a 10th grade dates a 7th grade he’s known for years and were great friends before they dated. after a week they break up. he blocks her on aim and even ignores her myspace comments/messages. he practically doesn’t want her in his life. right after his breakup he dates this girl he has only known for 2 days. i think he’s trying to get over the pain since he’s not the type of guy to do those things. do you think i’m right?



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These are some of my favorite quotes,
maybe a little guideline for things that I’d like.

Leave any quotes that you think I may like.
Really, I’m open to anything. :)

-you can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks or even months over analyzing the situation, trying to put the pieces together, justifying what could’ve, should’ve, would’ve happened; OR you can leave the pieces on the floor and move on.

-In life and love, you learn that there comes a time to let go and move on.

-think how different it would be if you never met the one person who changed everything.

-sometimes you only forgive someone because you can’t stand not having them in your life.

-When one door of happiness closes, another opens, but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened for us.

-The longer you put off making a decision, the harder it becomes to make.

-if you have something to say to a loved one, don’t wait until tomorrow. too late comes sooner than later.

-most people don’t aim to high and miss. they aim to low and hit.

-don’t make someone a priority if they only make you an option.

-if you don’t have a dream, how can you have a dream come true?

-don’t give up no matter how hopeless it seems. and when you’ve lost hope, ask yourself if you’re gonna wish you gave it one more shot. because the best things in life don’t come free.

-I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.

-there are things you don’t want to happen but have to accept, things you don’t want to know but have to learn, and people you can’t live without but have to let go.

-As people grow up, they realize it becomes less important to have more friends, and more important to have real ones.

-To let go isn’t to forget, not to think about, or to ignore. It doesn’t leave feelings of anger, jealously, or regret. Letting go isn’t winning or losing. It’s not about pride, and it isn’t about not obsessing or dwelling on the past. It’s not giving in or giving up. Letting go isn’t about loss, and it’s not defeat. To let go is to cherish memories, but to overcome them and move on. Letting go is accepting. Letting go is having the courage to accept change and have the strength to keep moving. Letting go is growing up.

-missing someone gets easier everyday because even though you are one day further from the last time you saw them, you are one day closer to the next time you will.

-There’s nothing scarier than getting what you want, because that’s when you really have something to lose.

-Theres a little truth behind every just kidding, a little curiosity behind every just wondering, a little knowledge behind every I dont know, and a little emotion behind every I don’t care.

-If you keep doing what you’ve always done, you’ll keep getting what you’ve always gotten.

-it’s hard to know you’ll never remember the things I’ll never forget.

-Smile big for everyone, even when you know what they’ve done.

-I’m not a perfect person. there’s many things I wish I didn’t do, But I continue learning;

-I look around at what everyone has And I forget about all I’ve got;

-I forgive, but I never forget.

-a day without smiling is a day wasted.

-Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.

-the only people you need in your life are the ones that prove they need you in theirs.

-Life’s not about the people who act true to your face. It’s about the people who remain true behind your back.

-live for the moments you can’t put into words.

-sometimes we expect more from others because we would be willing to do that much more for them.

-You better know that in the end, It’s better to say too much, than never to say what you need to say again

-i’m the kind of girl who doesn’t say much, but when i do, it means a lot;



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Three years ago, I went out with a certain boy for about a year. After we finally broke up, we haven’t spoken since. However, I’ve been feeling a desire to talk to him again lately. I found his myspace, sent a friend request, and he added me. Then he sent me a message asking how I’ve been and what’s been going on in my life, if I am single, etc. He also asked for my screen name for AIM so I gave it to him. He i/med me not too shortly after and he was telling me about how he was looking at my pictures and how hott/beautiful I am and how he remembers that I’ve always been that way, and that he would really like to take me out on a date again. However, he also told me that he and his girlfriend of two years just recently broke up about a week ago. But then he also tells me he doesn’t know what he was thinking when he let me go, and that he never did forget about me, and he told me about all of the memories he had with me that he misses so much. There’s only one problem. He also says > "I’ve been trying so very hard to get my recent ex back into my life, but I’m just about over it, and about to just give up completely". I don’t know about that, but ever since I started talking to him again, I’ve been feeling like I really want him back. My question is > How do I get his mind off of his ex, and back onto me after all these years? How do I win him back? HELP!!! (Please be as detailed and descriptive as you possibly can to help)
I guess I need more detail. He said he’s almost over his ex but it’s going to take a while longer because he’s still so hurt from it all. So our whole "date" isn’t going to happen till he can get himself together again. He says we can hang out as friends for now, but he’s going to try not to "touch me" or show any affection or anything, like kissing or cuddling. My problem is, I WANT THAT. Now, how do I get it? How can I speed up the rate of him forgetting about his ex to be a little quicker, so we can pick up where we left off three years ago?



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sooo me and my ex have been broken up for about 2 1/2 months now, but i can honestly say she was my first love, and ive had plenty of girlfriends. Shes smart, beautiful, she goes to church, she doesnt drink or smoke, shes a virgin still, just like me:) her ex bf became available not long after and they are on the verge of dating again. The reason they are broke up in the first place is because he left her because she wouldnt have sex with him, so he broke up with her for a girl that would(although during the relationship, she told me that this boy was her first love). Now he wants to come back now that she is single, and shes basically letting him back. the weird thing is, this kid recently got expelled from school for dealing, and he does drugs and drinks and hes just not the right girl for her. her parents dont even like him, and didnt allow them to see each other the first time they dated, and i dont see this fact changing after the expulsion lol.

Me and my ex dont talk to much, i try to keep my space from her. Ive been talking to her recently on AIM tho, and she talks about how shes stressed about the fact that this kid is expelled and since her parents dont like him, she cant really see him at all, and when i asked why shes putting herself through this, even after what he did, and she said that "no matter what he did to me, he was my first love and he deserves a second chance". I guess i can see why shes saying that, considering she hurt me really badly and id take her back. I just dont know how to go about this and i guess i need some advise. Im seeing this other girl, and shes really great, but i dont feel the same way as i did for my ex, and i no i want my ex back, and i feel like id have a good chance if this boy wasnt in the picture, but he is and i dont know what to do. Some additional info here, im 18 and shes 16(17 in december), we were really into each other and a great couple, but in the summer when it became hard to see each other because of work, it went downhill. i really do want her back and if not, i hope she gets whats best for her.After all, she was my first love:(

-what should i say when we talk about this on IM?
-should i call her?
-if i see her, how should i act?
-is there any way i can get her back?
-Should i even bother lol?

any advice is greatly appreciated, please be as detailed as possible :)


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What are signs that your ex-boyfriend still likes you?
I asked my ex if he still likes me he said .. "No, not really."
And I didn’t see his facial reaction because it was over AIM.
Yes, yes AIM is the devil.
I’m just wondering what are signs that you can tell he still has feelings for you?
And guys, what makes you jealous that your ex-girlfriend does?


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