Okay, so I’ve been dating this guy for a year and 7 months. It started out AMAZING but lately, the spark has been dying for me. Than I started texting one of my old guy friends and we’ve been talking for about 2 weeks NON STOP. Even when we TEXT I get butterflys. He calls me "baby" and "babe" and he says he loves me but I don’t know in what kind of way. I do all those things to him too BTW. Anyways, I LOVE my boyfriend to death, but like I said, he’s just boring now. What should I do?
I do love my boyfriend HONESTLY. I lost my virginity to him.
and btw, i never dated the guy i’m texting.
My boyfriend tells me i’m sexy but i’m not sure how to respond besides a "thanks baby ;" or a "Thank you babe" i mean sometimes i think that’s not enough to say back or reply, what else should i say when he gives me compliments like that?
My boyfriend of a yr & a half broke up with me this past week & the week before. the week before he decided he wanted to work on things.
I’ve been trying to not contact him but i failed & called him the other day & he asked how have you been doing babe & talking to me. I went to see him at his work yesterday & asked if he would get back together w/ me & we could do things slowly.
He still loves me but we were fighting alot. I am likely to see him at a mutual friends birthday tonight. I wrote him a letter but don’t know if i should give it to him, since I cried my eyes out in front of him at his work.
He said hes just been focusing on himself for now…hes not interested in being with anyone else & hopes I don’t do the same. I told him i can’t wait forever & put my life on hold. Our relationship was good when we didn’t fight.
I love him so much still.
I want us to get back together before Valentines day. I want this badly because last year this time, we weren’t together. He had broken up w/ me after 2 months, but since then we’ve been back together since last march 08.
What should I do to make this happen? I’m just so heartbroken.
My Boyfriend..(Now Ex) and I Were Going Out.
But..It’s Summer 09 and Wednesday Was our Last Day and he said Text You tonight and he keeps ignoring me and I have To Go ZAC just to get a simple Wat. and I no hes not busy because hes not busy to say Wat and i called him and he could have just answered and said im busy. But no. So hes Been ignoring my texts, phone calls, and hasn’t said i love you, or called me babe and when i asked if he was breaking up with me because i thought it was a hint but he just kept saying "No." What was he doing??
Please Don’t say he was busy or give him space.
P.S I broke up with him and he never replied to that either and he usually goes Please don’t do this to me. He always wants me back so should i take him back after all this??
He also promised he wouldn’t ignore my texts again after the last break up.
I’ve been dating/talking to this guy for about a month and a half (though I met him a month prior). He’s…wonderful. I know he cares, he doesn’t have his mind on one thing and he really does adore me. I appreciate so many things he does for me & according to him he feels he "should be doing more b/c it’s not enough". Things are goin surprisingly well and since day 1, we’ve always been super comfortable w. each other.
Sooner or later, the "sex" talk was going to be brought up. (I’m actually surprised that he didn’t ask me right away). Thing is, I’m nearing my mid 20′s and i’m still a virgin. I’m not ugly w. a nice personality, nor weird…i’m very protective and picky…it just didn’t happen…didn’t feel right during those times. I’ve done other things BUT "that". I’ve only cared for 3 guys in my life. First boyfriend, i loved him but wasn’t "in love" and there was no chemistry; 2nd guy had too many STD’s and the 3rd…wasn’t "real love"…I just don’t wanna let it go so easily. I’m not ashamed at all yet past experiences have made me be a bit more conscious about it. My virginity was a deal breaker for some guys I’ve dated and as much as i’m "better off", it still kinda hurts. I’ve also dealt w. numerous guys that have only wanted 1 thing but I never let him succeed. With this guy, he’s not like other guys i’ve dated…i actually care about him…alot. So I was very hesistant/nervous/scared/anxious in telling him. So when I did, I got the typcal reaction, "geuninely shocked" and asked if i was really joking/lying "b/c there’s no way a pretty girl like you, would still be a virgin." (as I get fr. alot of guys i’ve dated). I got sensitive to it and just cried. And after he soaked it all in said, "babe, even if you stayed a virgin ’til the day you die, it doesn’t matter…and its okay, don’t worry. I’m not here for that. I want you and that love you give me b/c i’m happy…" The reason I get insecure is b/c guys can say how much they "respect" it and their gone or create their escape plans…i actually care about this guy. He then said, if it was a problem to him, the rest of the conversation would be awkward and we still stayed on the phone for another 2 hrs. He’s still normal around me and to make me feel better, he suggested to stop w. the "sex talk" and if I feel okay to talk it out, then we would another time. He admitted that for him as a guy, his # of women (who he slept w.) is considered "low" for a guy. I asked if he was relived hearing about me and he said, "a bit but it really doesn’t matter". Anyhoo, things are fine but I can’t helpt but feel insecure…
I’m not pressured to do anything w. him….but opening up that virgin confeeision made me get insecure. How can I rebound back and stop being insecure about it?
He’s a "shy guy" type btw…if that helps…and the # of girls he’s slept w? you can count in one hand and it’s been w. his serious, long term gf’s…i’ve got a good guy
