Ok…im 17 and my fiance was 16, we were in love and we had a long distance relationship, we were in love, we were on and off for a year and 3 months, we thought that if we were together that long and we were madly in love with each other then we might as well get engaged, well me and her have been having alot of troubles, alot of them, everyday were arguing about something stupid and we both know it but we continue to do it, well now she decides that she wants to break up, and thats it the best for us to end it now.
I still love her and want to be with her for the rest of my life but what should i do if she wants to end it and i dont, she told me before that if we have been together for this long then theres no reason for us to break up becuase we were meant for each other and she said hat she was never gonna break up wit me and that was like a couple of weeks ago and now all of a sudden she wants to break up.
Does she still want me? Should i let her go or wat should i do?
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Ok my girl moved like 500 miles away from where i live and ever since shes been there our relationship has went downhill we barely get to talk because she barely has service because she lives in the country but we still text alot and talk on the phone when we can but everytime we do we pick fights and always end up fighting does anyone know what i can do to get my relationship back on track to a healthy relationship?
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I am having an extremely hard time letting go of a long relationship of ups/downs with a cocaine/alcohol abuser. He broke it off with me twice for no reason. (this being the second time) but i was told he had a girlfriend. he was coming off a 3 day bender when this happened.
He has done this before but we ended up back together after a month. He would often get mad or bug me about not being able to drink a lot or refusing drugs when we were together. I tried to convince him he doesnt need these things and has so much going for him. He cant see what he could be and it hurts so bad.. hes being troubled since he was 10yrs old and been through alot of bad things since then. Is their hope he will change or seek help even though now he doesnt want it?
He says its who he is and everyone knows he’ll die doing this. He makes things up and actually beleives them which has caused fights between us before… I know i may need to seek counselling i am a sucsessfull loving girl, and i have a great family/friend group who all hate that i ever got into this relationship. Its been a week and Im happy then sad & hoping for him to call…
I fear that it was me who wasnt good enough, or that he is happy with some other girl, treating her well & showing her love. I did everything to show him i cared for him so much, nothing was ever enough and didnt seem appreciated at all..he tells me he doesnt deserve me he wants me to hate him, he wont be around long ect, then he can tell me im the one whose f*cked up and annoying ect and he’ll stop talking to me.
This time he told me he has a gf and not to wait around or call him, or book us a trip. (we were planning a summer vacation) it was literally so sudden and things were so good with us.
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my boyfriend jsut broke up with me a few hours ago, the reson was that i liked him to much, idk? but anyway ive been crying for hours stright and i cant stop, and yeah ive dealed with alot of breakups before but i never liked a guy this much! weve only been going out for 2 months so i feel silly but still it reallly hurt me, and were soppsed to go to the dance togther and now idk if were gonna! AHH what are some ways to cope with break up pain?
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Ive been asking alot of questions on here about the "relationship" between me and my "boyfriend" like how hes been using me for sex and dosent care for me or respect me and your answers to my questions have really helped me so i decided I was going to talk to him about it on sun. morning
But i went to the town picnic on sat. night and i saw him there and he saw me there but it seem like he didnt want to talk to me and was mad at me or something, then he kept on watching me and "keeping track" of what i was doing like he thought i was there to cheat on him or somethin, then he kept on following me around at a distiance with his group of friends and then when ever he came real close to me and he knew i was looking at him he would put his arm around one of the girls him and his friends were walking around with, i looked straight at him and he look straight at me then he put his arm around her again to make sure i saw.
so then i called him and the girl anwsered and she told me he had moved on, to take my mydol, and grow up, i was firious but i knew i shouldnt be mad at her (even tho she had no reason to talk to me like that) so then i just left the picnic the next day he called me and said he was sorry and was in a really bad mood cause something happened that day (he wouldnt say what) he said he was sorry but i told him i couldnt talk then and i would call him back cause i didnt know what to say but he hurt me really bad that night and it killed me to see his arm around that other girl,
the wierd thing is he never gave me any indication to why he was mad that night because he was perpously tring to make me mad and jelouse and i want to know why what can i do
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