I am just wondering if it is bad for me to miss her 6th birthday? My ex and I was only together for 2 years and her daughter was with us the entire time. She did start to call me dad also. But then our relationship fell apart and now my ex and her daughter moved to another state. Well we have been broken up for almost 1 year now and she was wanting me to show up for her daughter’s birthday party. Is it wrong or a bad idea if I do? I mean my ex and I still get along and we communicate regularly. Also, is it wrong or bad if I don’t show up for her birthday? I don’t know what to do? I don’t want to give her daughter the impression that we are getting back together. As I want to move on with my life.
LOL…sounds crazy, right? I started dating my boyfriend several months ago. He was at the end of the 1 year seperation required by SC law before a divorce can be granted. His ex was going to go to his lawyer, sign the papers, and they were going to be done with it. Ever since she found out that he is dating someone new (me:-) she has announced she "is not signing shit" (classy, huh?) and that she is taking him to court, is out for blood, custody of the 2 kids, and money. He and I don’t want to do it and don’t want to lie to the kids, but we are considering staging a break up…him telling her he failed at his relationship with me and that we are no longer together so she will calm down and sign. Several months later she will find out we "got back together". Is this crazy? Bad idea? Good idea? Advice please and thank you!
Alright, so 2 nights ago I broke up with boyfriend of 2 and a half years. Obviously I still care for him and love him, but he was verbally abusive and he definitely took me for granted.I made it clear to him that I didn’t have any intention on staying with him.. and NOW he cares. The endless phone calls and texting, telling me how he wants me to take him back, and that he’s "changed." He has had endless chances with me, and he didn’t ever take my feelings into perspective until it was too late.
Yesterday, we met up because I had left my ipod at his house. He walked and talked with me, and he cried the whole time..I feel awful for hurting him but I can’t stand being in an unhappy relationship. I ended up changing my FB status to some alexisonfire lyrics, and as soon as he saw them, he texted me telling me he was glad I wanted him back.. also, he has threatened many times to take his own life if I don’t get back together with him. I called his house and informed his parents.. they said to continue doing so if he doesn’t stop. Also, we were supposed to go to prom together.. and now he wants to go as "friends," this sounds like a bad idea to me.. does anyone else think so too?
What can I do to make it clear that I don’t want to be with him, or be in a relationship for that matter,without driving him over the edge? Thanks in advance.
I think second chances are a bad idea. There was a reason for the split in the first place, and chances are, the reason will still be there the second time.
(Although I have had weak moments and gone against that opinion)
Have you given an ex a second chance? How’d it turn out for you?
Whenever it comes up with my friends they always say its a terrible idea. I really like the girl im dating and i like the idea of saving my first time till marriage (and shes cool w that) is there something im missing here?
