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I had a six month casual relationship with this guy who I lost my virginity to. I got too attached to him and told him how I felt and that I either want an official relationship from him or thats it. So he asked me to be his girlfriend and that was the best in my life. But then, he went MIA for a while and when I finally called him, he told me that he didnt want a girlfriend right now and only needed to focus on his studies. He asked if we could still be friends and because I have strong feelings for him, I agreed. When we would "hang out", he would act like my boyfriend again, cuddle with me, hold my hand, making false promises and giving me false hope. I have realized that he was just playing with my feelings so that he was the only one who could have me and he was hoping for me to sleep with him again. I have decided to end it for good and have ignored him for the past few weeks.

Ever since we broke up two months ago, I have suffered major depression and have cried almost every night. I lost all of my closest friends because they had warned me about him but being so in love with him, I was too blind to see it. So I can’t talk to anyone about this, as I have no close friends. I try to be stong, act like nothing is wrong and put on a smile for everyone who knows me but I am dying on the inside. I have tried to forget about this with alcohol and partying but that just makes it worse. I feel like I am not worthy of a real relationship and I will never be loved. Please help! Will I ever get over this?

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some statistics say 80% of people get back together , even when all hope is lost, my wife called it quits ,said she needed space and time, we have a newborn of 4 month old,no cheating or drugs,alcohol were involved, Just too much time spent together and lot of little arguments here and there. i Know deep down inside she loves me, but she is a very very stubborn girl she is 25 yrs.old im 30 and she has been diagnosed with postpartum depression, she doesnt call or text or email me at all. What do you think the odds are of us getting back together are? ive read books and they all say people are likely to get back together than move on. What do you think? i really have tried it all alread calling ,texting,emailing but she doent respond she is taking Prozac for her PPD. Even though i know she wants to call and work it out, i know she is very stubborn that she prefers to keep it to herself, Please Tell me what i should do or you would do?

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My DH and I have tried to conceive for 7 months. We went through one miscarriage – and our relationship seemed to be stronger for what we have gone through.

I finally got my BFP on Wednesday. My DH was out of town, and I couldn’t reach him as he seemed to vanish except one text msg. I started cramping on Friday and went to the MD – they said no fetal heartbeat but a sac and to wait and see. When I finally reached my DH – he said nothing except "I am confused over my ex wife."

I went to the MD today and everything is beautiful with the baby. My hCG levels are not increasing quite as quick as they should be so that is very concerning but the baby is there – 8 weeks 3 days and has a heart rate of 171. It was amazing to hear and I burst into tears because I was there alone. I told my doctor and she is horrified as she knows we have been trying. Anyway…

Well I told him not to come home Sunday night – to go somewhere else and he did. I am with my family so I am not alone and today he tells me he is going back to his ex wife. When I told him we are having a baby and the baby is fine, he says he wants to know if I would allow he and his ex wife to have the baby live with them because she is sterile and they always wanted a baby. OMG – is he off his rocker? We aren’t children – he is 38 and I am 28. Not that it matters, but I am a clean cut, alcohol and drug free woman with a stable home, great job, etc and he leaves me when I am pregnant and thinks he is going to take MY BABY to play house with his ex wife?

To say I became hysterical, sobbing and irrate is a gross understatement. I told him over my dead body will that happen and he said he "didn’t want to miss all the firsts and time with the baby" but I am supposed to because he is a selfish SOB? I told him that is the price you pay when you leave your pregnant wife – you don’t get to have it all.

The crappy part is that I am crushed, devestated, irrate and heartbroken. I have this little miracle growing beneath my heart and I know that my DH is wrapped in the arms of his ex wife as we speak. He told me she said "She will love the baby as her own" so I shouldn’t worry about how she will feel towards the baby. I am devestated. I feel like my soul is being ripped out of my chest and my lungs cannot even breath my heart aches so much.

What do I do? I want to hate him, but I am so madly in love with him that my heart is in a million little pieces. My OB/GYN told me she cannot imagine what I am going through, but said this stress is not good for the baby. How do I do this?

I need advice…

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My wife and I have been married for over five years. I recently put her in rehab for alcoholism. For the year prior our relationship had been deteriorating mainly because of the alcohol but also because I had become very demanding and less of a friend to my wife.

She has been in rehab for 3 weeks and every Saturday she gets to leave for 3 hours. The last 2 Saturdays I have been implementing a book by Homer McDonaId that I read on how to save a marriage and it seems to be working. My wife started crying when I dropped her off today because she wanted to be with me.

She called me this evening and said she has not felt about me the way she did today in a long time. She then said she may want to sleep in the spare room when she comes home for awhile and act as though we are dating…I think this is not a good idea for me personally because I miss my wife and also want sex.

Can anybody think why this may be a good idea?

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Back in college (6 years ago), I introduced my wife to one of my co-workers and friends (or drinking buddy). They became friends and repeatedly got too close (going to movies and dinners together, calling each other best friends). The guy is an alcoholic to the point he peed himself almost every night for 6 months, but we always invited him to our parties cause he was a good laugh when awake. About 2 years ago, I moved my wife and I to England so I could pursue my PhD (not to overgeneralize, but I hope this demonstrates how very different I am from the other guy), and before we left she made out with him on 3 different occasions. She told me she thought she had loved him, but didn’t want a divorce. We worked through our problems and she returned to the US to open up her business. So, I lived in England for 2 years by myself and came back about 8 months ago. She just told me her and this guy had sex while I was in England, and she visited him a week ago in the hospital while he was detoxing from alcohol. I love my wife with all my heart. Her and I have been together since we were 15&16. I feel like it is unacceptable to forgive her, but she is the love of my life. What do I do?

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I have been with my husband now for almost 4 years. We just recently got married and it has been a little over 2 months. When I met him I did have a child from a previous relationship. After dating for 3 years we had a child of our own which is his first.He has always been a vivid drinker having to have at least 6 beers a night. Some nights it is more and then some nights it is less, if any at all (although those nights are rare). My husband was raised by his grandparents because his mom chose a man over her children and sent my husband and his older brother to live with her parents. He has alot of resentment and abandonment issues that stem from this. Also he has never met his biological father because his mother up until a couple months ago would even tell him who he was. She came out about 5 months ago and gave him a name and that was it. She said she didn’t know what town he lived in but she did have a stated, and she wanted him to know that his father did know about him before he was born. He has went thru very hard times growing up watching his granmother pass away, getting into the wrong crowd, doing hard drugs, drinking and partying. He has been in two wrecks that should have took his life becausehe was drunk. He totalled out both vehicles in those wrecks. One he was going about 90 mph and lost control and went off the road. The other he was going too fast lost control and ran off the road and broke his neck. i cant imagine how he survived either one, but i am very greatful he did. I met him about 6 months after he got his halo off (which was what they had to screw on his head when he broke his neck). I loved everything about him. He made me feel so important and so special, he accepted me having a child and loved my son to death, yet he did drink. As the years go by and i see how bad his drinking really is ive become to HATE alcohol. I have never been a big drinker nor have i done drugs so i dont see what it is about it that people just HAVE TO HAVE.. He could tell me time and time again i dont have money for this or i dont have money for that but there is ALWAYS beer in the refrigerator. When he drinks all his childhood emotions come out and it really intensafies his emotion that soon lead to anger. He overtalks me and will not listen to what i have to say becuase hes been through so much more than me in his life and i just dont understand and will never really understand him. Ive threatend to leave in the past but never done it. Im to the point now where i dont know what to do. I am 25 years old and i get advice from my mother becuase i look up to her and respect what she says, but i dont know if she is just telling me he will never change becuase she doesnt care for him? or what.. I was a only child so i know by all means i was not perfect in the releationship either. I see myself as a good mother, a loyal wife, churchgoer, i have a job that i have had for the past 4 years*doesnt pay that well*but it is a job. Some women think the man can jsut work and support them but i acually go to work everyday so that we can have extra money for the extra things we want or need. I just feel like i am stuck here trying to change him and he isnt going to change and im wasting my time… Yes i see what is happening maybe i dont want to believe it but i do. I love him so much and want nothing more than our family to work and us raise our kids but with him not respecting my wishes on him to stop drinking then that shows me he doesnt care. Everything is my fault…i dont understnad him, i cant relate to him, i will never be able to provide for our family like he can. These are just some of the things i get on a daily basis.He gives me excuses as to why he is drinking.. well some friends came over we are watching this ppv fight, you let me drink 2 beers the other night whats wrong with it now…. this is what he says to me.. Well now i see that me condoning him drinking those two beers was really not the right thing to do becuase it gets put in my face now, so im to the point NO BEER AT ALL and have your family together…. or keep drinking but im going to find someone that iwll love and respect me the way i know i deserve to be respected. Sorry for rambling on guys i just really need some elder advice. This isnt everything in our life but it touches on alot of things. It is humiliating to have only been married 2 months and it is coming to this. I have tried praying at church, spending quality time with him and the kids, tell him he is doing a good job on not drinking as much, ive read 2 books on the inner life of a man and how they feel and what i can do differently, ive called a counsoler, ive signed up for daily emails on how to save our marriage, ive tried to talk to him and i have told him what he can do to change, i have asked him to do the same for me yet he refuses. When he tells me hes done all he can do the only thing that comes to mind is he has started attending a recovery group*yet he is still drink
Sorry it didnt take my whole message here is where it left off….*yet he is still drinking*, he tells me he provides a home for our family, he tells me he plays with his kids, but you dont hear naything about ME in there… nothing about ive done this and done that to make our relationship better. Hes told me several time that paying child support would be ten times better than being with me. A week after we got married he told me he has felt the erge to leave but he hasnt because of the kids becuase he didnt want to be away from them… Is there anything more I can do to help save our marriage or should i just let it go here and stop holding onto something that is not there…? All advice is welcome good or bad… Please Help!!!

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