Oh boy do I need help! Where to begin. I am almost at the end of my divorce after being together for nearly twenty years. My ex is nuts, and I am not just saying that, the Psyche evaluations proved it to be true. I have known that she has had problems for years and had begged her to get some help. She ignored my pleadings and told me I was the one that needed help. she has been mentally and verbally abusive towards me for years. I went to therapy and things were good for a short time, but then quickly fell apart again. Then in February they really hit bottom and she filed a PPO order against me and the divorce. I never hit my wife and never would, but she lied and got one anyways. My first lawyer screwed the pooch real bad, and did not fight the PPO allegation. Since we have separated she has kept me from seeing my children, a daughter aged 14 now and my son now 8. I finally got the chance to see my son after months, and had to hear him cry that he was afraid of me for over 15 minutes, it broke my heart. I have no idea what horrible things she is telling them about me, and I can’t believe any person would do that. She is now bringing in a bunch of shrinks to fight the Psyche evaluation. We should be done with the divorce in December. I know she is sick, and probably will never get any help for her problems, but I still love her! Now I Can’t say she was always bad, we had some really good times together, but they have been getting fewer and farther between. At this point in my life I feel like I let her and the kids down. I know that there is some good still left in her. But I can’t even attempt to contact her. I just wish she would get the help she needs, and that we could reconcile this. I don’t believe in divorce. I loved being married and I loved my family. They were my world and I would have done anything for them. I just don’t know what to do.
