I have been ttc for 8 months now. 12 dpo, 1 day away from expected af , and BFN this morning. I have no pregnancy symptoms or signs of AF showing but I know she is on her way. My DH and I are getting so discouraged and just feel like it’s never going to happen. Everytime I go on the pregnancy forum, I see questions about abortion and it just breaks my heart. I am already blessed with two boy’s, 9 and 10 years old from my previous marriage so I am thankful but I am soooo wanting number 3. I really wanted a girl but at this point, I don’t care what sex the baby would be, I just want another child so bad. Why is this so hard. My first child was unexpected, I was on bc…hence the first marriage and I went to get on bc again after my first child because the ex was cheating and guess what, I was pregnant. So even though I got a divorce while I was pregnant, I am so glad I conceived my two boys but I just don’t get it, why is it so hard this time around. My dh was checked and his sperm count is great and all of my test came back good, so I am at a loss. I’m sorry, I guess I am just extremely frustrated and looking for some words of encouragement. And god bless you ladies who have been trying for a year and more. My heart goes out to you, I don’t know how you deal with the disappointment of not conceiving month after month.
Congratulations emma’s mommy…twins, you must be so excited:)
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in america the statistics i saw on oprah was that almost 86% of men have cheated on their wives that is a way too high statistic. im a muslim woman in america but i dont wear the hijab,god willing 1 day i will get to that level of piety,im 21 and in the working place i cant even count of the amount of married non-muslim men try to get some action from my friends and i,they tend to like the younger ladies.its sick to se how many non-muslim men compared to muslim men it is a hge diff.most men cheat as much as men on here say they dont majority of them are lying they do and there wives deny the fact.
in america there are 7.8 million more woman then men.that means approx 8 million woman in america will never get married.and lets face it as woman we also need some loving and to do it out of marriage in most religion is very sinful.thats how today you get so much adultery and sex before marriage that leads to aids and many diff diseases,abortion.thats y many christian woman become prostetutes,many of them start getting pregnant out of marriage and then they need to support those kids.many woman come from poor backgrounds as you know you get the very rich and the very poor is much more in number.then men statistics of gay to lesbian is 26% to 13% that is double,then you take the amount of men sent to wars and die,and the amount of men in prison is much more to woman,this increases the satistics of many woman never to get married even more, but the quran makes very clear you may take upto four BUT IF YOU CANT DO JUSTICE BETWEEN THEM YOU TAKE ONLY 1!
AND LETS BE HONEST THE GAYS IN ISLAM COMPARED TO CHRISTIANITY WILL NEVER EVER BE EQUIVALENT,EVEN MOST CHRISTIANS PRIESTS ARE GAY ITS TOO FAR MORE THEN ISLAM WILL EVER BE.
lol tilly you may not want to get married but you telling me you dont need sex???
morphic,im a woman and i think this law if fair because many woman will not get married.christianity is not fair because if god can create so many woman to men and tell you to only take 1 then you saying god doesnt care about all those other extra woman?????
yes YOU FAIL,im a muslim woman and i think its kewl because every woman needs to get married and have some loving in the religious confound of a marriage and there’s not enough men so yes sharing is caring
lol BELFAST GIRL.IM SURE YOUR HUSBAND HAS CHEATED ON YOU MANT TIMES
lol YOU FAIL.y would you need sex when you always helping yourself
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ever since i found out about St. Rita, i have not been able to shake her from my mind. I lost my faith in God many years ago, I haven’t been religious in very long. i am 23 yrs old now. I have spent the past 4 years in a ring of bad relationships with two men. I never left them because i had endless patience and hope in them. I have forgiven one of their cheating, turned the other cheek, one of their drug addiction, However, they treated me awfully and blamed the failure of the relationships on me. they also led me to do bad things, including an abortion in my last relationship. I haven’t been able to forgive myself for it, even though i got rid of it because the father didn’t want it.
I have prayed through difficult times, often the rosary. But when I have felt extremely hopeless i ask St Rita to help me. recently in the past month, my ex bf refused to speak to me, refuses to talk to me, refused to forgive me, although i have forgiven him. told me awful things, even tho i continually told him not to …that i loved him…that he was hurting me…he continued his abuse. today….he finally spoke with me on the phone, and was extremely evil to me.
i was in so much despair, and i fell upon st rita once more. this is the second time ive asked her to help me. i asked for a prayer on a forum for st rita. not even an hour later, my ex bf had written me back an email…telling me he appreciated the last email i sent him asking him for forgiveness….he said he hoped he could forgive me someday…but that time wouldnt be soon. he said he wished me the best in my school, life and love and family.
i believe it was a miracle because he hadnt been respectful to me since we’d been together.
do you think so?
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I was with my ex for nearly a year. However towards the end, we made a stupid mistake and she became pregnant. Due to our age and other circumstances, i knew that it would not have been possible to raise the child. She wanted to keep it though. However for fear of losing me, she went through with the abortion. This made her hate me. She lost all feelings for me and although we tried working through it… she said she couldnt do it anymore. This killed me as we were really in love and already knew we wanted to spend the rest of our lives together.
For comfort, she went to her colleagues house most nights. And one thing led to another and 3 weeks later they were in a relationship. This killed me as i was trying to get her back. However just before they started their relationship we shared an extremely passionate kiss and she said she missed me and if it wasnt for what happened, she would still be with me. She told me she is over what happened and doesnt blame me anymore.
Recently we have become very close friends. She stops over at my house on the way home from her boyfriends for a chat. We are on the same course at university and have lunch together or go out shopping together when uni is finished. She is always wanting to chill with me and everyone says things are looking good for me. However she is still with her boyfriend and i found out they booked to go on holiday in june 2009… they booked this 2 weeks after being together!!
just wondering if anyone has any tips on how i can win her back. She calls me all the time and we seem to do everything together that we are allowed to do without cheating… (lots of hugging and kissing on the cheek)… her boyfriend doesnt know she even talks to me let alone meeting up cos he wont allow her to.. She is a girl that needs lots of attention and i have heard from her friends that she is having problems with him cos he wont give her any attention.
Does she really like this guy or is it just a rebound.. and is it looking good for me???
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I was with my ex for nearly a year. However towards the end, we made a stupid mistake and she became pregnant. Due to our age and other circumstances, i knew that it would not have been possible to raise the child. She wanted to keep it though. However for fear of losing me, she went through with the abortion. This made her hate me. She lost all feelings for me and although we tried working through it… she said she couldnt do it anymore. This killed me as we were really in love and already knew we wanted to spend the rest of our lives together.
For comfort, she went to her colleagues house most nights. And one thing led to another and 3 weeks later they were in a relationship. This killed me as i was trying to get her back. However just before they started their relationship we shared an extremely passionate kiss and she said she missed me and if it wasnt for what happened, she would still be with me. She told me she is over what happened and doesnt blame me anymore.
Recently we have become very close friends. She stops over at my house on the way home from her boyfriends for a chat. We are on the same course at university and have lunch together or go out shopping together when uni is finished. She is always wanting to chill with me and everyone says things are looking good for me. However she is still with her boyfriend and i found out they booked to go on holiday in june 2009… they booked this 2 weeks after being together!!
just wondering if anyone has any tips on how i can win her back. She calls me all the time and we seem to do everything together that we are allowed to do without cheating… (lots of hugging and kissing on the cheek)… her boyfriend doesnt know she even talks to me let alone meeting up cos he wont allow her to.. She is a girl that needs lots of attention and i have heard from her friends that she is having problems with him cos he wont give her any attention.
Does she really like this guy or is it just a rebound.. and is it looking good for me???
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