Yes it has he has had multiple request from his ex girlfriends and other girls to talk to him. I tried to talk to him about how I feel about this he flipped out and said that I need to trust him. It’s not that I dont trust him its that he is talking to his ex’s and other girls. I feel that if he has respect for me that he will stop talking to them. He says that I am in the wrong and that he is not going to stop. I do not know what to do! Today he changed his status from engaged to nothing now and when I confronted him about it he really got mad and started yelling at me. He has now made his page private so I cant see what he says to these girls. I feel that since he changed it to private maybe he has something to hide from me. what should I do?? should I trust him?? We have a 2 year old child and before I had her we had a very bad time there was a problem with this girl who was suppose to be my friend I found them in my house and she was on my couch in her pj’s we had a big fight and he said that they slept together then he said he was just trying to make me mad. I dont want to believe it but I think about it now since he has started this now. Please Help!!
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We’ve had a pretty roller coaster relationship for about 5 years. I’d even call it emotionally abusive in the sense that he was withholding, jealous, and controlling. During our long distance phase he refused to visit me at all (he’s visited me once in all of our 5 years together) and often yelled at me if i accidentally called him at a bad time or would act annoyed that he had to call me.
At the time I thought that was about as good as it could get for me, so I stayed with him, though we’d break up and get back together constantly.
I broke up with him about 6 months ago because I couldn’t take his crappy treatment anymore. I’m currently dating someone else.
The thing is, my ex and I talked a LOT since we broke up, nearly every day (he’d call me). It wasn’t until I started dating this guy that I kind of stopped picking up his calls or calling him back. Usually my ex wouldn’t care but apparently he suddenly decided he wanted me back (again) and started doing his whole guilt tripping emo thing by telling me he wasn’t going to call me anymore so if i wanted to talk to him i had to call him.
I’d call him periodically every few days but he ended up getting super pissed a week later off about this lack of calling and threw a hissy fit, txting me things like “you aren’t worth my time” and “i’m done with people like you”. I’m not sure what his emotional status is right now but he drove down with some friends to where I’m going to school right now and wanted to “spend the night” at my place, to which i told him to gtfo.
ANYWAYS TLDR:
I’m so sick of this vicious cycle. What’s the best way to tell your ex that you just want to be friends without him going apeshlt? I’d prefer not to tell him about this current guy right now in his current state because a) he’ll be horrible about it and b) i don’t even feel like i have an obligation to tell him because he’s never been honest to me about other girls.
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So here is my story. I had known this girl for past one year "intermittently" 
. She is Korean. First time we broke up with no reason. She just stopped calling! 3 months later she calls me and says that she was going through some bad time as she had to take care of her studies and other personal things. I gave her a second chance. We went out for nearly two months. And during that time we "did it" only twice – Now that was not the issue mmm.. perhaps it was to an extent but not entirely. I did tell her that I like her and she knew that but never expressed her feelings towards me or avoided the topic. I really did romance her a lot but I always felt she was not giving in as much to the relationship as I was. Well a point comes when you feel that you have tried enough..and so I stopped calling her. She did try once to reach me but I did not return the call. We did not connect for two months. She calls me last week again. Shall I give her a third chance?
Some one asked what is the point of me saying "she is korean". I am not sure. I always felt that she has some sort of weird fascination towards "white guys". Btw I am not white. I got from her comments that they dig white guys back in Korea or atleast all girls want to date one. But she never expressed this openly. But one could tell..
One more thing – I must confess I was attracted to her and still am. Although I do not have burning "feelings" for her or anything. Someone said – that I should give her a third chance if I like her. But I do not want to give her another chance because "only" I like her. I want to make sure she carries the same interest.
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My bf isn’t always the kindest to me. we tease each other a lot but sometimes he takes things way out of line. my guy friends love to diss me too and sometimes he joins in and hardly defends me. I’m gonna break up with him soon but even after I do break up with him, how can i heal the emotional pain i’ve gone through?
didn’t want ot break up with him now cuz new years eve is coming and seems like a bad time to do it. i’m 18
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Ok, so I am at the lowest point in my life the pain I feel now is 100 times worse than how I felt when my father died – that was a very bad time, but I recovered after 6 months. I lost my wall street job, that I worked so hard to get, been unemployed for almost two years, abandoned by family and people I thought were friends, broken relationships and completely broke. The next step down will definitely be the grave. I just cannot envision if or how things can possibly turn around. The only time I feel any kind of relief is when I am asleep. How can one have any kind of hope when feeling this low. Is it possible that some people are just meant to live in pain? Any thoughts will be appreciated
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