I just had a really long and painful break up from an abusive relationship where I was mostly emotionally abused, but hit a few times too, and we’re just coming to the end of our break up and it’s still painful and he’s still being a pig. I know you have to be really careful when talking to people you don’t know on the internet, but are there any nice, genuine guys (or girls! Just a friendly face really) that want to talk and help to cheer an upset teenager up? I just want someone to talk to so I can vent and meet a new person my age. A little bit of information and an email address would be really nice if anyone is interested. Thank you so much!
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Me and this girl broke up after 3 1/2 months. (I 29 she 25) Initially she told me that she lost the spark. She wanted to remain friends. I kept asking her i wanted her back because my heart said dont let her go. We fought over the next 3 weeks about getting back. She said things like you cant force it, give it time, etc.. Then she started to call me a crazy person cause i persisted and i know i did. Last night i get a text from her telling me the reasons for a break up. My charm got old. She was no longer attracted to me cause she is way outta my league, she felt i was buying her love and my asskising got sicking and now she says she will never be friends now and wants nothing to do with me. I think i pushed her to far. Will she ever talk to me again. Has anyone ever had someone talk to them again after something like this. I really just want to be friends. Any advice thanks
She just had gotten out of a 2 1/2 year verbally abusive relationship ending in a restraning order. Am i a rebound? lol She told me initially that she lost feelings and still wanted to be friends. Just to give her time. Now she assumed that i lied to her about things and that i tried to fool her during our relationship. She thought i was doing drugs, i was trying to buy her love etc. I was not doing drugs and i told her that i want to prove to her. Her reasoning to give me reasons was that she did not want me to have the satisfaction of thinking i fooled her. Is she nuts?
She also told me not to try to prove myself different then what she called me. She called me a liar and would never want to be my friend. I didnt lie, just acted extra nice cause i did not want to lose her, that was my mistake. I told her that i want to be friends when she was ready and she told me no thanks. Can she reallt stay mad at me forever when we both agreed we had a good relationship??? ANY ADVICE
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About 3 years ago I dated this girl. It went well for a while, but I was so smitten I became clingy, and she broke it off. So I did all the things people always tell you to do after a break-up. I dated all kinds of other girls, even had a couple of one night stands.
Eventually I stopped being bitter and me and my ex became friends again. We would talk everyonce in a while and everything was nice. But then a year ago she got mixed up in a bad relationship, and she ended up breaking contact with everyone she knew.
Which brings us to now. She finally got herself out of the abusive relationship and is in the process of reconnecting with all of her friends that she didn’t speak to during that time.
She and I have started talking again also. I’ve figured out that I still have feelings for her, and that I always have. I know, that I can’t just jump in, and that she needs time to heal. But how do I start laying the ground work, and also find out if she would even want to get back together?
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My Story:
Two baby sisters(very annoying and destructive)
Step dad (i don’tt get along with at all, mentally abusive relationship)
mom (crazy and stressed out, exhausting)
friends (party too hard, not good to talk to about problems)
My mom just bought a house that needs alot of work so my home life is kinda stressful. Living with my family is very exhausting and lonely. My family is always picking at me, and my friends are bad influences. they drink and smoke weed all the time and they are usually to busy to talk to about anything going wrong. I play Ice hockey but im the only girl on the team which sucks because i dont really feel like im apart of the team. Its also lonely.. then i just got my heart broken by this jerk who led me on and then got back with his ex girlfriend. He left me hanging. and now im really lonely and going through withdrawl from talking to him so much. Also even though there is nothing wrong with my body i have insecurities about it that are eating away at me. i used to be bulimic but i have control of it. i have issues talking to people because i dont feel like i fit in with white or black people because im mixed. I used to not care what people think about me but the people i know are so judgemental and full of themselves. I know that if i could just get out of this city and meet new people i would be fine but im stuck here around the same average guys and evil girls. Also im a sophomore in an awful public school and im in all honor classes. they are extremely challenging. im getting extremely stressed out now that the break is over because i dont know if im going to be able to balance my emotions, my friends and family, sports, and school and i have a bunch of really hard exams coming up and finals. Does anyone know why everything has to be so shitty? Im feeling kinda suicidal and lonely i dont know what to do.. or how to get passed this rough patch in my life because i know when i graduate it will get better. but right now it doesnt feel worth living.
(sorry if i sound emo im not trying to get your pity, i know other people have it much worse i just need some tips) thanks..
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My bf isn’t always the kindest to me. we tease each other a lot but sometimes he takes things way out of line. my guy friends love to diss me too and sometimes he joins in and hardly defends me. I’m gonna break up with him soon but even after I do break up with him, how can i heal the emotional pain i’ve gone through?
didn’t want ot break up with him now cuz new years eve is coming and seems like a bad time to do it. i’m 18
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