How to deal heartbreak?

Ive been asking alot of questions on here about the "relationship" between me and my "boyfriend" like how hes been using me for sex and dosent care for me or respect me and your answers to my questions have really helped me so i decided I was going to talk to him about it on sun. morning
But i went to the town picnic on sat. night and i saw him there and he saw me there but it seem like he didnt want to talk to me and was mad at me or something, then he kept on watching me and "keeping track" of what i was doing like he thought i was there to cheat on him or somethin, then he kept on following me around at a distiance with his group of friends and then when ever he came real close to me and he knew i was looking at him he would put his arm around one of the girls him and his friends were walking around with, i looked straight at him and he look straight at me then he put his arm around her again to make sure i saw.
so then i called him and the girl anwsered and she told me he had moved on, to take my mydol, and grow up, i was firious but i knew i shouldnt be mad at her (even tho she had no reason to talk to me like that) so then i just left the picnic the next day he called me and said he was sorry and was in a really bad mood cause something happened that day (he wouldnt say what) he said he was sorry but i told him i couldnt talk then and i would call him back cause i didnt know what to say but he hurt me really bad that night and it killed me to see his arm around that other girl,
the wierd thing is he never gave me any indication to why he was mad that night because he was perpously tring to make me mad and jelouse and i want to know why what can i do



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Please, I Need Your Help?

Should I? Please, I need your help!

I was recently with my girlfriend ( of almost a year and a half), when she called her ex-girlfriend of 2 years. Oh the phone, its obvious that they still have something between them, but only because they were serious for 2 years.

Tonight i asked my g/f if she would mind if i text her ex. All of a sudden she got an attitude with me and was like, “I don’t see why you would want to talk to her.” I told her b/c i just want to know why she doesn’t like me. I have never been rude, disrespectful, or mean to this girl, and in the beginning of my g/f and my relationship the ex would make up any excuse ot lie to try to get us to break up.

I have never liked her ex, she was nothing but rude to me in the beginning of our relationship, and she was always telling my g/f that she wanted her back and she wanted to marry her. Luckily for me my g/f never fell for it.

I told my g/f i didnt like her talking to her ex in the beginning b/c it was putting a very hard strain on your relationship. The ex is capable to making my g/f in a bad mood , VERY QUICKLY. But she never stopped talking to her for longer than a month (either they would get so mad at eachother , or the ex would change her number).

Now they never talk b/c i told my g/f i didnt want her ex having her new cell phone number. Now she only calls her from my phone and when i am with her. She has also told her ex that if she ever wanted to hang out it would never be just them, i would be there too. i have never had a problem with that as long as im there. but its never happened.

I just want to talk to the girl, i have told my g/f that i dont need or want to start anything ( as she accused me of wanting to do), i just want to have a civilized conversation with the girl. me and her have talked through my g/f, but only to make jokes, me and her have never talked directly.

I need your opinion, should i text her. I am being honest about why i want to talk to her. Should i or not????


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WHY don't straight girls understand this?

…Just answer me this.

Why is it that a large portion of straight girls looooove gay men, but then when it comes to lesbians, they’ll freak and begin to flatter themselves by saying, "What if she likes meeee?" Why are we seen as such threats?

And the same goes to straight men who freak out at gay men, though they seem to engage in a more physically violent or outward way, or even keep the "psst, psst, he likes me" talk to themselves.

Because, GOD FORBID a disgusting dyke chick find you attractive or admire you, and you feel the threatened need to shut them out of your life no matter what sort of pleasant experience you’ve had previously, and add to the gossip circle when one hasn’t even given you a second chance.

I can’t even talk to a straight girl without her snickering to another girl or starting sh*t about how she’s uncomfortable or feels that I’ve been checking her out, simply because I’d like to get closer or talk, or become friends. Since when can’t one talk to another without suspectability of attraction, if that?

I’ve never in my life met a straight girl that’s actually cool with bisexual girls or lesbians and doesn’t find them "creepy" or scare-mongers herself into thinking she’s somehow universally attractive to every chick with short hair and who likes to play sports. I know that the supportive straight chicks DO exist, but most of the time, they’ll go on a half-a$$ scale and only talk to gay men. And there are a very few that DO support bis and les chicks, but would someone on Yahoo! Answers please tell me; WHERE IN HELL ARE THEY ? :( -END RANT.- *sigh*

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I’m in an incredibly bad mood due to yet another failed attempt/ruined friendship upon a straight girl finding out that I’m gay, when I’ve held less than ten conversations with her, tops. Potential acquaintance rate is now down to zilch once again. These past 3 years have just not been my years, eh? (:

So, my real 2 questions here that I would like to ask you:

1. How do I advert stupid girls thinking I like them when I do not? And even if I happened to fancy them, how can I avoid being "outed" when I’ve displayed completely mellow behavior, only to be released by my sexuality?

2. How can I possibly engage myself, as a semi-open lesbian, into "normal" female activities (such as changing for gym class, participating in class plays that involve male-female romance, etc.) without experiencing said awkwardness or facing constant confrontation?

When will my reign of shame end?!

(inb4 "Why do you only try to make friends with straight girls?". Because trust me, I don’t.)

And if you want to know why I’m so upset at the moment: because a female acquaintance told me that she "could never be friends with" a gay girl because there was [REPORTEDLY] "always" a "chance" that the girl would "like her", and that "our friendship just wouldn’t work that way". And YES, this was in reference and response to ME, since a family member who goes to the same school made a certain commentary that outed me to her.
WOAH, I just realized how much I wrote. That was WAY more than 2-3 questions.

SORRY, GUYS.


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Can you give me some advice on how I can get her back without seeming desperate? Awhile ago my girlfriend thought that I didn’t like her anymore. But in reality, I was just in a bad mood all the time and she thought I didn’t like her anymore. And since she thought that, she slowly stopped liking me and broke up with me yesterday.

And I told her I never stopped liking her, but she said it was too late and now she doesn’t like me anymore. ):

Is there any possible way to get her back?


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THIS IS WHY WE BROKE UP:
-bad @ directions. i’m a guy
-Forgot her favorite color, but got it the 2nd try
-Left ID @ club, and didn’t want to pay for a new ID so I just waited and then it ruined our plans because I couldn’t get into a club
-Didn’t have passport in car, when she supposedly told me to put it there
-Didn’t lock car doors. She hated that
-Texted her instead of calling like I said I would. Happened once
-Repeated myself, once
-Hung out with Ex-girlfriend. I had to give her back something and she asked me out to dinner and I agreed
-Tried to make her feel good with a compliment. She said I was being over-confident
-Being reactive, instead of proactive. I just live in the moment.
-I failed to know how she was feeling at ALL times. Honestly, that’s impossible to do
-MOST IMPORTANTLY: Pushed for us to be together when she told me she was unsure and didn’t think she was ready. In the end she finally told me she still had feelings for her ex and wasn’t over him
The thing is everyone tells me that she was picky and just not satisfied, but honestly the only real mistake was me hanging out with my ex, which I said I would never do again. I just want her to realize that she wasn’t happy because she was always pesimistic and that we could have been happy if she would have just loosened up. Girls say they hate argueing, but why do they get mad over little stuff like giving a overly confident compliment? I dunno… maybe I should just let go, but Love is blind and I guess I’ve learned to look past all the shit she put me through and still love her for the person she is. Why can’t she do the same? How do I prove to her that she made a mistake and attract her once again?
We had great times. She said she loved me, we talked about how are kids would be like, we were great when she wasn’t in a bad mood. She just felt like I never listened to her. How do I prove to her that I did? I’ve done many things to prove to her that I do, but maybe she doesn’t listen to me. Do you think she will come back if I walk away and start dating other girls? How do I get her to choose me over her ex?


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