I know this sounds like a stupid question but I used to be in incredible shape… not that I am in bad shape now but not how I used to be. Since I graduated high school last year and started college I have definitely noticed a change. I used to Cheer and Dance in H.S. and I played softball, now my only athletic opportunities are studying. My boyfriend is in incredible shape and I know it should not matter what he thinks (which he thinks I look great) but I just want to be back to my old self by his B-Day (June 16). Here are my stats… Currently i’m 128 lbs. and I am 5’6", in HS I was around 115lbs. I think the Depo Shot has helped contribute to the weight but I know it is because of a lack of exercise and good nutrition. I have the drive and the gym membership but I want the quickest way possible w.out hurting myself. I just want to tone myself (lose weight/gain muscle) I dont think it will be that hard… Any Suggestions??

-Jana (like Hana)


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kids. she had also complained that i took my mothers side on something instead of hers. every couple months we get in such large fights over something i didnt do right that she gives me her wedding ring back. in my defense, i dont get home from work until 630 at night and do help clean when i get home. she has a short fuse and gets easily aggravated with me. i feel like i am walking on eggshells sometimes. we have 2 young sons that do need me around. we havent had sex in over a year and a half since my youngest son was conceived. i am a generally easy going person, which to some extent, my wife has told me bothers her in that she says i don’t act like a man and take charge often. i do earn a good salary that lets her stay home with the kids. my wife has told me that she does sometimes feel stuck with me during arguments and that she sort of regrets marrying me. i realize this question rambles but i’m explain our marriage in a nutshell. can a marriage in this bad shape be saved?


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