About a year ago the love of my life ended our three year relationship after a weekend of arguing. Although I know that things were getting bad between us, I always thought we could work through anything. I admit that I made a lot of mistakes and put her through a lot but I never thought that she would walk away. Now she is in love with another man and although I have been with a few women since her, none of them can manage to erase her memory or the constant pain that I feel from her absence in my life. To this day, over a year later, I literally think of her from the moment I wake until I fall asleep only to endure another night of dreaming of her. Is my heart eternally broken? If there is such a thing as a soul mate, Did I find mine and let her slip through my fingers? and if so, how does one recover from such a devastating event? I am convinced that I will never truly love again, but, if you have another theory please let me know.
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4:34 Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has given the one more (strength) than the other, and because they support them from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient, and guard in (the husband’s) absence what Allah would have them guard. As to those women on whose part ye fear disloyalty and ill-conduct, admonish them (first), (Next), refuse to share their beds, (And last) beat them (lightly); but if they return to obedience, seek not against them Means (of annoyance): For Allah is Most High, great (above you all).
I took this verse from Quran translated by yusuf ali in english but he added some words in parethesis but my quran in spanish doesn’t have those parethensis and in a book in spanish by dr sharif says it’s there 4 ways of saving marriage is talking with both families,or going with a judge or talking each other and the last source is beating the wife but ligthly? how is that?
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I am living in Taipei, Taiwan, where I have been for 3 years. I want to come home to the United States (Rhode Island) and wonder if it is possible to find work before arriving (This is the most important/pressing concern) So my question is – how do I get a job before coming home? Also, are there support services – information for ex-pats who are returning home after a long absence? Thank you all.
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