he just broke up w/ me… needed a break i think(cuz i was the longest GF hes ever had by bout 3 months)… we went out for bout 4 1/2 months… im POSSITIVE he still has feelings for me but he says he’s confused and doesnt wanna hurt me-i dont mean physically-… but Im still majorly in LOVE w/ him… i know he likes it when girls play hard to get but iv never done that & im not sure how so advice on that would be great to!…. also he’s Mexican and im white so actions speak stronger then words, i mean he speaks pretty good english & im learning spanish so talking isnt any problem at all….. he treats me great & makes me happier then any1 else ever has, friend, BF, family any1(we were BFF b4 we everstarted goin out but i dont wanna lose my chance at getting him back as a BF) but any advice would be greatly appritiated…. ill take as much as i can get
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my ex and i was going out for 2 years and he said we was never going to get back together but he always told me that he still love me well lately we been talking like b4 when we was going out with out no fights thank god ,well im goin to his house next week to hang out but how can u tell if he wants you back ?
but he said that im doing better with out him that why he think that we shouldn’t work it out but we working it out slow
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He went abroad 2 study&won’t come back b4 2years.He’s 22&I’m 25.We’ve matured together&been through a lot.I love him very much&can’t stand even to imagine him with another girl since I used to dream about getting married to him someday.But nowadays I want 2 meet new people&experience new relationships both emotionally&sexually. Whenever he has time he comes but we don’t have a great time.I’m not sure if he’s the one.I’m a dominant person&he’s usually passive.I don’t want my dreams in life to be his dreams;I don’t want him to live MY ideal life.Sometimes I feel that he may be much happier in the long term with another girl&it would be better for me to be with a person who is more masculine.On the other hand,I have a feeling that I can’t find someone better because he’s the best man I’ve ever known including my father.I’m afraid of regretting later.Also we have so many memories together&I’m such a melancholy person that I dunno how to recover if I break up.But I feel that I need a change
My mind is really mixed up.*sigh*I wish I could just pause my relationship for some time and live another life and then decide.But I know this is impossible.
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hey my ex boyfriend now we were together for 4 years and we lived together but one day out of teh blue he told me it was over and for myself and our son get out and our son will be 2 in nov the ? is how do i prove it too him that i love him and want too be with him i never cheated on him and when i ask him to have our family back he tells me know what can i do plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help me
added my child is just 18 mo old
added my child is just 18 mo old opps and when i ask for my family back he tells me no i know i spelled it wrong b4 lol
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Hubby works a lot & then he goes to a garage to work on cars almost every nite. I have tlkd to him about this b4 and he blames me for everything. Tells me the kids dont like him b/c of me, we are broke b/c of me, our marriage sux b/c of me, I feel that sometimes I am at the point to where there is nothing he can do to make it btr, but I dont want to give up on us either. He use to be so attentive to me and kids and now there is nothing. We went thru some bad times last sumr, he wldnt come home until 4-5 in the a.m. or not at all, and of course nothing wld be going on with him, now he tells me to get over it and I am having a hard time with that. I am scared to be myself around him for some reason. I have always been loyal to him, sure I have done dumb things I am not perfect, but living everyday knowing that someone blames you for everything and I mean everything breaks u down and its hard to deal with. I dont want a divorce but what can I do? I am just scared & hurt. Advice??
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