other for about 3 years, & now he acts kind of different since i went back to Brandon. Matt acts rightin person, & we’ve actually established that we still liked each other. he’s 17 & i’m 15. i think he’s just going through the ‘i can get any girl i want when i want’ stage’. but now i think he’s actually talking to another girl. i honestly can almost say i love him. i’ve told my friends that i’d wait forever for him, because thats how much i care about him, but i don’t think he realizes it. how can i tell him without coming off obsessive/clingy or should i just let it go?

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My husband and I have been married for 18 years and just recently I felt a distance and I confronted him about it, come to find out he says he loves me doesn’t want anything to happen to me kind of love wants to still be in the same house for the kids sake tells me he has felt this way for probably 3 years now but is tired of lying to himself and to me he cries says he doesn’t want to hurt me and that he doesn’t want to feel this way but he don’t know how to get it back he says he crings when I touch him and that the only time he feels close to me is when he is horney and we make love but once were through its back to disgust I have noticed that the nights we make love he wakes me up in the middle of night talking to me being intimate telling me he wants and needs me but then when I talk to him about what he did he doesn’t remember it and were back to the distance again he tells me I need to make him fall in love with me all over again. Can anyone help? Its killing me
everyone has to know the reason I say 3 years it was about that time that I cheated on him which I horribly terribly regret because it was a huge mistake he told me he thinks that that is what this is steming from feeling he was 2nd best he took me back and we went on with our lifes he really is sincere in his words when he tells me he doesn’t want to feel this way he wants to love me he wants to be loved he just don’t know how to get back and he don’t know if it will ever come back he wants me to find myself, be happy, don’t push and maybe it will bring the feeling back
and what I don’t understand is the middle of the night intimacy thing, where is that coming from I mean I swear he truly talks to me likes he is awake. Example: This happened last night he told me how badly he wanted me and needed me and that he didn’t want anyone else to ever feel this. I truly believe there is no one else because it seems this is tearing him apart as well and no he doesn’t want to go to counseling he said how is talking to someone going to make him love me again
and just so everyone knows he says its definately not me as far as the way I look actually I have lost so much weight because of this he tells me he can tell me he loves me act like nothing has happened but he says I’m beautiful but he doesn’t want to get me false hope

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My husband takes Ambient (sleeping pill) when he has trouble sleeping. So, last night he falls asleep around 8. I didn’t get to bed in till about 1130 around 2am my husband wants to have sex. The one thing about Ambient the people taking it, do not remember what they say or do. We start having sex and he FALLS asleep. WTF. I wake him up and he tells me be quite im trying to enjoy this. Enjoy What you just fell asleep his reaction is no i didn’t. He starts up again and Falls asleep again.. Finally Im just like get off of me Im going to bed. He then gets into this rant about how I disrespectful towards him. I was like YOU FELL ASLEEP ITS 2AM. I need to go to work in the morning. …Mind you HE IS NOT WORKING THIS WEEK. So, I go to the other bedroom to get some sleep he wakes me up at 530 to tell me that he is pissed at me. I explained to him that it was not fair to me that he woke me up and fell asleep during sex and he tells me he didn’t fall asleep.. I have been sleeping with this man for about 3 years I know when my husband is asleep. Plus this happen the night before we had sex and he didn’t even remember having sex because of this damm Ambient.

So, by the time i get to work I have an email in my email box and a nasty voice mail telling me read the email and how dare i leave the house with out telling him I love him.. WTF.. I haven’t open up the email, because im afraid I’m going to blow up…. What an ass. I have never never denied him sex at 12am-6am in the morning. Im sooooo pisst I cant even type this rant right!

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we were together over 13 years since i was 17. we were married 11 of them. I come from a broken home my mother is married to an alcoholic that was abusive to her. My grandmother took me away from her when i was 10. but every time they would get into it. We would go get her and help her get away from him and then she would go back. This went on even until I was married with my own kids and own problems. Finally when i was 23 she moved in with us and i told her if she went back that I would never help her again because i couldn’t take it anymore. She went back less than 3 months later.
Well my relationship started at a time in my life that i was headed down the wrong path and at 17 i had my heart broken to many times falling for the wrong guys.
then me and my ex started dating and we were in separable. We married just a little over a year dating i got pregnant. Had my first son at 19. My ex always had a temper and would blow up even before we got married. he was really jealous. i couldn’t go do stuff with my friends unless he came.
He didn’t start drinking till after we got married. i was 7 months along.
We lived right down the road from his parents. So i got really close to them. Some verbal abuse and his drinking got worse over time he would push or just threaten me.
Time went on we had another son and it would get so bad that i would l leave and get away even if i had to sleep in my car. i debated on leaving for years. but he has a good paying job and anytime anything would happen i would go buy me something.
It wasn’t always bad we had a lot of good times too. I love him more than anything he was my world. His family was the family i never had.
But when things would happen no one ever knew cause i would pretend we were a perfect family because that’s all i ever wanted. then 3 years ago my dreams came true we found some land built us a new house.
but during the time of building our new house he had started hanging around a guy that is a drug head and theif.
He would lie to me and go pick the guy up without my knowledge and put himself insituations that were he could have been killed.
Of course we would fight and pushing and shoving got worse with the verbal and emotional abuse. I would catch him in lies over and over.
one time went swimming with this guy with my kids after dark in a creek. He would never answer the phone and come to find out he was skinny dipping with 2 girls. But i stuck in there was getting my big new house.
Time we on the lies the fighting the drinking got worse. Finally after not even living in the new house i gave up. I found out he was selling pills and just hanging out with losers that don’t work and were single. i just started to hate him. So 6 more months went by just getting worse. I was going crazy cause I loved him so much and was begging him to change. Pick me or his drug loser friends. So finally Christmas morning in 2007 i refused to go to his family because of the fighting morning. I told his mother that i couldn’t handle the drinking anymore. Two nights later we went out with friends for drinks and met another man.
well now it’s been 1 1/2 later. I’ve divorced him. but i keep going back in forth between my ex husband and ex boyfriend. I love them both in different ways, they have both now physically and mentally abused me. But my ex boyfriend has went to counseling and still talks to a pastor. My ex still drinks as always and even now has started cussing my kids. But I still Love him!!! i wish everything could work but i can’t take the lies and the verbal and physical abuse. i want to go back now! but not even 2 weeks ago he choked me till i almost past out!
he doesn’t spend much time with my kids but he is trying.
My ex boyfriends worships the ground i walk on!! He loves my kids and they love him. What should i do go back to there dad? Get back with my ex boyfriend. Just confused please HELP!!!
Plus all my so called friends love my ex husband since they know as the great couple lol but they go back and tell him what i’m doing. so i have no friends to turn to… thanks

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I was in love with my best friend for almost a year, the only reason i got over her was because she has a boyfriend of 3 years. And i didn’t want to ruin our amazing friendship. We went through alot this past year with me being in love but it worked out for good. I still cant help but realize how PERFECT we are, we are so similar in so many ways and are perfect together. I am so much more compatible with her than her boyfriend which is kinda weird. I am over her but could easily fall in love with her again i just dont let myself… Deep in my mind i think somehow someday we will end up together. Will we ever end up together?

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so D and I went out like forever ago. it didn’t really last long b/c at the time i wasn’t looking for anything serious but he was. we became like best friends after that. we’ve been super close for about 3 years now and he recently broke up whit his GF of 14 months. yeah yeah, sad..
anyways…
that was last Thursday, but they’re both super cool about the whole break up thing and are friends now but i’s weird between me and him because i think i was the cause of the break up because he and I always flirt and stuff and i know his EX hates me.
Monday i hung out with him (umm…and his EX and the EX’s new beau AWKWARD!!). then we were alone and he kissed me. He said that he didn’t what anything because he just got out of a really long relationship and i get that but wednesday we totally hung out along and made out, nothing more and all clothes stayed on, it was nice weird but i felt that…that spark.
I’ve loved this kid for like forever but i could never have him b/c of his Ex but now that i can have him…idk if he wants me. what do i do?? like today i was hanging with him after school and we kiss and stuff like we’re going out and he puts his arm around me and texts me and calls and stuff…but…aggggg help????

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I have been a singal dad for 3 years now and I am all about my kids but its time for daddy to get a little and I am on my own no family will help out and I all ready pay way to much for daycare so all the money I get goes to live and I have no money for dates. I cant wait untill they are old enough to watch them selves i will be in my mid thirtys.

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Okay to make a long story short I broke up with the guy I lost my virginity to at 18 because I was curious bout what dating other guys was like. we had a rocky break up becuz he was deeply in love with me but I flet back then that I never wanted to be with him. So I started dating around then found a man who I thought was perfect. We dated for 3 years he evetually came to abuse me physically, emotionally, and verbally. Everytime I tried to get away it was like I couldn’t. He would plead beg cry everything. I felt so weak. This man was making me love him so deeply but only becuz I was trying to gain his love back in the same manner I gave to him. He would lie, sneak, I even believe he cheated and right when I left him, I found out i was pregnant. He then kept hitting me and I haven’t talked to him for awhile. He has texted and called a few but I want him out my life. Me and my firsy BF are getting real close he respects me and talks to me everyday and he even says he still loves me. I know I’m pregnant by someone else but I just want my ex back so bad. I just saw him and we had a beautiful time together. he kept saying how could a man treat me like this and how he still thinks im beautiful even tho i’m pregnant and he wishes i was pregnant by him. He opened car doors, fixed my plate everything. I feel like crying becuz I made a huge mistake and I want him back but I’m embarrassed to even say anything an I’m scared the guy I’m pregnant by might try to kill me over this. But I’m sick of trying to make him love me.

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How to get ur ex back after you hurt him???

I really hurt my ex badly,,i have left my country and travelled away for studying and i ll be there for 3 years we are both in a very hard time but its my first weeks and i feel so lonely which stresses me out more…

I am the kind of person who doesnt watch my tongue when i am angry but i tried to change for him and im still ready to try,,,it really hurts that he’s away cuz he’s the only one i’ve ever loved that much..i know men always get hurt more when u say something very bad to them even if u r mad and it gets onto their prides,but i really need to know what to do

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I mean the allure of big $/big contract has seriously gotten to this guys head. I remember when he was making a more modest income in Washington he was actually a decent player.

Guarded The British Big Ben into submission in the playoffs and did alright against LBJ23. He was left in charge to guard all 5 positions cause he always had the versatility to do so. He also was smarter on offense he always was an offensive liability, but he knew that in Washington and took smarter more suitable shots.

Here in NY in his reign of terror I think he has let his #20 NY jersey among other things like his 6 million 6 year contract get to his head. In NY he thinks he is a jumpshooter or something, like the pure #20 and he thinks he is a PG or something trying to take the ball up the court.

He seriously needs to know to stick what he is good at and defend, but he doesn’t. He is the biggest offensive liability I have ever seen and Isiah fucked us over cause he still has 3 years left on his contract as NY’s only non soon to be expiring contract. Plus, he makes more $ than Rudy Gay and other quality players.

Why didn’t NY make the right decision that FA year and do what the Wizards did and go after Deshawn Stevenson of the Magic and let Washington keep Jeffries? I mean outside of foolishly calling LBJ23 overrated and awakening the beast w/n he has proved to be a good player.

He actually has an offensive game as he has been a double-digit scorer for quite some time now. Furthermore, he is a 3 point specialist, and is a very good defender. Not a offensive liability for a team that is offensivley built under Mike D’s system. Plus, he would have given the Knicks defense that it misses for worthy 19-20 mpg not like the unworthy 20 Jeffries plays.

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So me and my ex boyfriend have been dating off and on for 3 years. Just this past summer there were a lot of problems, mainly him talking to another girl and lying to me about it. This guy is so confusing and I can’t keep sitting here waiting for him to change. I know I should probably stop talking to him, but recently we were spending time together and it was great. He is truly a sweet and loving guy, but maybe he is taking me for granted because he knows I’ll always be here? I’m not sure what to do. I love this guy so much. Can anyone tell me how to make him come crawling back to me?! I want him to know what it feels like to be in my position. I want him to love me like he used to not too long ago. I’m tired of this pain. Please help!

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My ex fiance and i have been split up 3 months. we only broke up because we were growing apart with me going back to school and him starting a new job. Things kind of became dull and he said he was unhappy. Since the broke up we have talked some but not in the last 2 weeks. I know he is thinking about me because we both have blackberries and on his blackberry messenger since christmas he has been putting up status’ that relate to us. One said "wants to hear her say papi" which is what i called him. another state "can’t stop thinking about you" which he has told me when we have talked that he tries but can’t stop. This morning it said "good morning beautiful how was your night" and last night it said "going out but only having one beer because i don’t want to upset you" because the biggest fights we have had since we broke up was over him drinking alot. Knowing him and us being together for 3 years he’s never been one to post things like that even when we were happy together so anyways his last status last night said "talk to me" i’m 99% sure these post are directed at me but to afraid to say something and look stupid. I do want him back and i’m wondering how i can get him to talk to me first or actually show me if he wants me back because he is the one that left. Thanks
So his status last night said let’s make it official cause I want you girl. I wasn’t sure if that was meant to me or not so I waited until this morning and changed mine to show me. Now he just changed his status to waiting on tonight. Not sure if that’s referencing my statement or not. What do you think and what can I put on mine if it is to let him know I’m interested without going overboard?

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weve been on and off for 3 years for multiple reasons, I really do want him back and dont know what to do i was just wondering if anyone has used any of those books about how to get an ex back, like the one by matt hutson and or the one called magic of making up. Its about male phycology and says they’ll come crawling back to you! please someone help. i dont wana spend 40 dollars on something that sounds too good to be true.
I guess i should mention he is the one who always come back to me anyways and i do believe that we are meant to be together and i dont want to look for anyone else. I know he loves me he said he did and always would i just want to know if these books or whatever actually work.

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After 10 years of being together he started lying, cheating, stealing from me, not bringing money home. He was a substance abuser and at times verbally abusive. We have been apart for 3 years and now I can finally afford to get the divorce…he has "found" God and wants to come back to make things right. He is trying to get on his feet. We have 3 children that need him and really miss him. I know he has a good heart but i am afraid to take that chance. It is extremely financially hard to take care of the kids on my own. He claims that he needs to be with us to live to his potential. I am lonely but I think that he should try to thrive on his own before I even consider taking him back. Is this wrong? right now all he brings to the table is our history (prior to him doing wrong) and that he is the father of my children.

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Now this should sound like a soap opera:
I picked up a telephone call at home and a lady said "did you know that your wife has been cheating on you for years?" She gave me the name + phone of the guy and said the rest is up to you to find out. I was in shock, so I broke the rules of confidentiality at home and installed a Keylogger in our Computer. My wifes mails confirmed that she had an affair that lasted for 2 years (she 36, he 25), but was over for a year or so since she found out that she was just one of several girls he dated.
The funny thing is, she seems to be obsessed with this guy, looking every day at his pictures in hi5, trying to interfere with his love affaires and even buying a book "how to get back with your ex".
Well, I confronted her, told her all I knew and that I had also spoken to the guy and guess what she answered:" Cheating would have been if I had been with both of you at the same time." True, she broke intimacy with me 3 years ago … but I feel very bad now

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Will my, now ex boyfriend come back to me?

Is there such a thing as second chance romance?

My now ex boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years. We broke up, for about six months, about 3 years back, and he hooked up with somebody else and got her pregnant. (the baby is now 2 years old). I truly do not believe that he loves her. He is with her because of his son. Even when he is with her, he is seeing and calling me all of the time still. We are truly, closer than ever.

He is afraid that this girl will take his son away from him, because she is very evil and vengeful, and that, IMO, is why he stays with her. She was a piece of azz that went wrong, when she got pregnant…

Anyhow, do you think he will ever take the risk, and come back to me, even if he has a son with her????

I want a life with him, once and for all and I think he wants the same with me.

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I’ve been through alot with my husband this is the first time i’ve been married.But his exwife likes to control him still like they are married still and we’ve been to court i forgot how many times.We now have a 2 year old together.I really do thank that he still has feelings for her not becuase of the kids but for each other.They got married when they where young and started haveing kid 2 boys. I love the boys with all my heart.But one day i was talking with his youngest and he said that his mother which is my husbands ex-wife.Said that her and her husband of 7 years was going to spilt up.Then after 3 mins told me that his mother never would get back with there daddy which is my husband.When i was telling my husband this he told me that he wouldn’t take her back becuase she’s on drugs and he would make her stop and she wouldn’t stop,and would’nt take are son around her.I told him that it seemed to me he would take her back and he told me i was reading into it to much….What does that mean to you i i’m so confused.And then she called lasnight on his cell but waited untill her husband left for work and the kids where in bed i know it had to do with the kids but she was all talking nice and he didn’t want me to say something to make her mad that’s what he told me.
For the poeple tha judge they really don’t know what i’ve been through at all ok..I’ve put up with his crap for 3 years he has lied and we have a kid together.He has cheated in the past and they do have a history together i can deal with that but that ex wife always tryed to get us split up…

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My fiance’ told me last night that he still misses his ex-wife sometimes. This really hurt me due to how difficult our relationship has been from the start. He has pushed me away and pulled me back so many times I thought I was losing my mind. When we first got together all he could do was talk about how horrible she was to him and how happy he was to be away from her. He would always tell me how much better he felt with me. After almost 3 years he no longer feels anything but guilt and sorrow about leaving his old life. I was with someone before him and had a child with the man but I don’t miss him AT ALL. He said he misses her at times when she takes their daughter on a trip somewhere and he isn’t with them like before. I couldn’t believe it. I don’t think he should miss her at all…yes he should miss the time he spent with his child but that is where it should end. I don’t know what to do. He is so insensitive to my feeling and simply can’t understand why this news would hurt me so deeply. Yes, I understand he has a past. Yes, I understand that it can’t be erased but that doesn’t mean he has to miss his past. This whole situation has made me have second thoughts about even going through with marrying him. The mean side of me wants to leave him and say, “GO back to your ex since you miss her so much.” I realize that’s immature but in a way, that’s what he should do instead of hurting me. Right?

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My wife of three years has yet to get her wedding ring, I wanna put a rock on her finger but I’m poor as f***. Just to let y’all know how poor I am. Ok first off keep in mind that we had to rush into getting married ’cause my wife was a Jehovah’s Witness at the time. Well, I was dead broke so one of the witnesses offered to pay for our marriage license to keep us from living in fornicating sin (we were living together unmarried, wooo big deal right?) . Anyway, it’s been 3 years now I still haven’t got her a ring yet and I’m kinda sad about that ’cause I wanna buy her an iced-out bridal set and I can’t. Well can’t at the moment, but I gotta job now so I’m gonna save up and try to get it for her. I just wish that I could get it for her sooner, ’cause our anniversary’s comin up on Sept 23. Any ideas????
Yeah, I’m familiar with Blood Diamond, I’ve seen it and it’s a very sad story I cried in the middle of the movie and I understand that people over in Affrica are dying over’em. Untill now I didn’t know that people are actually boycotting diamonds for the cause. Ok I’m in, I’ll get a diamond imtated saphire.

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i’ve been in love with since the first day i saw her….we were goin out for three years and has been 3 years already since she moved to a different state here in USA actually her parents took her but am still inlove with her so much….am thinking of moving to the state she is..and restar my life and try to make her fall inlove with me again…Do you think it would work?……i mean she says that theres nothing and wont be nothing anymore…..and i tell her that we never know the future……

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My son started a relationship with a teacher,(not his) in FL. he was a senior in high school,she is 15 yrs. his senior..I reported her to school board. They promised proper actions would taken nothing was done. He is now 25, they are married. She hates his family. We have moved out of Fla. where they still reside.He has nothing to to do with any of his family. They have just had a baby boy.We made 4 trips to Fl to try to resolve this problem in 3 years but they will not even speak to us.I have written many unanswered letters.We were notified of her pregnancy anonymously.We have not be permitted to see our only grandson.We wanted our son to enjoy his youth and have fun his senior yr. I would never have believed he would hurt us this way. We have been very good parents to him. Four yrs ago, we told them we will do anything they want to end this problem.We do not even have their phone no.Our family is wrecked.We offered to pay for his college education in our state as planned before her

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