I have been with my wife for almost 13 years and married for almost 2. I currently found out that she has had an affair for the past 6 months with someone she new from her past. The woman she was having an affair with is not gay, and was married go a man when the affair started. She would not leave her husband for my wife, but expects my wife to leave me for her now that her husband has left. My wife has moved out 3 times in the last 5 months, never staying gone longer than a week and always coming home.
As soon as she leaves she starts to text me and call me and tell me how much she loves me and misses me. I know that she has feelings for this other person, strong feelings. But I am not ready to be without her. I love her so much, and want my marriage to work and last and spend the rest of my life with this woman.
She says she loves me, doesn’t want a divorce, cant let me go, and cant stand to imagine me with someone else. But she does not want to let this other girl go. How do I save my marriage and make her realize that I am the one for her?
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Hi friends watch, we need more than one board, because my life is a balance on uneven ahunque all the time makes me strong and watch everything from "sideways", 1 years ago 1 / 2 my ex partner left me a consequence of its flia or so I gather all the time awful consequence of moments lived, she know her lifetime (he was my neighbor from her 5 year old) now we are young, until we reached the grooms favorite moment of my life left 2 years (if my best friend was my wife) and the third Reliz together a plan to drink a vat being as beautiful in my soul, she dreamed of marriage and become old together, the house I was working it would look .. Finally, after his decision and stupid arguments (the flia me off because she is very fragile) Whatever happens, the blow anemic me to make crazy stuff like "manochantas" they told me that she bewitched, finally .. my life hit me in the face to the floor, try to get ahead but the friends in common (thousands), or talking about me and I killed her, not 5 months and saw that she was away but over time the junction will 8meses talk, cry, told me that I would make it worse, I pull the drug, not helped me, my life, but that leaves minimal talk I get up, I went back to working order. . for two months a friend told me that the cross and found to have a boyfriend .. what a month, to cry, I went back to drugs, leave me until my friends lifted me
(no friends in common who lived similar situations), but I hate I can not have provided the cross, I know, is working is because she told me endonde
, it is not anything more than comments, or birds flia me my account, I forgot the day, another memory, from this forum before and I dream too much with it but that is another issue, she was very cruel to me but was the only person in the world q I said I love you with heart and wept Ahun love … and always remember some of it escapes me when I advise my friends .. but this does not get more .. And I come into your facebook PORQUE SE PORQUE NO SE QUE ME HARE MAL! I see now as I squeeze the chest and the heart thing! cry .. do not know if the still vague .. I was at this time with girls all the time but I see it … if I’m not mad or that but I did not mass, I cry and nobody listens to me .. his indifference is a dagger .. (Delete your CEL, ME removed MSN ETC ETC) I would do the same for me but I swear but I do have it .. inside me .. (pardon me broke): (
Nothing, this coming Saturday for a party and I know she’s pregnant, I killed almost mori me down, I shall not despair, I feel useless stupid to know that one in 4 months which I think leads regarding what she is given I always quito for it, baby I remember everything .. and stupid as weeping.
They told me many things "out of sight I do not think so," she was already past and you do not understand what I think you get wrong, "I’m not on the floor .. .. this is amazing, is not it .. I feel so normal .. it’s normal to drop your arms to my world I was sobered to reconstructed? blind is normal for me this way?
I am 23 years professional
He has 21 years and is used for private advertising
It is little I can say I appreciate HELP .. thanks
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me and my gf lost our virginity to each other. it took 2 years to accomplish that. we broke up 2 months after sex and now 5 months later she has a new bf and having sex with him after a month. this bothers me obviously because A) she was really like modest wen we went out and now shes going so fast B) i dont feel she respected the whole sex thing that much and now i kinda feel bad i lost it to her and C) shes gets a new love before me. now i feel like im in competition or something. i dont understand why shes changed so much and y i perceive her as having so little respect. some advice to soothe my mind plz. thank you
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my ex gf and i broke up in feb, but we still were real good friends and freinds with benefits until the end of june when she got a job. At this job she met someone else and threw me away like i was nothing. I called the no contact on her and four months later she contacted me saying she missed me. the other guy dumped her. I really love her and she really loved me. i told her i cant be friends yet even after 5 months. she kept texting me so we finally got together and we told each other all our feelings and i realized the problems i had in our relationship and i want to fix them. she says she wants to be alone right now but still wants to be friends. In our previous relationship i loved her but i had a lot of problems showing it so she didnt think i cared. Now we have reestablished a freindship but she is sending very mixed signals. I am afraid i may get hurt again but i want to at least try to get her back so i can say i tried. I am not sure if i should talk to her a lot and show her i really do care since that would show her i changed or if i should play hard to get which is how most blogs and forums say to do it but i feel like my situation is different. I dont want to show desperation either. Any suggestions? Her friends and my friends have all been best friends since freshman year of high school and now we are soph in college which makes it so hard because i want to hang out with everyone. We all hang out every weekend together and always have. i couldnt imagine not having them but i feel if my ex doesnt want to get back i cant be around her anymore because i still have so many feelings for her.
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my ex gf and i broke up in feb, but we still were real good friends and freinds with benefits until the end of june when she got a job. At this job she met someone else and threw me away like i was nothing. I called the no contact on her and four months later she contacted me saying she missed me. the other guy dumped her. I really love her and she really loved me. i told her i cant be friends yet even after 5 months. she kept texting me so we finally got together and we told each other all our feelings and i realized the problems i had in our relationship and i want to fix them. she says she wants to be alone right now but still wants to be friends. In our previous relationship i loved her but i had a lot of problems showing it so she didnt think i cared. Now we have reestablished a freindship but she is sending very mixed signals. I am afraid i may get hurt again but i want to at least try to get her back so i can say i tried. I am not sure if i should talk to her a lot and show her i really do care since that would show her i changed or if i should play hard to get which is how most blogs and forums say to do it but i feel like my situation is different. I dont want to show desperation either. Any suggestions? Her friends and my friends have all been best friends since freshman year of high school and now we are soph in college which makes it so hard because i want to hang out with everyone. We all hang out every weekend together and always have. i couldnt imagine not having them but i feel if my ex doesnt want to get back i cant be around her anymore because i still have so many feelings for her.
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