My girlfriend and I had an arguement yesterday about this, and she told me that sometimes she doubts that I love her, she says she doesn’t feel the vibe that I love her, I honestly love her more than anything in this world and I wanna show her that I do, I don’t want our relationship to end over something like this… PLEASE HELP!?
I met my ex about 2 and a half years ago. We got along great for a while than I just started suspected things were going on behind my back. He wouldnt take me around any of his friends for about 7 months and when he finally did a girl that I had always been suspicious of who he told me was "just a friend" was very rude to me. I got upset and just had a feeling like something happened. He continued to talk to this girl and even went on trips with her and others. He kept telling me that he never did anything with her and if I couldnt trust him I shouldnt be with him. I let it go well tried my hardest atleast though it always bothered me. A while later we seemed to be doing much better. I was living with my mom as I am a single mother of two kids. He came to spend the summer with me and we lived together at my moms (He lived about an hour away). Things went pretty well while we were staying there and he got me an engagement ring and we got our own place down his way. We had been living together for only a couple of months when he told me that he didnt want to be with me anymore that I am too controlling and that I didnt treat him like a human being. We still lived together and ended up getting back together. Things were going good again for a while and he stopped talking to most other girls that I ever had suspicions of. He got me a new engaement ring for Valentines day this year and surprised me with a bear he had delivered. We got into a fight about a month later because he went out all night and didnt come home til the next day. It’s not that I didnt trust him, I really dont think he was doing anything except drinking with the guys but ive always told him that I dont care if he goes out but we have a family and he should be home at night. In a rage of fury I packed some of his stuff and told him that if he didnt love me to go. He told me he loved me more than anything in this world and didnt want to leave. I had a class the next morning and when I came home he had all the rest of his stuff packed and moved out. He was still coming for dinner once a week and than one day he said maybe we should start dating again and we took the kids to the movies. People started telling me things he was saying behind my back, that I took advantage of him and that he took care of my kids (he watched them while I worked, not for anything else) and that he wasnt going to get back with me that i just kept nagging him. I called him and asked him and he yelled at my that it’s a bunch of high school bs and hung up on me. I told him to get the rest of his stuff out of the house and to just let me alon that I couldnt play the games anymore. It’s been about 2 weeks now and I havent heard a word from him. I sent him a picture of my ultrasound (turns out Im 9 weeks preg) and he told me that it wasnt his and Im not really preg. He talked to the kids on Easter but he wont speak to me. He told my sister that there is no chance of us ever getting back together and that when the baby is born he will take care of it but besides that he wants nothing to do with me. Also it came out that he was seeing that other girl when we first got together. I was the longest relationship he was ever in, the first girl he ever said I love you to and the only person he’s ever lived with. He still has some of his belongings here and also the cable and water bills are in his name. I’m just so torn on how you can give someone a ring one week and decide your done the next. He is moving four hours away in about a month and I am afraid I am going to lose him forever. I gave up everything to move down here and be with him, my family, friends and job. Is there anything I can do to make him want to come back home?
Hi, Today I made a terrible mistake and broke up with my girlfriend, I was confused and angry because she was spending a lot of time with her Ex boyfriend and I got really Jealous and ended the relationship, now I only got so Jealous because she told me 2 weeks ago she was losing interest and wanted me to be more Romantic and show more Public Affection and I wasn’t doing a great job on it, now I was wondering, how can I get her back?
p.s Giving up is not an option for me, I love her more then anything in this World and she means everything to me.
Three months ago, my wife and I got married. We were doing just fine. Until she started stripping. I wasn’t ok with it, but she started doing it with a friend. I was never ok with it, but I accepted it because I love my wife more than anything in this world. And it was her decision. But a little over two weeks ago, she had a break down after telling her dad what she was doing. She started blaming me for her stripping because of where I work. I dont make enough money where I work to comfortably support us. Which is why she started stripping. Before we got married, I had promised her I’d get a new job. But I kept putting it off. I had every intention of getting a new job, but I just put it off. And that happened a couple of times. This time, she left. She is staying at a friends house and has been ever since. Ive changed the way I do things. I use to be lazy, but Ive changed that. Im taking resposibility and doing things that I should have done a long time ago. I sold my truck, so 300$ a month goes back into our pockets. Ive been constantly been looking for a job. Got a couple different options coming up. one possibly with the school system. She wont come home because she is afraid I’ll quit searching for a job. And she doesnt trust me when I tell her that I promise to do everything I say im going to do. But after what Ive done, can you blame her? Saturday, she talked to me and said, she wanted an Anullment. But a couple hours later, she tells me that she is going to hold off on the anullement because she loves me. And I know she does. She said dont call or txt her. She’ll call me. She called me after 3 days. Today. She said she was calling to hear my voice and to see how the job search was going. ive been looking for a Fulltime job that pays more than minimum wage for over 2 weeks now. Its hard to find somthing like that. And believe me, ive been looking as hard as I can. I have a few connections and maybe able to get a job with the School System here as a Custodial/Maintanence engineer. I guess you could say, Janitor. Im in college but they are all online classes. Thank god. But i cant convince her to come home and let me show her how much ive changed. And im afraid that if I cant get this job fast, she’ll get tired and leave for good. I love my wife. I know ive made some mistakes in the past. But I am human. And i want to make up for all that. But How can I show her if she isnt home and I cant call her? Any suggestions?
Earlier I have been a party goer & used to drink on many occasions.
however due to my wife going to her parents place a 5 times( in 9 years) after disapproving me as a husband & I going to her native & promising her of no more of booze.( we are both Hindu nuclear family, my parents are dead)
I have 2 kids & I love them more than I love anything in this world.
I have been off booze for more than.
However a month ago due to house shifting & the labourious work during the shifting I had a beer,& may be due to my long ( approx 15 months) abstinence I lost conscious whe i reached home & fell on floor at around 4.30pm.when i woke up at 5.45 pm I found my wife & kids missing.
I rushed to rly stn. & could not find them,subsequently i went to police station for a report i was advised by them to bring wife’s photo so that they can take fir,the police noted my mobile No., later while going to fetch the photo I informed my wife’s relatives that I am going for a fir, to which they vehemently asked not to do that.
next day i got news that wife & kids reached their native.
after that my wife’s brother is threatening me, i have done all possible under earth to plead to my wife that i love my kids & this will never happen again,but this is not beleved by her.
wife’s relatives have been telling me that we will make her agree to return but I should not inform about it to anybody,
now after 20 days of silence from my side, my wife wants Rs. 30000 every month else she will go to court,
also her brother said he will meet me with lawyers and divorce papers to be signed by me.
I will never sign any paper, they may beat me or infact I may get killed by my wife’s brother.
I want your advise on how can I save my marriage & family.
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