My Story:
Two baby sisters(very annoying and destructive)
Step dad (i don’tt get along with at all, mentally abusive relationship)
mom (crazy and stressed out, exhausting)
friends (party too hard, not good to talk to about problems)

My mom just bought a house that needs alot of work so my home life is kinda stressful. Living with my family is very exhausting and lonely. My family is always picking at me, and my friends are bad influences. they drink and smoke weed all the time and they are usually to busy to talk to about anything going wrong. I play Ice hockey but im the only girl on the team which sucks because i dont really feel like im apart of the team. Its also lonely.. then i just got my heart broken by this jerk who led me on and then got back with his ex girlfriend. He left me hanging. and now im really lonely and going through withdrawl from talking to him so much. Also even though there is nothing wrong with my body i have insecurities about it that are eating away at me. i used to be bulimic but i have control of it. i have issues talking to people because i dont feel like i fit in with white or black people because im mixed. I used to not care what people think about me but the people i know are so judgemental and full of themselves. I know that if i could just get out of this city and meet new people i would be fine but im stuck here around the same average guys and evil girls. Also im a sophomore in an awful public school and im in all honor classes. they are extremely challenging. im getting extremely stressed out now that the break is over because i dont know if im going to be able to balance my emotions, my friends and family, sports, and school and i have a bunch of really hard exams coming up and finals. Does anyone know why everything has to be so shitty? Im feeling kinda suicidal and lonely i dont know what to do.. or how to get passed this rough patch in my life because i know when i graduate it will get better. but right now it doesnt feel worth living.

(sorry if i sound emo im not trying to get your pity, i know other people have it much worse i just need some tips) thanks..

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My bf isn’t always the kindest to me. we tease each other a lot but sometimes he takes things way out of line. my guy friends love to diss me too and sometimes he joins in and hardly defends me. I’m gonna break up with him soon but even after I do break up with him, how can i heal the emotional pain i’ve gone through?
didn’t want ot break up with him now cuz new years eve is coming and seems like a bad time to do it. i’m 18

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Ok, so I have a friend (a man) who was engaged to a woman for several years. He literally gave up everything for her and she didn’t treat him well but every time he talked about breaking up with her she made all these promises manipulation to keep him. She even talked about wanting to start a family and suggested a time when she thought they should have a kid. He always wanted to be a father and all her false promises, etc caused him to eventually fall head over heals completely in love with her. He planned his entire life around getting ready to start a family with her and supported her 100% even though he got little or nothing in return because she promised things would change once she finished school. Anyway once she was done with the hard part of school she bailed on him, dumping him with literally nothing, no explanation, etc and wouldn’t even talk to him. She did talk to him a couple times just to let him know she was with other men. He also heard some rumors that she had been cheating on him and knowingly using him the whole time. Anyway he’s devastated, it’s been months and he’s just not the same person. I don’t know if he ever will be again because she hurt him so badly. He can’t even dance, laugh or smile anymore. I think to him it feels like he lost a whole family he had already been preparing for the child they were going to have. He was really convinced they were going to have a child soon. Does anyone have any ideas on what he should do? I’m going to tell him to read this later so he’ll see your advice.

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I know that I should be glad to get out of this relationship & someone who will love me with no strings attached, instead of trying to make me feel like I owe him for his participation in our relationship. And I am glad for that. But after 4.5 years, it’s hard to lose someone that’s always been there. He put me through a lot of BS. And I want to leave. I’m sure it’ll be over within the next month or so. But at this point, I don’t have any friends here. I have no one else to talk to, and while I resent him for rubbing it in my face, and for passive-aggressively trying to keep me isolated…the truth is I feel like I’ll have no one. Even though I’m completely financially/residentially independent, I feel like I won’t be able to make ends meet. But it’s weird, because if he broke with me, I’d be fine with it. I’d find a way to cope.

I feel like an empty shell of myself. How can I recover, and how can I build myself up so that this won’t be such a difficult decision to make?

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Me and this girl broke up after 3 1/2 months. (I 29 she 25) Initially she told me that she lost the spark. She wanted to remain friends. I kept asking her i wanted her back because my heart said dont let her go. We fought over the next 3 weeks about getting back. She said things like you cant force it, give it time, etc.. Then she started to call me a crazy person cause i persisted and i know i did. Last night i get a text from her telling me the reasons for a break up. My charm got old. She was no longer attracted to me cause she is way outta my league, she felt i was buying her love and my asskising got sicking and now she says she will never be friends now and wants nothing to do with me. I think i pushed her to far. Will she ever talk to me again. Has anyone ever had someone talk to them again after something like this. I really just want to be friends. Any advice thanks
She just had gotten out of a 2 1/2 year verbally abusive relationship ending in a restraining order. During our time, she said he messed her up She told me initially that she lost feelings and wanted to be friends. Just to give her time. Now she assumes that i lied/fooled her about things during our relationship. She thought i was doing drugs, i was trying to buy her love etc. I was not doing drugs and i told her that i want to prove to her by blood test. Her reasoning to give me reasons was that she did not want me to have the satisfaction of thinking i fooled her.
She does not want me to prove it and she claimed "that i am so erased from her life". She called me a liar and would never want to be my friend. I didnt lie, just acted great to her i did not want to lose her, that was my mistake. I told her that i want to be friends when she was ready and she told me no thanks. Can she really stay mad at me forever when we both agreed we had a good relationship??? ANY ADV
I feel that I pushed her to far. She wanted to be left alone and I couldn’t understand that. But now I do. And instead of mourning the lost of a gf, I have lost a friend which is even worse. Do any of you feel she still thinks of me, what would need to happen for her to call me again. I dont want to be thought ofd as a stalker, but it hurt cause i fell in love with her. I dated many women and i was never like this before, why is this happenening to me Thanks

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Me and this girl broke up after 3 1/2 months. (I 29 she 25) Initially she told me that she lost the spark. She wanted to remain friends. I kept asking her i wanted her back because my heart said dont let her go. We fought over the next 3 weeks about getting back. She said things like you cant force it, give it time, etc.. Then she started to call me a crazy person cause i persisted and i know i did. Last night i get a text from her telling me the reasons for a break up. My charm got old. She was no longer attracted to me cause she is way outta my league, she felt i was buying her love and my asskising got sicking and now she says she will never be friends now and wants nothing to do with me. I think i pushed her to far. Will she ever talk to me again. Has anyone ever had someone talk to them again after something like this. I really just want to be friends. Any advice thanks
She just had gotten out of a 2 1/2 year verbally abusive relationship ending in a restraning order. Am i a rebound? lol She told me initially that she lost feelings and still wanted to be friends. Just to give her time. Now she assumed that i lied to her about things and that i tried to fool her during our relationship. She thought i was doing drugs, i was trying to buy her love etc. I was not doing drugs and i told her that i want to prove to her. Her reasoning to give me reasons was that she did not want me to have the satisfaction of thinking i fooled her. Is she nuts?
She also told me not to try to prove myself different then what she called me. She called me a liar and would never want to be my friend. I didnt lie, just acted extra nice cause i did not want to lose her, that was my mistake. I told her that i want to be friends when she was ready and she told me no thanks. Can she reallt stay mad at me forever when we both agreed we had a good relationship??? ANY ADVI

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I was in a very abusive relationship. It has Been a few years now and I can’t seem to have feelings for anyone. Is it because I haven’t met the right person or am i just incapable after what has happened?

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Me and this girl broke up after 3 1/2 months. (I 29 she 25) Initially she told me that she lost the spark. She wanted to stay friends badly!. I kept asking her i wanted her back sweetly. We fought over the next 3 weeks about getting back. She said things like you cant force it, give it time, etc.. Then she started to call me a crazy person cause i persisted and i know i did. Last night i get a text from her telling me the reasons for a break up. My charm got old. She was no longer attracted to me cause she is outta my league, she felt i was buying her love and my asskising got sickening and now she says she will never be friends and wants nothing to do with me. I think i pushed her to far. Will she ever talk to me again. Has anyone ever had someone talk to them again after something like this. I really just wanted to stay friends. Saw her recently and she said hello. We tried to talk but she said she has nothing to say? The happened to her? She said she will regret the breakup. Why
I saw her this past weekend and we tried to talk, but she said she had nothing to say to me. We hang out at similar places and she talks to my friends. I treated her so well. She always told me how lucky she was to be "stuck" with me and i am the best. Told me she wanted to marry me etc.. have kids and all. All of a sudden you lose feelings. Makes no sense. She did just get out of a 2 1/2 yr verbally abusive relationship which ended in a restraining order, which I come to find out she has started to text him again, nothing more and the texting started while we were together, of course she denied, but I have proof. I guess i was a rebound or what. Do you guys think she just realized she didnt want to be in a relationship cause she was not ready?? Or was she just confused, she is a Gemini and I am a Pisces? Any advice on how I should deal with this? Will she consider me as a friend since our fallout? That is all i really want and i told her so.

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