My ex girlfriend is spreading rumors about me and telling people a bunch of crap. now all her friends (that i was once friends with) all hate me and she ever tried to bribe my cousin (who is one of her friends) into hating me! what can i do to get this jerk off my back? should i get revenge? if so, how? what should i do?
and she dumped me after 7 months.
I am in a similar situation as well. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years. He is currently looking to buy a house that he has asked me to move into, but to be honest I am really not ready. When we started dating his ex was 7 months pregnant I think. In the beginning things were very ugly but I stuck it through. I never really felt like I was appreciated for that, Im sure I was, but after dealing with that for so long and trying to be there for him through all of it I just felt like I deserved some sort of verbal salutation. But that was 3 years ago. She is now finally doing every other weekend and this is absolutely not easy for me. Im 23 sitting having to do things alone because his daughter is over. He is a wonderful father, Im not saying that at all, I just am not sure that I am at a point in my life to always be the back burner, as one of your posts stated. There are so many things that bother me but everyone thinks it is so cute and funny. She constantly whines but still gets what she wants. She is 3 years old and still does not sleep in her own bed. It is ridiculous. This should have never ever been allowed and I said that before but no one wanted to listen, instead I looked like I was just being the bad guy. Well now he has to pay for it and frankly so do I. I have to sleep in her bed! Just leave her in the room, she will get over it. The more you buy into her and let her sleep with you the harder it is going to be. He will try to put her in her own bed but she wont go to sleep, so he takes her to his bed. Well of course if I knew that if I didnt want to do something and all I had to do was wait long enough I will get daddys bed. It happens every weekend! I have tried to explain that multiple times but it always just turns into a disagreement. I feel like they just want to do the easy way out so they dont have to deal with the repercussions. So what she cries for an hour, thats the way it is. It is only going to get worse. I have never loved someone so much as I love him. I just have a really hard time with this situation as it seems I am not the only one. I am glad I found this forum I think you all will be very helpful at least just being there for me to talk to, I dont have any friends in this similar situation. My boyfriend and I have an open line of communication but I feel like when we talk I either dont explain what I am feeling or he just doesnt get it. This is so hard for me and I feel like it is only going to get worse. I dont want to move in with him if a few days a week I have to sleep not in my bed and not because she is sick but because she is 3 and still sleeps with her parents! No this is not where I pictured my self at 23 and I am a very independent person. I have my own life. I dont rely on him for anything, meaning I could survive on my own. So maybe this is not for me, or maybe it is and there is a way to deal with this and you all can help me. This situation is nothing about not being in love, this truly has nothing to do with us not getting along, him and I have a great relationship, we are just the same age but in different places. I couldnt imagine being with anyone else, I just often wonder if it is just not our time. I am so confused and I have no one to talk to about any of this. Any suggestions?!
I wanted to get opinions on this. I read this article..
http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=151186
…which is v useful. Applying it my situation is confusing. My ex and I were together for 2 yrs & lived together. I instigated the break-up but took 2 months to actually do it, by which time my ex wanted to break too so it turned out to be mutual.
She seemed way cooler than me about it and wanted to be friends, I did too but soon realized I wanted her back. We kept in touch for 4 months, with an equal balance of contacting each other. I asked for her back twice though, she said we need time apart & see what happens, she couldn’t make any promises & said I should move on. I started to find the friendship painful so I asked for 1 month NC which she was cool about. Once NC started I deleted her from facebook.
I called her after 6 weeks NC and she was angry about facebook, I apologized for not warning her beforehand but at the end of the conversation she told me (viciously) to never send her another friend request as she’ll ignore it. I was surprised because it was the 1st time she’d lost her cool since the break up. I e-mailed her the day after to say her comment was unnecessary and if she meant f*** you then fair enough I’ll leave her alone, I also wrote that its hard being friends with her as she puts up such a front (& makes frequent sarcastic digs at me) that I don’t recognize her anymore. That was 3 weeks ago and she never replied.
It’s been 7 months since we broke up now. Sounds like she feels like the injured party….I’ve written a letter apologizing for how I’ve behaved since the break-up (i.e. being friends just to try and win her back), and to say I hope we’ll be friends some day, and to wish her happiness whatever path her future takes. I feel bad because everything was on good terms and we are both nice people, but our last conversation & my e-mail response was quite nasty and I feel like clearing the air.
Not sure whether to send it or not though, trouble is I’m still healing & not ready to be friends. I’ll see her in 5 months at a mutual friends event. Will I do more damage by sending it, or by leaving her alone (I’ve no idea whether she hates me or not now)?
my girlfriend broke up with me 7 months ago and im still nt over it. we have talked and she told me she misses me and still has feelings for me but getting back together isn’t an option in the foreseeable future. We still get on brilliantly and its as easy as when we were together. Recently I decided to end our friendship as we were practically together again and it was too hard but im still crazy about her and don’t know what to do? ive tried liking other people and have been with other girls but have felt absolutely nothing towards them even though there was nothing wrong with them and according to my friends were better than my ex.. We were great together and rarely fought but we are young and were together for 14 months..times meant to be a healer but i don’t feel any better now than i did 7 months ago? i feel pathetic and stupid for not being able to move on! any advice would be appreciated
Hey guys,
Basically my ex-girlfriend whom I’ve dated for 2 years and known for 4 years broke up with me 9 months ago. 7 months ago she started to like my ex-friend to the point where he kissed her on the lips even though he had a girlfriend at the time. Fast forward to today. My ex-girlfriend and I’ve decided to become friends. I’m not really over the fact that she liked my ex-friend. I’m really more mad at my ex-friend than my ex-girlfriend because I hate people that flirt with other girls even when they have a girlfriend themselves (basically a player)
My ex-friend is seriously a snake in the grass who can never be trusted. My ex-girlfriend and I had been growing together from the last four weeks. I’ve done everything with her like bring her flowers at work just to let her know that I care for her and even let her cry on my shoulders when she’s having a rough day at school (We’re both in college)
Now 2 days ago, my ex-friend shows up in my ex-girlfriend’s dorm room and I lost my temper and almost punched him (I just grabbed his collar). I grabbed my stuff and just told my girlfriend to stay out of my life. I even told her that I wanted all my stuff back but she refused to give them back.
The other night, she told me that she didn’t want me out of her life and so I told her that she needed to pick because I didn’t want to put up with it anymore even though I still love her a lot. When I asked her why she invited him over after months of not doing anything with him she couldn’t answer why. She told me it was stupid and that she was confused with her feelings still. She wanted my ex-friend to be her friend that would occasionally call her and go to lunch together with.
I know my ex-friend is just trying to get into her pants because he definitely talked about to my ex-girlfriend how much he missed sex with his ex-girlfriend and was just basically saying how he messed up with my ex-girlfriend.
I just don’t know what to do in this scenario. Was I wrong to lose my temper? I’m confused why my ex-girlfriend would do something like this to me again. Why would she do it? I also know that my ex-friend also tried to sleep with one of his workers at work (who is in high school) and I have the necessary proof to prove that he was doing this (chat logs with my ex-girlfriend). Should I turn him in? I used to work at the same place as him so I’m credible with my ex-bosses. Please any help would be appreciated!
-Torn Student
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